2017. november 30., csütörtök
Gender-Fluid Clothing Line Looking for Redditors to Join Product Testing Community!
Hi! I founded a gender-fluid clothing line in which we create unisex clothes that are fitted by body shape, not gender! We also donate a portion of our proceeds to The Ali Forney Center, The Trevor Project, and Free2Luv. We are looking for people who would be willing to test products and provide feedback. I thought I would reach out here to see if anyone would be interested, and if so, please let me know! We would love it!! There is sadly no compensation involved at the moment, but we do hope to be able to give out clothing once the product is finished and also overall create a safe space for people to discuss and get to know one another.
Questioning my sexuality?
I think I might be bi but I don’t know. I’m a 16 year old guy and I’ve always felt a little attracted to guys, like for instance when I was in preschool I remember me and my best friend kissed and when I went home and told my family they said that’s not okay and that I can’t be doing stuff like that, so since then I haven’t really done anything like that. When I was about 10-15 I was slightly homophobic around my friends, like we’d make a lot of gay jokes and stuff and I’d take it to the next level a lot of times and make the jokes for offensive. Then one time I remember we saw this statistic that was like 1 out of every 3 guys are gay, we immediately started pointing fingers in our group of who we think would be gay. I quickly defended myself because I thought it was a bad thing. Then a a couple of months later I met this one friend who I’ll call Steve. Steve is an amazing friend and mentor, he was overweight at one point and lost a lot of weight and is continuing to do so, I’m overweight as well and so he was inspiring and he really reminded me of my dad with the motivational stuff he’d say. Anyway he told me later that he was bi. He explained to why he thinks he’s bi, he said that being bi is when you notice a person of your gender to be attractive. He said you don’t have to be attracted to them like wanting to do stuff with them but it means that you notice they’re good looking. And me being friends with him and look up to him opened my mind up, because before I was extremely close minded and now I express my self so much more and am being myself even if people call me names. Like I’ve grown out my hair gotten earrings and done more stuff that are known to be feminine. Then I noticed I do things that I don’t know are signs. For example a lot of guys look at girls’ ass right, and I do too but for some reason I also look at guys ass. Also when i watch porn I can never really watch lesbian porn because i don’t know it just doesn’t turn me on like guy on girl. And I’m thinking that could maybe attribute to that. I don’t know. Also I have really deep feelings for all my guy friends, like I say I love you and stuff like that occasionally. I’ve also since then embraced a lot of the songs that before I would call gay. Like before I met Steve my favorite rapper was logic and he had dropped the album titled Everybody, and I didn’t like it at the time because I thought it was gay like he was too in touch with his feelings on that album. Although now coming back to that album it’s one of my favorites because of how much he stresses the message Peace Love and Positivity for all people regardless of race, religion, color, creed, and sexual orientation. Anyway please give me your thoughts, I know I’m the only one who can really make that decision if I’m bi or not but I’d really appreciate your thoughts. Thank you. :)
Gay men are undeniable the biggest subculture guilty of culturally accepted sexual assault
Not physically violent sexual assault. But rather verbal and unwanted touching (or implied touching IE pretending to give fellatio etc.)And it's not even close.
Finally Came Out To My Crush...
So... I'm Bi, but my current crush is toward my roommate so I've been posting about him on mostly gay related subreddits.There was an incident a while back which made me think he didn't even think of me as a friend, but after a while, and clearing up some misunderstandings, we've become so much closer, and I've become somewhat of his keeper. (I'm the only one he listens to when he gets super drunk and that fact alone made me cry with gratefulness.)Anyhoo, I've come to terms that he is super straight and that I should move on, and only think of him as a friend. Well this is much easier said than done when he's constantly being nice and considerate towards me and makes jokes that he would leave a girl just for me etc.I told a friend (the only person I've came out to sober) about this crush and she told me that saying my feelings out loud might help me get over them. What I failed to realize was that she didn't mean in front of my crush himself, but my drunk self on the topic of gay clubs, told him, and others who were there, that I was Bi, that I thought he was good looking, had found him attractive, but now love him like a brother.Wow. His reaction moved me even more. He said he sort of knew, but didn't want to mention anything because he didn't want to ruin our relationship ("Wow... I was THAT obvious, huh?"), thanked me for saying that he was good looking, and that he was grateful for the way I feel about him.He DID NOT say that he DIDN'T have feelings for me, but that's not the point (nor is it important to me anymore). Telling him how I truly felt really lifted a huge weight off my chest and I feel so much comfortable with myself AND around him.I previously made a post about 'Why We Shouldn't Crush On Straight Guys,' but I totally change my mind now. Crush on whoever your heart goes to... AND TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL. Sure, it might not go as well as it did for me. Sure, you might not get accepted. Sure, you might even get rejected and ridiculed. But, saying how you feel out loud helps you accept yourself and your deepest feelings, and move past them.Thanks for reading another stupid long post, but just thought I'd share.
When bars and parties are no option, what do you do?
25, male, I don't drink and am introverted.The autumn melancholy hit me rather hard this year. I've got triggered by some innocent looking (feelz) game I shouldn't have played, oh well. It's nasty and takes longer than usual to get back on track. It almost forces me to try something new.What possibilites are there to get around people? Can be anything, but should be something IRL.I don't think I will ever get over myself to meet someone over a dating site.
Opinions on LGBTQ+ education in schools?
Hey there! I am working on a project about LGBTQ+ education in public schools, and would appreciate your input! Here is the google form: http://ift.tt/2kbatw8
My family is disrespectful to my gay cousin
OK so recently my cousin came out as gay and my whole family is not taking it very, uh, lightly? Well, the adults aren't. Us cousins and siblings are like "Cool!" "Good for you!" "That's great and all but can we order pizza NOW?" "No, we're broke." "Oh yeah." But the adults are like "That's. Great. Son." "Did someone touch you?" "Gran! Don't be so blunt! Oh that's... wonderful, sweety." "Oh." huddles in group "Who touched my grandson!" "Now how am I supposed to get grandchildren!" "Will my son be gay?" "I hear it's genetic..." turns around grins eats awkwardlyIt's kind of annoying. My parents keep talking about how bad his parents must feel. Every time I go to a friend's house they're always cautious as if I'm going to suddenly fart rainbows and exclaim my love for my dear friend Marty who I've secretly been dating for five years (Woah! I didn't see that one coming! This movie deserves SIX stars!). My poor baby brother who's not even in high school yet is already being told, at 10 years old, not to be friends with any gays until he's certain what he likes. I'm kind of scared of what will happen if he turns out to be gay. (DEPORTED)A few days ago a showed my Mom a song which included (Oh my! what a sin!) LESBIANS! (Dear God not the lesbians! faints) She said, "Oh my God. Why are they encouraging this?" And I said, "What's wrong with it? That it's two girls? It's not like they're saying, "IF YOU DON'T JOIN OUR GAY CULT YOU WILL BE CURSED FOR A TRILLION SUNS." Calm down. They're not encouraging anything. Jesus..."Honestly, why are my parents so old fashioned? It's not like there's a gay plague going around and anyone who catches it is doomed to hell. We're not even religious. What's wrong with being gay? Jeez...
Just realised 'Bohemian Rhapsody' is Freddie Mercury's coming out song
Yeah, I know, I'm a slow learner. But recently I've been wondering if Freddie has ever come out as gay publicly, since he was from a very conservative religious family (Indian religion).That's when I thought of Bohemian Rhapsody, which lyrics I could never make sense of. And then they made sense. "Momma, I just killed a man", "Gotta leave you all behind and face the truth", "He's just a poor boy from a poor family. Spare him his life from this monstrosity"So I googled it. And it is true (confirmed by his ex lover).It's amazing how a song I've been listening to for as long as I can remember suddenly has a completely different meaning and has become even more powerful.
should I visit this guy?
will try to simplify this...There's a guy that I've known for a few years, we hook up occasionally. He's on my facebook and we message every now and again.He just bought a house in LA, and I was congratulating him and jokingly invited myself to visit. He was like YES, come, it's not an issue. He's really fun in bed, and he's a nice guy. But here's the BUT...I find our communication to be weird. I'll message him and want to get to know him better through certain questions, but he will respond with one or two words and keep it brief. BUT when he has something to say to me he'll go on and on. He messaged me and confessed about his marriage coming to an end, and than he messaged me about his ex boyfriend and their issues.So when he wants to unload, he's all chatty, but when I want to chat he doesn't really engage. SO I'm just a little iffy on flying out to him because of that. I wouldn't say he's reliable in that way.What do you guys think? Should I actually let him know how I feel? Just book the flight and see what happens? Or just not go?And please if you guys need to ask me followup questions do it...
Enraged
Anyone else get tired of seeing happy gay couples, gay couples getting married and so on? I feel like they are mocking me. Ok, you get to marry and be happy, accepted by your family, society and country, that's wonderful , but I don't, so STOP rubbing it in my face damn it!
R/Gay
18 year old guy here. I’m really having trouble getting over an conversation I had with my aunt so I want your opinion on how to build that motherfucking bridge and put it behind me.So, this aunt is a devout Christian (dammit they always are.) she has always been an incredibly kind woman and very generous to me and my sisters in lieu of her being unable to have children with her husband. Recently we had a family dinner and I decided to wear a long skirt (I’m a bit if a fashion fanatic and enjoy them in a sense that I don’t consider cross dressing) no one said anything and we went about the dinner normally. A few days later, I went out with my aunt on a little excursion. We somehow got on the topic of her friend that we were meeting and how she’s glad I didn’t wear a skirt that day. Obviously I said “what would be embarrassing about it?” And she continued on a large rant beginning with how it makes her uncomfortable, to how me being gay makes her uncomfortable, to how I disgust her and am an abomination (remember, this woman has never showed me any unkindness in my life) I retort sometimes to defend my position. I also explain to her how it’s not a choice, etc. But she continues on to say that I am allowed “special rights” and the rights of Christians have been taken away. She said and I quote “you have more rights than I do as a Christian” (McYikes). So we are still in this car and I’m crying like an idiot. This woman has just told me that the very foundations of who I am as a person are something to be ashamed of and should be dismantled into a straight male archetype. It’s not like I can just jump out, we are on the highway. We continue on for the next few hours to finish our shopping excursion with her friend (the friend knows nothing about this) (side note: friend asks if I have a girlfriend and I explain that I like guys and she was super chill about that) after that day me and my aunt never talked about it. My mother and other aunty gave her shit for it but instead of an honest apology I received an “I love you, I hope you know that.” Should I persist and readdress the issue? (Another goddamn side note: this was a few months ago, she now has cancer and is undergoing chemotherapy). I just feel like she will never understand and I think it might be best to disconnect from her but I don’t want to in her time of need.
2017. november 29., szerda
Blowjobs
Okay so i have a problem with oral sex. it has nothing to do with giving but rather receiving; i always end up getting soft. With my last two boyfriends, this has happened every time they’ve tried to give me head and both of us end up getting frustrated. I think it may have to do with self consciousness about my member downstairs or maybe something else... How do I overcome this and start enjoying oral???
Im gay (not out) and in love with my best friend, who has a girlfriend. But I think he may feel the same way I do. How do I know?
Basically, we’ve been best friends all throughout college and after. We got super close super quick and have been the same since. All throughout college, we would spend the most time together out of our friend group, usually alone a lot of the time. On weekends when we were drunk, we often would sleep in the same bed together or “accidentally” pass out on the couch together. Spooning here and there nothing crazy. People would always joke about us being gay but we would just shrug it off as being best friends. Truth is, I do have feelings for him and something in me is telling me he feels the same. We’ve been out of college a couple years now and are living in separate states. He has a girlfriend that he’s been dating for over two years. But still, I can’t get over the feeling that I had and feel that it has to be there in him too. We often will randomly text “Love you or Ly” to each other, drunk texts how we miss each other. It happened a time or two where I said “too much gay shit” and he freaked out on me asking why I gotta say that, but then he will do the same thing. How do I know if we’re just super close friends like brothers, or if he feels the same way?
tops and bottoms
I recently became aware that gay men are either tops or bottoms. As a heterosexual male this was new and fascinating information to me, and raised a few questions.1) Is the top always the top and the bottom always the bottom, or does the bottom get to be the top every once in a while, like maybe on his birthday?2) why would you want to be a bottom, if there is the option to be a top? 3) how does the top and bottom roles play into oral?I hope none of this is offensive as I am completely ignorant to the topic
Helo out an 18 yo confused Turk
I haven't enjoyed my three hook-ups with men. Guys in İstanbul feel very 1 dimensional regarding their "role" in sex which is a huge turn-off. The 19 yo first one, I just did him a favor - was my first real experience, idiot tried to fuck the virgin hole right away, sucked him off, was completely disappointing. Second one some 30 yo average looking but unlikeable guy sucked me and it was just mediocre - the first time someone gave me oral yet it was just meh, I was pretty much standing still while he was sucking me though (due to inexperience) so I don't really know.Third one was a really hot and cute 35 yo guy. I really liked him, we kissed a lot and I truly enjoyed it. What I didn't enjoy though was the rest. He rimmed me (didn't like it), tried to get inside me right there (seriously what's wrong with these guys? Do they not believe me when I say I haven't taken a dick before?). I sucked him and was just.. okay with it. It was a favor. I feel very confused writing this because I've actually had several dreams where I was dying to take a penis in my mouth. Anyway, I liked chatting with him after he came. Then he made me suck him another round at which point it got sooo exhausting. It went even further; he started slapping me, then slapping HARDER, going even deeper inside my mouth and such. You can see how willing I was to pretend - which is another thing I don't understand. The thing is, I miss him. Although it's only kissing and making out that I miss.At this point I'm guessing I'm a.. top? I was trying to be especially open-minded during sex and I guess I fucked up instead. I still feel weird imagining myself being dominant over someone - not that I haven't hard-fucked all sorts of holes in the past. Also my general preference of men (mature and hairy) seem to differ from that of the general tops? I just feel very unfamiliar to the whole act. What do you guys think?Note: I still haven't found my g-spot to this day (even if I did finger myself quite a lot in the past). Note 2: I was raised a strict muslim. Now an atheist guy with depression and chronic anxiety in his past.
I have fapped about 29 times in no nut November cuz i didn’t realise it was no nut November until 10 days in and then said fuck it.
Az összesítés nem áll rendelkezésre. A bejegyzés megtekintéséhez
kattints ide.
I don’t know what to do
We were in the car while this conversation happened, so I said if you do don’t have anything to say I’m taking you home, and I told him he has time until then to say something so Clarify things because once I got to his house he can forget about me that I didn’t want him to call me or write to me.Half way to his house he said that he didn’t want to loose me, that he was really scared and that he did went blank, I couldn’t help but to laugh a little and I told him “I told you this is not about the sexual stuff it’s about you pretty much saying that I raped you, but I can defiantly tell that you love it” he started to cry and told me that he did really liked it but he isn’t gay, and that the was his only way to not admit to it, that he knows that I asked plenty times if he was ok with it.This is when I cried with him and told him he doesn’t know how much weight he has take. Of my shoulders, I told him I love what we did, I loved the fact that we had the intimacy, for me it wasn’t about the sexual part. He said “I love what we did I liked it but I’m not gay all I can think is what people are going to say, what are my parent going to say? I don’t want to be a disappointment.”I explained that I didn’t think he was gay, and that this was out business. He didn’t have to put a label on it. I didn’t think of my self as gay, and repitted that it was more then the sexual part.After that we been good, I should say his all has happened during last week and it seems like its Been a long time it has been very draining.... all is clear but I can’t help but to want to do it again.... what should I do??Do you guys think I didn’t somethkng bad? Did I handled the situation properly? I think of myself as straight I have never been with a guy before, this is my first time, I don’t look at guys and think they are cute, but I did like having this experience with him, before the drama.Please be honest but keep rude comments to yourself.
Sniff My D*ck Freewrite
He said he wanna sniff my d*ckHe wanna sniff my d*ck He ain't gonna do nothing to it He just wants a little wiff of what's under these hipsHe wants to sniff that sht The hair and balls He wanna check if it's clean And check if I'm fcking off He don't no other ngga to be riding on my sht He selfish, can't blame em plus he wit that kinky sh*tThen he tell me close my eyes Don't you even peek, yeah And don't you move anything while I'm sniffing it, yeahHe nuzzles and he lifts all my inches n sh*t he smelling underneath and moves my nuts, smelling in-between my thighs, my eyes I can't open but I can fantasize Then he lift up everything He go in-between, hear him inhale then I grab a little peek chinese eyes so he can't tellHe sniffing on my dck it's getting hard n sht he give a little kiss up on my tip n sht Then he leave it alone puts on his headphones plays COD all night What the fck...
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21 fit American blond guy looking for fit guys to snap. Send FACE for reply and I will send back @canterking10
First time bottoming with IBS (irritated bowel syndrome)?
Hey all.I've known I'm gay for 3 years now but never had sex before so I'm still a virgin. Through what I watched I feel like I'd love to be the bottom and I finally have the chance to try it out.I've been talking to a guy who is really nice and we want to have sex. He knows I'm a virgin and has been really supportive of me, but he doesn't know that I have IBS.Basically I need to go to the toilet at least like 3 times a day, especially just after I had a meal.I've never thought about this before but now that I have the chance to try something out and have fun, I've only been crying. I feel like I'll be alone forever and I can't have sex because of this.What should I do? I feel like I'll never be loved because of this and everyone's gonna laugh.
o gay mas amado da net esta doentinho e vai ao médico.
magnólio começa sentir alguns encomodos e resolve ir ao medico, uma semana depois sai o resultado do exame, o desfecho cômico engraçado, faz valer a pena essa piada!!!
The longer I date, the less I know what the fuck I'm doing
I swear, I feel like as I get older dating keeps becoming more and more of a foreign language to me. I was dating or in a relationship pretty consistently throughout college and now two years out and I can't seem to connect with a guy longer than 2 dates.I don't think I'm any more socially awkward than any normal person, but I just feel like I'm not keeping up with something and I was never aware there was something to keep pace with. Does anyone feel this way growing older?
What do you guys wear to sleep?
I used to sleep in basketball shorts and a t shirt. Now I usually sleep in boxers only or boxers and basketball shorts. No shirt. I am a bottom and since I’ve become sexually actively I often sleep naked as well. Easy access for guys in the morning to make a move.
2017. november 28., kedd
He bleeds and is in pain.
Hello, my boyfriend and I️ have been dating for about 5 months now. We recently started doing the dirty.I’m top and he’s bottom. My penis is not the biggest by any stretch of the imagination but it isn’t small either. During our sessions in bed he bleeds when I️ insert and thrusts. I️ can tell he is pain and I️ offer to stop but he wants to keep going. This has happened the last three times. He is new to this “in the ass” thing.Is this normal, will it go away? What should I️ do?
Any tips on how to overcome jealousy?
Long story short, I love my boyfriend so very much, he's given me no reason to distrust him, and he's open and honest with me as far as I know. However, I dunno, I get super jealous when he uses his phone for too long, stupid I know but I can't seem to help it. He does live with me, and as I said I have no reason to distrust him. I suppose I'm just not 100% able to believe someone could genuinely love me for me, and I realize that's my own problem to work out but that's another story. My main question here is how to overcome the bits of jealousy I feel sometimes. I don't want to feel this way, and if I could get over this I think I'd be much happier.
(Maybe) Straight friend?
Okay there’s this guy I work with who’s the legitimately the nicest man I’ve ever met. I came out to him maybe a a year ago and nothing changed like I thought it would. He always ends our conversations by saying he loves me, he texts me all the time just to say hey, and asks to hang out all the time, he winks at me and blows kisses, and he even called me cute a few times. He has a girlfriend of 2 years, but he doesn’t really seem happy in the relationship. I love that he does these things to me and I DONT want them to stop. I just want to know if he’s just that comfortable with his sexuality that he doesn’t care, or if he actually has a thing for me. What would be an appropriate way to ask without things getting weird if he is completely straight? I’m afraid that if he senses that I like him then he’ll stop doing all the things I enjoy so much.
In love with a straight guy :(
Honestly, it's usually easy for me to get over crushes. But there is this is one straight guy, who I just love.. I just used to have this on/off crush towards him, but it's just worse now. Like, I can't even be next to him without feeling depressed as shit! Every second I am with him, I just feel gravitated towards him. I've never had such intense feeling before..Any tips on getting over him?
Newbie (Advise for a guy who wants to experiment)
There is a lot of stuff I want to ask here so here me out btw I dunno if this is the right sub for this but whatever. Anyway I want to experiment with guys I’m straight and I like women but I really would like to have a gay experience. My logic is if I try it I might like it. I’ve watched gay porn and it’s not great cos I’m not attracted to men I just like the sex. I know someone who probably would experiment with me if I talked to them, but is this the right thing to do ? Also I would like to know if there are any problems with gay sex (apart from obvious ones) ya know for a first timer. If you can’t help I would love to hear some story’s of your own! Hopefully someone sees this and if you think this is the wrong place for this kind of stuff please redirect me to a suitable sub. Appreciate any advice!
It Hurts.
It hurts not being conventionally attractive. It huts not being a majority of anyone's type. It hurts being ignored completely based off a photo of your face. It hurts having a great conversation, then deleted based off a photo. It hurts feeling ugly. It hurts feeling unwanted. It hurts feeling shunned. It hurts being judged. It hurts being confident then kicked down by your own community. It hurts being in a toxic social bubble. It hurts.
Bottoming
So I haven’t had sex in well quite awhile. After my last bf and I broke up, I haven’t really seen anyone or done anything besides oral. There’s this boy I really do want to have sex with, but I’m super nervous because he’s huge and I’m super tight. Any tips?
Lost interest in my boyfriend
Sooo my boyfriend is great! We"ve been friends for two years and are dating for seven months. Everything was Fine but I suddenly don't care anymore. I don't even wanna see his face. Did this ever happenned to you?
why?
recently in a LGBT convention a man raped lesbian women to make them straight we must no lets this happen any more after this this is the last straw.
I've always believed that love doesn't exist, but I have this strange feeling now...
Hi! Last Saturday I had a bad hangover. I was totally drunk and it seems that somebody has called a hospital in Downtown Vancouver; then an ambulance arrived and I was hospitalized.I mostly don't remember what happened as I was totally drunk and unconscious. However, I still remember one of the guys in the ambulance who had very stunning eyes. He was looking in my eyes, and I was like 'why you are helping someone as bad as me.' I thought he was a police officer when I was drunk. I didn't know what was happening, but I was aware that he was helping me.His eyes OMG I can never forget! His eyes are so beautiful. It's 2 days now and I am still thinking about it. I remember when I was at the hospital on bed, and he was like 7 meters away at the door of the emergency area, and I was looking at him (I was still unaware of what was going on), he looked at me and gived me a wink with his beautiful eyes! I still rememember the wink as strongly as I remember his eyes in the ambulance.Now what should I do about it? I feel like I really need to look into his eyes again, and thank him for the great help he provided. My legs took me today to the hospital to follow up my treatment (actually to see him). After I finished my interviews with the doctors, I went to the emergency area but I couldn't see him around. Is this stalking? He won't feel comfortable if he knows that I went to his work place.Is this love?
Can I get some dating advice?
So, there's this guy that i'm interested in dating, what are some good general tips or guidelines to follow in this situation? And yeah it's through a dating app, yet he is looking for a genuine relationship. I messaged him a month ago and he likes most of the things about me i have on my profile. Except He didn't like the fact that I put "open to hookups" on there. That's what turned him away. Regardless, we talked a bit and I tried to convince him to overlook that. All in all it was to no avail. He gave me some really good life advice after i opened up to him, and after that I messaged him one more time then he blocked me... I don't know what I did because there was no message at all, just blocked. Now he's on this other dating app looking for the same thing and it's been over a month since that fiasco. I want to apologize to him and still possibly ask him on a date? What do I do?
2017. november 27., hétfő
Planning on coming out to my dad today...
Ok, so I've already told him I'm not straight. What I haven't told him, is that I have a girlfriend. We have been dating since early September officially, and non officially since the end of summer.I didn't tell him because I wanted to make sure i knew this was going to be serious before I told him, and also because I'm scared since he's the only person I have left since my mom kicked me out of her house.The one thing he can't stand is lying, and I've definitely been telling him I'm with other friends out late at night, and not this mystery girl that he knows nothing about.Any advice or kind words would be appreciated. I'm gonna need some luck :p
The exact moment your boss leaves the office for the day
https://twitter.com/LeatherBigWolf/status/891710280341893121
Im bi.
I realized this week im truly bi and just wanna suck dick....Am i too picky though?Circumcised Tight, Big, thick, big tip, Sorta Veiny and shaved?
Gay men and body image
I read an article that said that gay men and heterosexual women are the most prone to developing a negative body image.The article argued that this issue stems from rejection by all the men in our lives and Hollywood ideals, and that that is why we are so obsessed with having the perfect body, the perfect face, the perfect fashion on a much larger scale than other men.I think it's really important to talk about this because I feel like this is a problem that often goes unnoticed. It's an interesting subject too because I notice myself subconsciously subscribing to that mindset as well. I've told my family on multiple occasions that I think I'm too fat though my BMI falls well within normal range and everything points to me being healthy. I remember even Will & Grace in multiple episodes talking about how being fat by gay standards is different than by straight standards in a sort of tongue-in-cheek way, but I think they're not even that far off at all. Even with facial beauty, I feel like collectively we are obsessed with being 'on fleek' and there's less room for us to just be average looking and by extension also less room to be okay with our bodies and faces not being perfectly sculpted.Just made me think about how our community has such different beauty standards and such an unhealthy relationship with beauty as a means of acceptance. Wanted to share my thoughts, what do y'all think about this topic?
I'm very confused and would like some help
Little bit of background about me: I grew up in a homophobic and religious household. I always knew deep down I was gay but tried to suppress and deny those feeling til I was 18 and finally said to myself "you're gay". Took me a long time. I was very confused and sad and distraught all the time because I was trying to be straight when I am gay.Anyways on to the thing I'm having trouble with: I'm in love with a woman...I've literally never felt this way about a girl before, and I only feel this way about her... No other girl. I see other women that lots of guys and girls think are beautiful and I can recognize they are but I'm not attracted to any of them. Just herThis is kinda annoying cuz I thought I finally figured everything out, but I guess not. I guess everything is on a spectrumThis reminds me of that scene from Archer but reversed"I'm not straight! For other women!"What? You've lost me""...I don't know how to explain it but their is something about you""That makes you straight for me...?""I like to think of it as more of a singular heterosexual attraction"Am I making any sense? Am I completely crazy???
23yr old virgin.
I’m 23 and gay never had sex with anyone before. I have all the hookup apps. But always scared to talk to people on them. Is this normal, any advice or anything? I’m also slowly coming out to family and friends.
What brand of poppers?
Hello, I’m interested in trying poppers but I want to make sure I get a “safe” brand. Is there a brand of poppers that has a decent reputation for quality? I don’t want to sniff something somebody brewed in their garage or basement.
This is kinda confusing...
But honestly, it seems like EVERY gay bear (at least the daddy bears, but my data might be incomplete) who is online is either Taurus, Scorpio or Leo. While I like to read astrology stuff and make fun of it, this is kinda getting ridiculous, especially if it's hitting pretty close to home.Please tell me I am totally on the wrong track here?
Some advice would be nice. c:
Okey, here is my situation. I am a male, 17 years old. I never had a boyfriend but i think that will change soon. I was doing some Lovoo Online Dating and found this one Dude. Looked like a normal guy, not realy my type but maybe bis personality would be nice ? And it was. We have the same hobbys, political views, humor, etc. We meet up at some point and he is way more handsome than in his pictures.I like him and he likes me i think. We met twice by now and planing on a third time. I already taken a semi-nap on his stomach, like we were chilling and talking.Now to my question. How do i ask him to be my boyfriend or like should i ask that even ? Does it come naturally. And i never "done" anything with someone before. Maybe some broad advice on that too.I know i could of held that waaaaay shorter but i felt like it.
Coming out??
I would have not consider my self as gay I have always thought to be fully straight. I’m 18 and have only had 1 girlfriend for a mouth a couple years ago. Recently at work I have formed a crush on a guy. The guy is openly gay and we get along in a friend wayI don’t have any where to seek advice on what to do considering all my straight friends would be more then shocked and my parents are super Christian. I’ve been confused and pondering on it for a few weeks now. Any word of advice would be great.
Seeing nude women
Just curious. Sorry for the silly question. I respectfully want to know, do you guys feel even a little aroused when looking a nude woman?
I need advice
So I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 8 mos now and we’re heading into the holidays (yay!). His parents are very southern (think certain flags flying in the yard). He also can’t afford to move out and he’s scared to.He is not out to his parents, I went to his thanksgiving and I couldn’t even say I love you to him. I don’t want to be that person and force him out because that happened to me in a sense.His parents think that we’re just best friends but it’s going to kill me to go to our first Christmas and not be able to kiss him and say that I love him.I guess I’m just venting and I’m sorry.I’ll answer any questions as soon as possible and any and would be appreciated.
M4m I'm helping a friend
I have this friend who needs "big daddy" to talk and and get off with. He has snap and is wanting some hung older guy to talk to. Message me if interested we can talk more and discuss.
2017. november 26., vasárnap
First gay crush help
I would not consider my self as gay I have always thought to be fully straight. I’m 18 and have only had 1 girlfriend for a mouth a couple years ago. Recently at work I have formed a crush on a guy. The guy is openly gay and we get along in a friend wayI don’t have any where to seek advice on what to do considering all my straight friends would be more then shocked and my parents are super Christian. I’ve been confused and pondering on it for a few weeks now. Any word of advice would be great.
I (17m) need a friend/boyfriend
This MIGHT seem like a cry for attention and, don't be fooled... it is. I just feel really lonely and like I have no one to talk to. Feel free to message me if you feel the same, or just want some random loser to become friends with :)
Hey, so...
I was wondering what your guts penis sizes were or are when you were 13-14. I know it's not y my place to ask but I'm feeling kinda self conscious about mine so... thanks for the help
Family bigotry
Hello! My family can be so strange. Intelligent one moment, ignorant and fearful the next. We were watching the Macy's thanksgiving day parade, and I caught myself muttering "Bigot!" several times. My mom and 16yr sister is pissed off because there are 4 spanish songs on mainstream radio. Then, a Barbie commercial came on, with the tagline, "You can be anything". The sister giggles and says sarcastically, "Well it's easy to be anything if you don't know anything" and "just because you can, doesn't mean you should". Also, lesbians and gay men are gay because they were abused as children. I know this is true for pedophilia, but has been debunked years ago when used against gays. This may sound petty, but I hear this garbage every other day and I need to vent.
Dream Daddy - You mean I don't have to be a model to be gay?
So let me make this simple.... I'm large. LIke 6'3", 3xl chest, a belly, and flaming red hair and beard. In my 45 years I've often been made to feel that I'm not the a "good looking twinky gay". It really warms my heart that the game Dream Daddy actually lets me see people with my body type as happy normal folks. You're not limited to just one body type, or one type of person. It's a great game and more importantly to me a great vision of a broadening community acceptance of all body types.
Guy at work?
Not a manager, co-worker (I honestly don't know if that matters) Super cute, 99.99% sure. Yay or nay? What do you think?
Me and my boyfriend don't have sex in two months
So, today I told my boyfriend I don't have sex in two months. He then said "why, aren't you using dating apps?", like if that was normal. I think he broke up sometime ago and forgot to tell me.
Gay strips clubs in South Beach Miami?
I don’t mean just guys in underwear, I want to know if there is one where guys are nude. Looks like flappy rooster closed down and I can’t find any similar online
Trouble trying to Top
Like the title says, I’ve been trying to top my boyfriend for a while now and each time I try to “stick it in” I go soft. I have talked to my boyfriend and I did tell him I’m a little nervous. Any tips or ideas for me?Thank You!
Help
I'm 20 and gay living in the UK, I know one gay guy who I've been 'friends' with (he kinda stalks me, bit annoying tbh) and know no other gay people. I am in desperate need to make more gay friends or just meet new gay people. Grindr and tinder are just a no, no one is an actual human being on those apps. Is anyone here in the same situation?
Anyone here think a 4 inch dick is fine?
Please be honest, don't give me any pity talk. Would you personally be ok with a 4 inch cock?
Uncomfortable
I am a gay male and almost everyone knows (Excluding my grandparents). But whenever people ask me “do you have a boyfriend yet?) or like talk about my sexuality it makes me super uncomfortable. Even when I talk about it I start to feel uncomfortable, almost ashamed about it. I’ve always felt this way about it and I’m not sure why. Does anyone else feel like this?
Gay. Be You.
Gay → (of a person) sexually attracted to people of one's own sexOf Note: there is no mention of...Liking shopping or fashionBeing an emotional supportActing flamboyantAppearing more feminine (or masculine)Having a lispBeing fit & physically attractiveAlso Of Note: there is no mention of...NOT liking shopping or fashionNOT being an emotional supportNOT acting flamboyantNOT appearing more feminine (or masculine)NOT having a lispNOT being fit & physically attractiveI understand the bias many people have regarding the gay community, but one that I am proud of above all is that we are inclusive and accepting. Let's try and remember that unless some is screaming Faggot! or Fucking Fairy! then maybe they are just trying to have a conversation and get to know you better. No need to be such a drama queen, hehehe
Are you age 60 or over? Can I please interview you?
Right now, I'm taking a Developmental Psychology class and need to interview someone over the age of 60. I'll basically be writing a 10-page version of your life story. Your real name would not be used.
I barely cum when I orgasm while bottoming, is that normal?
Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex, I barely cum, even though I climax. If he fingers me, I cum a lot and when I'm just jacking off I cum a lot. But when we have sex, sometimes I don't even cum at all. Is this normal? I've been tested recently and I'm all clean, so I just wanted to know if any other of my fellow homos experience this.
My boyfriend is more attractive than me, and it hurts.
I love my boyfriend very much, and he loves me back. He considers me the best boyfriend he has ever had (out of 6!) And we are even planning on living togethereventually. I can't imagine being with anyone else except him.That being said, I can't help but feel like i pale in comparison to him. Physically. He's a very cute and handsome guy and people are not afraid to approach him. He gets checked out by a lot of guys when we at a gay bar or club. I feel like his friends judge me when they meet me and I don't feel like they think I match with him.That's not to say that I am a completely worthless person. I have an amazing personality and I am really good with people. I'm sweet and kind, according to people I've met, and I'm a great boyfriend.And yet, I still still feel terrible about myself! I am so shallow and it makes me feel like an awful person. I don't get checked out as much as my boyfriend (I actually only get checked out by girls for some odd reason). When we go to restaurants, the waiters and waitresses tend to focus on him over me, even though I'm trying to be as friendly as possible. Is it because I have an ugly smile? Is it because my skin is darker than his? Is it because he's slimmer than I am and I just look like an average pudgy person?I just feel so insecure and ugly, and I want it to stop. I don't want this to ruin our relationship. I try to ignore it but these self deprecating thoughts keep coming back to haunt me. Help.. :/
Guilty Grind?
I dated Scott, ended almost a year ago. I thought this was getting serious and we discussed being exclusive. But no boyfriend title. This “relationship” ended abruptly and I haven’t heard from or spoken to Scott since the split... with the exception of seeing him at the bars begging of summer. And him asking for jeans he left at my house, that he had a friend pick up.About a month ago, Scott’s (different) friend messaged me on grindr. After two ignored messages, I responded to the third very casually. No pics. No flirtation. A week ago I got a ;) while browsing late at night. I responded :P... woke up to a non-nude but suggestive body shot... replied with the same. I received a series of nudes... replied with the same. He suggested to meet up, twice. I felt a bit guilty, so interested, decided to confirm if he remembered who I was. He did. We did not meet up. I haven’t heard from him in a few days.After seeing Scott & company at the bars the other night, I get the feeling I’ve been baited/tested based on the horrible stares I received from that group of friends. Also have to admit, after fb stalking, FRIEND has a boyfriend. Not sure if things are open with them? Not sure if I’m the worst? Not sure if I should feel like complete trash? Give it to me.
Gay person as a friend
I am not gay but I always thought it would be nice to have gay friends. I feel that they are more open minded, accepting, loving, and affectionate. It would be like having a female friend but in the body of a man. Doesn't that just make for a better relationship? In my culture, most men can't be close with each other because we are so homophobic, but gay friends would have no problem being close. Whenever, I see gay people at the mall, I want to chat with them but I am way too shy to ever do that.Also, I feel like I could offer them a lot of support when they feel like society doesn't accept them.What do you think? What are your thoughts? Has anyone else felt the same way?
Youtube give a strike to a youtube channel... for having gay kisses
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dYM4XK-m1Ls
Confession time
I consider myself straight. I love girls. I love fucking girls. Few years ago i hooked up with a tranny i met online. Not only did fucking her ass make me cum so quick but i loved sucking her dick. She actually asked me to stop because she was about to finish. And now i just wanna suck cock
Catching feelings....help!
So there’s this guy I met on Scruff back in August, we’ve seen each other like twice a month since. He works a crazy schedule so it’s hard to get together more often. He hinted to me in the beginning that he wasn’t looking for a relationship and just wanted to work on himself. Honestly I didn’t want a relationship either. The encounters we have are fucking awesome and often is a lot more making out and cuddling than actual sex (he’s a great kisser 😍) After we get off we lay in bed and just cuddle and discuss random topics. It’s always a several hour encounter. He never replied to many people on scuff before we met according to his “insights”. The last time we got together he told me he deleted his scruff account because it was just a distraction. He also told me he had never had a FWB before because sex is very personal for him but I was a cool guy. Even though neither of us wanted a relationship in the beginning I’m developing some pretty fucking strong feelings for him 😏. I’m afraid to say anything or try to hint I’ve grown fond of him because I don’t want it to ruin what we currently have going. He’s handsome as hell, hairy, strong and my perfect guy! He’s 3 years younger than me but seems to have his life together and doesn’t seem younger and immature. From some of the conservations we’ve had he only has a couple of good friends and really keeps to himself. I’m sure there were tons of guys throwing themselves at him so some of my insecurities don’t help the situation. What the hell do I do? How do I test the waters without pushing him away?
2017. november 25., szombat
Little Advice plz
I am usually on top and i do not think i would be good or comfortable in real life being a bottom. But lately when i Jack off when my "Friend"is gone, i cant help but fantasize about being a bottom. I know this might sound like i am overeating but i would like to know if this is normal for anyone else.
Would it be considered shallow if someone is completely turned off by facial hair?
As in he's ok with a little scruff, but those full beards are an automatic swipe left when he Tinders. Says because his homophobic dad had a beard as far as he can remember and he's associated it with the dad. Is that a valid reason to dismiss someone who otherwise might be a perfect match for him?
Is he at all interested?
I'm (M) wondering if a coworker of mine (also M) could be interested. I'd say we consider each other friends, he's the person I'm closest to at my work place. I don't know if he could be bi-curious or interested in guys in any way. When we text he uses hearts and kissy emojis in a not joking way but idk how serious they can be. I'm the youngest of all our coworkers so we always joke about me being a child and him being old as fuck even though he's only 3 years older than me, so sometimes he calls me son and I call him dad or grandpa just to mess around. He's okay with it he does it as much as me. The topic of our sexualities never came up so he might think I'm straight and see this as a simple friendship. Could he be interested?
I can't stop it
Right after work it was like animal inside me I wanted dick losts of it. I went to the same video store got what I wanted and now I feel empty but the animal is gone . I'm fucking crazy all I think about is dick. And what turns me on the most are those wedding rings make me feel what I can't feel anymore. Orgy done but my soul gone a force bigger then me I need help I don't know what to believe whats real and what's not. The world is crazy why can't I just live it like it is. Sex sex sex the dark side of me I have no one to go home too why not just for a few minutes feel the touch of a man who can give me something to stroke all the evil out of me I am gay but nothing will bring me any happiness what am I doing who Ami worse who did I become from shady gay friends to make believe marriages to finding nothing new but the same old same old
Virgin or not
I recently made a post where I commented that I wasn’t a Virgin because I was raped when I was a little boy. I’m 18 now.Someone replied that he doesn’t consider sexual abuse victims as non-virgins because they were not willing participants and that being a willing part of sex and choosing to be vulnerable are the key parts of losing your virginity.That sounds nice and all, but I’m not sure I buy into that idea. It sounds more like rationalization to justify what you want for yourself or something you say to someone you feel sorry for to make them feel better.What do you think?
In which age did you discover you were gay?
I'm just curious cause many people discover it in their puberty, but I discovered it long before, like when I was way under 10 years. I guess it first was when I was in Italy over the holidays and there was a boy and he kissed me every morning I woke up and I loved it so much, so do you think it's in the genes?
Gay dating noob
Hi all, I am 25 years old from a small rural town and never had a boyfriend. Most of my life I have been closeted, but I am coming out to people who ask if I am gay and I have never felt better. Now that I am 'out' I am interested in dating/pursuing a partner and I am no longer interested in 'hooking up'. However, I have no idea what I am doing when it comes to the dating game outside of a phone app. Currently, I am crushing on a co-worker over the last few months and I am unsure where I stand. We work in the local emergency department where I have a clinical position and he is administration. We see each other usually once or twice a week for 12 hour shifts. We even get one on one time together late a night. A month ago I ballsed up and asked him out to dinner (Initially asked to go out for a drink, but he does not drink alcohol). He gave me his number and agreed to go out. He mentioned he was sick and may not be up for dinner. We did not end up going out. Next time I saw him at work he was uncharacteristically distant and gave many one word responses. I asked about rescheduling dinner and he responded with 'idk'. Frustrated and kind of embarrassed I just dropped the subject thinking I read the situation wrong and he was straight/not interested.The following shifts we worked together I focused on my work and did not go out of my way to interact with him. He was very interested in whatever I was doing and asked me to help with computer issues which he is very savy in. Do other nice things like taking his feet off a chair he was using as a footrest to offer me a seat next to him (and then taking big bites out of a banana... like whyyy haha). Taking interest in my enjoyment of the superhero genre, my medical school admissions test (aint no one in my life wants to know about that), and listening to me nerd out about games. All the while teasing/judging each other relentlessly when we are alone. I know guy friends do this, but its more than some of my best friends.Very confused with the situation because I think hes either straight and I am misreading him, gay but in the closet, or gay and just not interested in me that way. I have found him to be a very indecisive person with most decisions, so maybe I am just another one. Also the information I provided is likely very biased towards what I want... sorry. Does anyone think I should continue to pursue him in a flirty way, be more direct, or should I just drop it? In some dating situations people are rejected multiple times before accepting.Thanks you all for giving me a space to vent. PM me if anyone ever needs someone to talk to. I am not good with dating advice, but I will gladly listen. I am on reddit everyday haha.
Oklahoma, boy, 16
Okay, so it's come to my attention that like literally every dude in Oklahoma that classified as Gay is either obese or extremely disgusting. Ermz... I want a relationship, and I find it unfair that people expect me to drop my standards 300% just so I can stop being single because of a poorly placed me. I got stuck in a tiny little farm town and I've been single for-ever. I want to meet a person I can like and trust, preferably 17-19, but I'll go 15-20. I don't find chubby people ugly, and as long as you're self confident I'll probably like you. If you live in oklahoma (like legit... Unless you live right on the northern texas border, don't pm me) and you're fairly self confident and attractive (or modestly not hideous... Like jfc) and you aren't old enough to be my DAD. Pm me on either here, or hit me up on kik @nyanyakittycat And legit. I'm looking for M A L E S. Just males. As in physically male. Thx~ Oh, and if you can't take "triggers" or you're easily bothered, then I wouldn't even bother. I'm a special kinda crazy, that requires a special kinda person to deal with me. Annnd, if you're over 20+, or you just don't want a relationship, I'm considering playing f***boy, but only for a price. Ohohohhh, and if you KNOW a person from here with those qualificatIons. By golly HOOKUSUP.
Really Pissed Off
I just got really pissed off by the people over at /rCommunism101 I've been a Communist for a while now and I responded to a couple comments et cetera and I expressed my Catholic views. I never said I was gay until I got banned and it ended with the moderators calling me a liar (they didn't believe I'm gay) and I was called a bigot. If any of you fellow LGBTQ+ don't know the Catholic Church teaches that gay people are supposed to remain chaste and aren't allowed to marry but we're to be accepted with open arms. Now I lately have been questioning why we believe this but I think this has been the final nail in the coffin. Being repeatedly called a liar and a bigot just really made me feel sick and I can't actually stand either Communist and Catholicism at the minuete. Who's in the wrong here guys? Also if you want to DM me that would be nice as I think having another gay man to talk to would feel nice I haven't been in a relationship since I became a catholic.
Fellas😣👱🏻
Fellas 😣🙋 is it 🤔 gay 😱👨❤️👨 to ➡ have guy👨 friends 👥 I mean ☝ you literally 😰☝hang out 🌃🍷with homies 🍆👨👨 who can 😫 put their dicks 😵🍆🍆 in your ass 🍑 anytime 👉🕛
I need some advice
I’m drunk, sitting in a bus stop trying to get home after what was probably the most awkward non-starter of a hook-up I’ve ever had.So this guy hits me up on grindr, we swap pics, agree to meet I offer to bring the bottle of wine in the fridge because why not?I get to his place, we’re on the couch chatting and we’re hitting it off fine. His phone rings, he’s talking to another guy (we literally just finished talking about how awkward threesomes are so already I’m a bit weary). He then invites this guy over, then says to me “aw, I’m tired. Do you want me to call you a cab?”I don’t get it. I left his place and now I’m sitting here, feeling all sorts of depressed with a bruised ego and my self-esteem at an all time low😅😅 I guess this is all a part of life? Idk, what are you thoughts? any advice on how to avoid shit like this in the future?
I need some advice
I’m drunk, sitting in a bus stop trying to get home after what was probably the most awkward non-starter of a hook-up I’ve ever had.So this guy hits me up on grindr, we swap pics, agree to meet I offer to bring the bottle of wine in the fridge because why not?I get to his place, we’re on the couch chatting and we’re hitting it off fine. His phone rings, he’s talking to another guy (we literally just finished talking about how awkward threesomes are so already I’m a bit weary). He then invites this guy over, then says to me “aw, I’m tired. Do you want me to call you a cab?”I don’t get it. I left his place and now I’m sitting here, feeling all sorts of depressed with a bruised ego and my self-esteem at an all time low😅😅 I guess this is all a part of life? Idk, what are you thoughts? any advice on how to avoid shit like this in the future?
How to do hook-ups?
Recently I have been feeling alot more stressed and want to hook up with someone but the issues is IV just hooked up with someone before off like a app or anything, IV always been quite scared of sex or embarrassed and I don't really know the do's and do nots and how to approach things or where a safe place to go is or even how to get ready before hand as I am quite tight, what advice can you give for someone in my place who only Recently has started to lose there fear of sex and really wants to try hooking up?, I don't have any other gay friends I can do stuff With and i still live at home
2017. november 24., péntek
Why did this guy block me on Tinder?
So here’s a little background information about myself. I’m in my mid 20’s, white, slim and 6’2. Masculine. I have a lot of the traits that are considered attractive in the gay community. On apps like Grindr and Tinder, I’m usually never blocked. I get called cute a lot and pretty much all my hook ups or meet ups have been with guys you would call cute or hot. I obviously get turned down every now and then just like everyone else in the world. I’ve had many guys tell me I’m a 7 out of 10. So I started talking to this 19 year old college kid from he local college. He’s the fraternity type, bisexual and had never been with a guy. So we matched on Tinder. We started talking and he asked to Snapchat. We’ve been snap chatting back and forth for the past month. He’s seen plenty of my pictures and told me many times he wanted to top me. He would message me quite a bit. A few times a week. We didn’t have extensive convos but my point is that he was still pursuing a conversation. He had never been with a guy. So after about a month (yesterday), I told him I was going to host a guy tonight and that he should come over. I told him I had hung out with this other guy from his college and he started asking me all these questions about him and even asked me to hook them up. I was like you are kind of obsessed with this guy. He seemed more interested in this guy he had never even seen than me which I found weird bc he had been talking to me for so long. So we talked quite a bit last night and I told him I would hit him up today. I got off work tonight and went into Snapchat to message him and his name was gone. Opened Tinder and he was gone. The thing is, I don’t care at all. That’s probably why it actually bothered me a little. Like I said, I’ve been very lucky with guys and was in a 3 year relationship with one of the cutest guys in the world (at least to me). When someone isn’t interested in me, I take it about as well as anybody could. So when guys talk to me for a while and do this or just ignore me, it is a pet peeve of mine because if they just told me straight up I would say cool take care man. Later. End of story. So yeah acting shady like that def is the part that bothers me. So why do you think he blocked me and also tried to get me to hook him up with the other kid from his school? Why talk to me for a month and block me now? Nothing changed. Do you think he just got scared about meeting up so he blocked me or he decided he wasn’t interested? I just don’t get it because if he wasn’t interested why would he waste a month of my time? Why wouldn’t he just tell me straight up? So annoying. Tell me what y’all think.
How To Deal With Homophobic Teachers?
I'm currently a junior at high school, and I feel very stressed out because of my teachers' attitude. The majority of my teachers are homophobic and make negative remarks about LGBT+ people. For example, one of my science teachers explained to my class that being gay is a choice, after one of my classmates made fun of two guys holding hands in the hallway before class started. After my science teacher argued that being gay is a choice, I told him that sexuality is natural and that people don't choose to be LGBT+. He responded by explaining sexual reproduction between men and women is a natural process, and that being gay is not natural since it doesn't involve human reproduction. I told him that I was gay and he said: "Well, that's your choice. " Another example, my Phys Ed teacher acts homophobic by preventing gay couples to express love. During gym class, he will allow straight couples to display affection between each other and not say anything about it. But, when a gay couple shows affection, he would immediately get out of his seat and tell the couple that their behavior is "inappropriate" and to "stop it". In general, my teachers almost always make negative comments about gay people, being supported by my classmates, and make me feel unwelcome in the classes. How do I deal with my teachers?
Calling all want to be therapists
I’ve been dating a guy who is 3 years older than my father (I’m 18 now).As a little boy I was raped I can’t talk about this with my friends or family and I am cautious about discussing it with my therapist,So I met this guy when I was 16 and we are still dating! He was willing to wait until I became of legal age before having sex. So, he’s kind of a keeper (not just some perv for little boys) Now that I’m 18 he’s pressing for sex I never told him about being abused ( cause I don’t want to chase him away) so he doesn’t have any idea why I’m so reluctant about sex. I also told him I was a virgin which obviously I’m not I thought I was going to be okay with sex but we went farther than just kissing last time and I freaked out hard I thought I kept my composure but he noticed something was up I’m super concerned I’m going to lose him if I don’t have sex with him But if i become a basket case I think I’ll lose him too Any advice or comments are welcome But if you don’t understand the dynamics around older younger relationships or if you are against them please don’t respond.
Does it get better?
Hi, I’m a senior in high school and I have high expectations for college. I’m hoping to have more friends be out of the closet completely, and to have a boyfriend. To all the gay college students or alumni, am I right to have these expectations? Does it get better?
Should I tell my ex-gf
We broke up over a year ago and both moved on but I feel like I should tell her that a) I'm gay and that's why we never had sex, it wasn't her and b) I cheated on her with a dude. Idk, might just bring up some unnecessary pain. Btw I only recently started coming out as a gay guy which is why this is on my mind now.
I am a mostly straight guy who fell in love with a guy and ended up with a broken heart.
i am in a very vulnerable, heartbroken place right now and the moon is in aquarius which is said to be a time where people come together collectively to help each-other and the internet is a very “aquarius” thing, so here i am coming undone to you all.this has been one of the most confusing, hardest, difficult things i have ever done and i need a reality check from other eyes on the outside looking in that aren’t my friends or therapist.i have been a mostly straight guy my whole life, i never had that experience of “knowing” i was queer or gay or anything that i could relate to in a traditional LGBTQ narrative because i’ve always just been sexually attracted to women. i’ve also always looked at gay men as resemblance of femininity, something pretty to destroy and i guess someone who was born so intense and emotional. i guess i could say i learned that it’s more about the person then the gender you fall for…so in the beginning of the year i linked up with a guy i met when i was a teenager (i’m in my early 20s now and so is he) - and one night we hooked up, and i introduced him to my “cash play” fetish… (i have a fetish to treat the people i am having sex with like prostitutes), so i came on his face, denied him and dommed him and gave him a couple hundred bucks.from then he kept pushing to hang out, so we did and i fell hard for everything about him. totally fell in love.somehow we both ended up in something that ended up resembling a relationship, unplanned. i am a young millionaire and he’s not very well off, so i offered to give him a thousand dollars allowance each month to take care of him… from then on, i spent thousands of dollars on anything he wanted, i was there for him at the drop of a hat. i did everything for him out of blind love. i helped him with his career. everything. what i could give him was my love language.i was always cool with doing whatever he wanted and giving him money within the circle of us being romantically monogamous and sexually open but he had SO many blocks around intimacy: he would never make-out with me, he would never cuddle me, he would never allow himself to go there made me extremely paranoid - and i started to obsess over the fear of the guys he was hanging out with:“what if they are getting the things i want out of him?” “what if they are cuddling and making out? what if something is wrong with me? what if he just views me as a sugar daddy type?”obviously he liked and cared about me enough to deal with my constant reassurance seeking and fear, and spent hours with me - i know he did like me but those intimacy blocks really made me insecure. i really understand it’s NOT fair to push your ocd/anxiety bullshit onto another person but this was all so new.the twist is this person hates relationships, and intimacy - and has a lot of trauma around relationships and constantly was trying to fight off the idea we were in one because he never wanted that to happen yet he liked me so much, and wanted me to stick around so he made me the compromise. i realized my entitlement to those things right off the bat was juvenile, and that it takes a lot of time for people to get to a place where they are comfortable to do that and it’s not my fault, he has these wounds. he has a lot of fear of monogamy now,.i made some mistakes like trying to fuck his friends, or feeling like i was apart of this peer group as a single person because our relationship was secret but that was wrong to do. i also went on his phone once and saw texts with a guy off instagram where he was completely offering to do sub- things that i wanted to do but with other people which sent me into blind rage. (the issue we had - we were both tops and he swore to be a gold-star top type, but he was my sub. note: i only got my dick sucked 3 times in a year from him.)anyways - after months, weeks and hours of constant fighting. yesterday he finally admitted to me that he’s been settling to be with me but the whole time he’s wanted to be seeing other people and basically be single in a way where he doesn’t have to be considerate of another person’s feelings when making his decisions, he’s said he’s liked guys and pulled back in being more intimate with them out of fear of hurting me.i am devastated and i want to be with him because i truly do love him but i just can’t settle with being one out of the many guys he is seeing and he’s kind of making me seem crazy for not being ok with that. so am i?and also can anyone also help me understand his mind state? i just can’t relate -when we break - up in person, i want to shock him and suck his dick for the first time like the bottoms he picks up off on grindr - just as a goodbye, showing how much i care… is that a bad decision?do i stay in his life and continue to be his partner while knowing he is being romantic with other people, all so i can have him?is it because seeing multiple people who are also single and don’t want commitment but want to be cute/have fun is less responsibility, and makes him feel more safe?does it not get empty seeing multiple people knowing they aren’t staying around and yeah maybe you guys like each-other but it’s not the true bond that comes out of a real relationship?what is the reward out of seeing multiple people who are also seeing multiple people? is it freedom?i feel like i’m going to be one of those people now who experimented with the same sex and now have trauma around the same sex, and mentally and physically just can’t go there anymore…any words of encouragement or help as i am crying in bedi’ll forever be in your graces
What's it called where you're a boy interested men until you find out they're gay?
every time I find out someone is gay I don't find them attractive anymore. It's like, "ok, there's potential here, that scares the fuck out of me, bye"
I have a suspicion that my best friend is gay
I don't feel comfortable in describing everything thats going on, cause my bond with my best mate since first year of high school is slowly feeling awkward, and were kind of drifting as a result of eveything which kills me inside. A little moment tonight gave me the indication that feelings could be towards me, not as much in a 'bro' way. Not saying I respect him less now that I have these suspicions, it's just that my man seems very uncomfortable in who he is and is going through what looks like a transition (style very feminine, has a lot of femine qualities but kind of plays it off cause what public reaction). I want to let him know that I'll always be there for him and supportive of everything he does (contrary to the roasts we sometimes dish him). Dilema is, I don't even know for sure if he is actually gay. So I would like to know the following: - When you came out, how did you open up about it - How do you go about asking such a question, that if I get a bad response to I might completely ruin my friendship. I dont want to sound insensitive because I'm not really familiar of this kind of situationThanks everyone!
This community acts disgustingly
When I talked about my sexual assault all I was told is "welcome to the adult world"If I say my dick can't get hard to a certain person I'm called a bigot, which totally is unfair because my sexual preferences are absolutely in no way are a judge of characterIf I or anyone has a different political opinion from the status quo as in being a libertarian (I'm not fucking alt right) then I get ostracized for my beliefsIf I don't like a religion (ie Christianity or Islam) I also get called a bigot even though in both religions they call for my death
Young teen looking first oral sex with guy monroe county mi
I'm 17 and want to suck off anguy eat you cum and have him suck me off, iv never had a other man experience before
Trans guys?
I'm a trans guy in the closet, that's mostly attracted to men. Would you consider dating someone who's trans? Or would you not consider dating trans guys as an option? I'm afraid of coming out, because I know it will make life harder tbh, dating is already a mess for most people, but as a queer trans guy? Man, that just sounds hopeless... What do you guys think?
Frustration
I’m 21 years old. I never really knew I was gay until I was 20. Shortly after I found out, I came out to my whole family. It’s been almost a year exactly and my entire family still doesn’t believe me or doesn’t want to believe me that I’m gay. I’ve never been stereotypically gay in that I was always good at sports, “masculine”, etc. They still act like I’m straight and every time I say anything about being gay they just give me a dirty look. It’s incredibly frustrating. I almost wish that I was just one of those obvious gay guys because then they would believe me. Shit fucking sucks and I find it incredibly frustrating to have to keep telling them like yo I’m gay, remember? Any advice on how to actually prove it to them? I mean yeah I could bring a boyfriend home but I still think they maybe are just homophobic? And in that case I don’t want to bring anyone into that environment. Any words would help
2017. november 23., csütörtök
Please stop acting like every gay guy loves FTM people
I've had so many ftm people lust after me and call me transphobic if I reject them like sorry I'm not attracted to pussy or your facial features. You probably think I sound like an asshole and I see that, but you have to see where I come from I spend my whole time pushing myself away from people assuming I'm attracted to women and this just pushes me right back into that corner. And its come to the point where it's uncomfortable
Date ideas???
I’m 18 going on my first date with a guy I met online. I’m really nervous as to what to talk about cause I’m that type of guy to never have anything to say and sit there in awkward silence. We aren’t very similar and I’m afraid he’s gonna think I’m lame as hell. Also, where is a good location to go? *note : I’m not out as gay but he is
What are your views on Milo Yiannopoulos?
First of all, I know he's a controversial subject so let's try to keep this civilized.Now, I personally find myself rather confused by him. As an outspoken liberal, to me many of the things he says sound outright disgusting or seemingly chaotic and apolitical but with consistent darker motives. But as someone who also likes to speak against the censorious madness that the most vocal part of the progressive "SJW" movement has become, I find that a select few of Milo's views are actually well-put opinions on what a non-exaggerated society that endorses true equality should look like.However (and I'll admit I haven't really had the mental self-discipline to listen to him talk for more than a few minutes in a row), I can't really pinpoint what his real deal is. Is he truly a hyper-conservative that vouches for a completely callous, thick-skinned society where nobody cares about anyone else, which, at certain points, actually transcends into social egalitarianism through sheer insensitivity? Or does he actually agree with a more compassionate outlook which he supports only as long as it doesn't jeopardize his personal privileges (which is why he supports Trump, for example)?From what I've seen, his more consistently stated political views seem to gravitate towards defending two things: the ability to amass wealth and the freedom of expression, both of which actually serve his personal gain. He's rich, so economically he supports ruthless capitalism, but also he's gay and jewish, so he opposes any infringements to equal rights that he can't bypass with money. That's my working theory, yet I'm still not sure whether his deal boils down to "it doesn't matter if you're jewish and gay if you got lots of money" or "having lots of money is what matters, but living in a fair society is cool too, as long as it doesn't get in the way of money-making".Opinions? :D
Tips on entering the real ‘gay world’?
ok so i’m about to graduate high school in a couple of months (thank god!) and i’m more than ready to start anew somewhere else in college, especially a larger, urban city. coming from a largely sheltered suburb town, i probably don’t know a lot of things that some of you more experienced guys would know. so that begs the questions, what should i as a young gay man know upon entering the real world???
How do you cope with a past rape and do you ever get over it?
I was raped by a couple of guys a few years ago and I still think about it almost every day and every situation I’m in with guys. Will I ever get over it and how do you deal with something like that? I’ve also always had a rape fetish ever since it happened so do you think it messed with my brain. It was a dramatic experience and it’s so hard to trust people now. Especially since nobody took me serious when I told a few people so I’ve pretty much kept everything bottled inside since then. Happy Thanksgiving everyone :/
I'm in love with my straight roommate.
Hi, I am currently in University halls (dorms) and I live with 8 other people in my flat. To begin with the guy I am refering to I was not interested in at all. However we quickly became friends. We would stay up and chat.. watch movies in his room on his bed. ( we were not lying side by side like spooning but kinda lying forwards with our legs off the bed or curled up next to us). Naturally I caught feelings and I knew pretty quickly I had to tell him. So within a month of meeting him I did.He basically said he is homophobic but we can work around it since we have to live together for the next year.. and we are the closest friends in the house. Fast forwards to now ive told him again twice about my feelings and my confusion with regards to his actions. Again and again he said the same thing, I told him perhaps we cannot be friends and he said well thats fine I can be friends with someone else.. 2 days later he invited me to watch another series with him...Safe to say after telling him about my feelings 3 times within 2 months I truly believe that dispite his actions towards me.. lying next to / near me, sharing our food. Talking a lot.. I believe him honestly. However my feelings obviously are still there. .. when we joke around or play fight (we hit each other with pillows lol) I just wanna kiss him or stroke his hair.. hold him..I now find myself spending so much time in his room. Nothing compares to just lying next to him, everytime I just hope something happens.. and Im 22 and have never had a relationship yet.. so for me this is almost the closest its been to having one. I just dont feel lonely when im with him but feel depressed when he tells me to leave everytime. We are now planning living in a house next year.. so this will continue and I dont know what to do. I cant figure out if the negatives outway the positives..
Are my parents homophobic, or it's something else?
They're both fine with me wanting to date and marry a guy in the future. However, I really question their acceptance because of many factors.When I sort of came out to them (I didn't direcly told them I was gay because I am against the idea of labels, but I told them I liked guys), my mom was a little bit shocked not because of my looks or because of how I behaved, but because because I was a quiet kid, and usually people notice when someone's gay when the guy dresses himself as a woman and are loud and obnoxious, according to her. She suspected that I wasn't straight because I didn't date anyone in high school, but she thought I was simply uninterested and too busy with school to date.My dad got silent and didn't speak about my coming out for a long time. He bitched about a pride flag I bought and put on my desk in my bedroom, thinking that it wasn't appropriate, but I still left it there, until last month, when I burned it because I had an immense desire to do it and hide myself again.My mom doesn't like like flamboyant lgbt people at all, and is disgusted to drag queens and everyone who shows any signs of being lgbt, such as people with rainbow flags on their social media profile or clothes etc. She's obsessed with being discreet and she wants me to be the same way.I barely know what my dad thinks of other people, but he seems to be more chill about others, but not so much with his own son.
How do i top if i have phimosis?
I basically can't pull my foreskin all the way back otherwise it gets stuck and is painful. So how do I top then? Use a condom and roll up the foreskin or..?
Open relationships
So I grew up in a pretty small unaccepting county, since then it's been about a year and I moved to a big city and have been dating my first boyfriend for about the same time ( a year ) and we are very happy! Life's good! However, I've noticed that most all ( not all all but more than not ) gay relationships are open. I have 100% no interest in that. I'm very happy there are people who can function in that type of relationship but I am not one of them. and neither is my boyfriend from what he's told me. But I have noticed there is this weird push from our gay friends to try the whole open thing. A lot of gay couples I've encountered almost act offended when I say we are exclusive with eachother. Almost like it's taboo. I really feel super weird about this, even if my boyfriend wanted me to sleep with other guys i don't know that I myself could do it. I love when we both come home after a busy day ( he's a nurse and i work in theatre professionally ) and have eachother. In my field there are a shit ton of attractive gay guys but I have never once had an urge to even flirt with them, I mean yes I find them attractive but in a friendly way? I just don't want to feel forced to conform to this lifestyle when personally I've seen most all of these relationships fail because of the uncomfortable situations this type of relationship brings. A lot of our gay friends have split up or had huge fights and I'm not bragging in any way but my boyfriend have really no complications. We fit eachother very well. Anyway the point I'm trying to get too is, is it weird to want to stay traditional? I hate that word but in this case I'm using it. I don't want to share, and neither does my man, is that wrong??? Why is it so taboo to be happy with one person?
I dont know who to come out 2
Hey im bi and i wanna come out to people ive alredy came too 2 of my friends but i wanna come out to more friends, the problom is i dont have many. I have some people who i consider friends but im not to that to them, and i tether come out to friends more than family. I dont know what to do
Catching feelings for the same sex
I have to get this off my chest, this post is pretty much the reason I made this account. I have been trying to convince myself Im a straight male forever due to the way I was raised, and the people in my family. The problem is, I've never been turned on by women, so it has made the fake relationships I've been in really difficult. Anyways, that issue is a whole different issue, maybe another post.On a whim, I decided to use an online hookup site to just try something new, and see if I really am into guys. I met a guy really quick actually, and was on my way to his house just a couple hours later. I have always been fascinated with being with someone super dominant, and a little aggressive, but I didn't really bring that up because I was really nervous. When I showed up, I couldn't believe what I saw- he was so attractive, and quite literally the man of my fantasy, hairy chest, beard, everything. He quickly ushered me upstairs and grabbed my ass as I was heading towards his bedroom, and my knees went week. I got his shirt off as fast as I could and he had his hand on my head forcing me down to me knees. I was in shock that I was actually about to hook up with someone this attractive, my legs were literally shaking as I got on my knees.We spent hours in bed. I think he fucked me three times before we had to take a break. He was forceful, and even choked me a little while he was on top of me. It was the hottest, sexiest thing I have ever experienced. I wasn't sure what roll I'd really play in a gay hook up, but I definitely loved making this man feel good. He is about 7 years older than me (I'm 26) and he said he wanted me to call him daddy- which of course just turned me on even more. Something about the way he told me I'm a good boy throughout this experience was a dream come true.So the problem with all this, I accidentally caught feelings for this guy. I never wanted to have the "I'm gay" conversation with my friends and family. I conditioned myself to be alone forever. And then this man came into my life and I feel a little obsessed. We have been seeing each other for a couple months now, and the hints he's been dropping indicate he may want to get serious aat some point.I want to be with him so bad, but I have plenty of problems that make me feel like I'm not good enough for him. First, I think he comes from a really wealthy family, and I come from literal poverty. So I have nothing to offer in that sense. Not only do I have nothing to offer, I am actually going through bankruptcy right now because I lost my job a couple years ago and my bills piled up, and I have no help from my family (and haven't since I was 16). Second, being as poor as I am, I need some extreme dental work done. I have three broken teeth that he doesn't know about, because they are in the back of my mouth. Can't afford to go to the dentist right now though... trying to figure that out. I also have a big dog, and if I did have the opportunity to date him, I would have to have the conversation about my dog not liking cats... and he has a really sweet cat. And finally, I live about four hours away. This is pretty shitty actually, I met him right before he moved. So it was horrible timing, but at least I met him. I am willing to move to be closer to him, but he lives in a very expensive area, and I have a dog which makes renting impossible.Thanks for reading. Feedback on my situation is welcome.
There's an important distinction between what one finds attractive vs what one idealizes that will help you thrive in the gay community
I think maturity in the pursuit of relationships stems from making the distinction between recognizing what one finds attractive and what one idealizes.The latter is this idealized form of a personal "Michaelangelo's David" inside one's head and the former is the umbrella of characteristics and interests that appealing to a person about a breadth of people.I also think that because we are gay we frequently judge ourselves how we fall short from our idealized idea of what a guy is and fail to recognize or undervalue what others find attractive about ourselves.A lot of of us may not be top of the statistical list (arguably most) in terms of the characteristics that gay men idealize but it doesn't mean we aren't attractive.I'm sure there's a perfect guy out there who's mostly tall. Has nice muscles (but not too much), who's smart and funny and socially capable. Who's kind and confident.It doesn't mean that there isn't a breadth of attraction in that we enjoy.I might find Michaelangelo's David the ideal man but it doesn't mean that my man has to be Michaelangelo's David. It's remarkable how far from Michaelangelo's David my guy is and I'm genuinely attracted to him and I'm in love with him.TL;DR: Just because you're not someone's favourite/ideal meal doesn't mean that they won't find you a perfectly tasty treat.TL;DR2: Just because something is first on the list doesn't mean that it's the only thing on the list.
I could use some sex advice
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 months now. We’re both 18. It’s not often we have a chance to do anything physical, but when we do it’s always been good. However there’s one problem. We’ve only tried to have sex twice, but both times, I’ve had.....issues.The first time I was definitely pretty nervous which just left me totally limp. I’m a virgin so neither of us were surprised and just shrugged it off. We tried again last night and I thought it was gonna be fine. I wasn’t nervous and everything seemed fine but as soon as I opened the condom, totally limp.It’s only happened these two times so I’m not too worried about it being a big issue, but I still don’t want it to happen again. It hasn’t caused any strain on our relationship so that’s good. I’m just hoping for some advice or something to help. Thanks!
Sex with gay escorts only
For the last three years I’ve only been sleeping with gay escorts. I usually pay a higher rate to get the premium boys. I like them, in In their 20’s good looking with muscles. I’m pretty good looking, but the guys I hire are usually even out of my league. I have been with many, and have found a handful, that really work for me. So the sex is usually hot, and they work around my hectic schedule. Most are bad, but some are very good. AMA. But my question is, I now find it difficult to sleep with guys who are average/good looking. When I go on apps, I only want the best looking, ie young, muscular and a good looking face. Just have no interest in okay looking guys. This is clearly, due to the fact, I’m used to paying for the super hot guys, whom I would never be able to sleep with in the real world. What are your thoughts and any advice for reprogramming my attraction.
Being more desirable outside of the US?
I've been using Tinder for a while in NYC. I'm a latino guy, fair skin, 5'7", slim/toned. Having a lot of trouble getting good matches and I know my pics are good. The app also shows me a lot of unattractive people.However, I went to London and I couldn't believe the amount of hot guys I matched with. Especially white and Middle Eastern men, which I don't seem to have much luck with in NYC.Is this related to being considered as more attractive outside of the US? I'm just curious if this happens to anybody else.
I love to wear girls skinny jeans but...
Hey guys. Im 19 yr old boy and i live in jordan. and i love to wear girls tight jeans (if someone doesn’t like them just tell me and ill show that they are amazing and comfy) but here in our society they laugh and curse me if i wear them in public places Last week I was walking when i was wearing white ripped super skinny jeans and 3 men took me to an apartment and raped me. I always cry when I remember what happend
The X-Men and Gay culture
I'm gay and I'm a fan of the X-Men comics. Lately, I've made a weird connection between those two things.In the comics the X-Men are Mutant heroes fighting for both mutant and man kind. However, no matter how many times they save the world, they are always feared and oppressed. The reason behind being that when they save the world, the world doesn't see that it has been saved, all it saw was "a guy shooting FUCKING lasers from his eyes" and they think "look how weird and dangerous it would be if everybody shot lasers with their eyes constantly". It is a heroic thing to save the world regardless. But what about mutants who don't feel like playing heroes ? Well they will have to endure the fact that everybody will expect him to shoot lasers with his eyes, and will probably be harrassed by other mutants to use his power to be hero. Do you get it ? Maybe it's just how I'm living it, but I feel like the X-Men are the rainbow culture and I'm tired of getting shit from it for not wanting be a part of it.
Help in new relationship
I just started a new relationship with a guy I met on tinder. We went out for dinner and all dinner I was dropping I thought were subtle but noticeable hints that I was down to go back to his place after dinner for sex. He seemed really into me but we haven't really talked about anything sexual. I really like him and I don't want to scare him away and this was are first date but we've been texting for a few weeks now and I'm a sexual person. I don't know if I should bring it up or wait for him. Any advice?
2017. november 22., szerda
Would you date a gay FTM guy?
I'm scared I'll never be able to find anyone once I come out as trans and gay. I just want to know how many of you would date a guy who was trans?
Bleh
I hate being picky when it comes to finding a guy to like. I don’t wanna waste my time on someone I can’t see myself being with long term, even if it is going to be a hookup, you never know!That being said, I wish my standards weren’t so high, because being single, especially around this time of year, is lonely af. Any tips on how to stay sane?
How do I tell my crush I like him
So I like this guy. I am a gay male btw, I under stand it would probably be a lot easier to tell him if I was a girl, but since he probably doesn’t like boys that makes the situation soooo much harder. Anyway, He’s in my biology class currently. I’ve known him for a year since he was in my bio class last year too. We didn’t really start talking until this year. We talk during class sometimes and he uses my phone charger and stuff so we’re kind of like acquaintances. I’ve literally liked him since last year. He just seemed so confident, manly, handsome, funny, etc all the things I’m not. I don’t have him on social media, although I stalk his Instagram and know his Snapchat (it’s in his insta bio) I’m just too scared to add him. Any tips? Sorry I know this post was poorly written and rushed. If it breaks some sort of rule please let me know.
Lonely
Just looking for some hot guys to talk to add me on and feeling pretty flirty Snapchat mrich313
Sex with Bel Ami escort porn star
So recently a bel ami pornstar was in London, offering his escorting service. So, thought I’d take the opportunity to book a couple of hours. Verdict; it was a huge disappointment. He was the most beautiful man I ever laid eyes on, huge dick and muscaular smooth body. I can’t stress how beautiful he was, much better in real life then videos or pictures, an Adonis . He was gay for pay, which I figured out immediately. He kept trying to sell me a threesome with his buddy, which I’m really not into. Like all the attention for myself. Oh the sex was awful. stalked him later on Facebook, he had a girlfriend. He couldn’t really maintenan an erection, spent the most of the time eating his ass, which was delicious, I may add, but wasn’t really into providing a good service. I’ve been with enough escorts to know when they put a good ‘performance’. Anyway, he liked being sucked off and I swallowed all his load when he did cum, didn’t tell when he was ready, but did enjoy me licking his balls, I don’t usually swallow, didn’t mind as he was so beautiful. Anyway my question: what’s your experience sleeping with pornstars, is it worth trying again?
To be gay and to be at work
Ok, I'm gay. I work too. The only person at work who knows I'm gay is my boss. Which is my mom! Hilarious, right? I should feel more comfortable coming out then but people here are super homophobes and I worry that might hurt my mom's career. Uh oh, spaghettios! Anyway, what about YOU? Are you out at work?
Talks of my boyfriend wanting to move in with me.
I’ve been in a serious committed relationship for a little over 7 months. I moved from Indiana to Florida to be near him, but we live an hour away from each other. We’ve been having talks of having himself move in with me the last month or so. We both want to move in with each other. He currently lives with his parents and has never lived on his own. He wants the ability to see his friends or go to lunch with his mom without an hour distance. He said that would inconvenience him and those who currently live near him. I told him that as you get older things like that naturally decrease in frequency. He also said it’d be hard for him to adjust.How do I help him adjust? I’ve asked and gave examples of what I could do to help. (Have spare bedroom for him to use if he needed space) He said nothing, but should I be proactive or let him dictate his needs and concerns about the move? I don’t want to be overbearing, but I want to be accommodating.
if i post a selfie, will you tell me how i look? i don't know any gay people and i want their opinion.
i'm straight so if i'm intruding on your community please delete this. i just want to know what gay guys think about my appearance.
Slutty me
A straight friend of mine told me that he sometimes puts on a condom on and then fucks his piano chair in that little gap. So what did I do? Put my dildo in that gap and proceeded to fuck myself. Have a good one
Shoutout to all LGBTQ+ folks visiting their families for Thanksgiving
Whether or not you’re out, we all see you.
homophobic dickhead at it again
this dumb shit wont stop saying gay is a choice but he wont ask the gay guy like boi ask my for my opinion ask the gay guy how about no.
I want a relationship, but I also want to get laid.
Life story incomingSo, I've always had the attitude that the first time I have sex, it'll be with someone I love and have been in a relationship with for a long time. However, I'm getting older, and whilst I'm still looking for Mr. Right, I also just want to get laid.My question is, do you think it is okay for my first sexual experience to be a one-night-stand sort of thing? My worry isn't about who I lose my virginity to, it's about enjoying my 'first-time'. I only really get turned on by the intimacy of sex, not the act itself, but is that something I can get with a one-off?interested to hear your views. Thanks!
2017. november 21., kedd
Help! Everyone thinks I am gay and I am not!
So a while back I was told you will never really know if you are gay unless you try it. Being the open minded person I am I deiced that I should give it an honest try and see if I am gay or not. I needed a willing participant and looked at a couple of options.Thats when I met Jake on tinder!I told Jake that I am a straight male looking to try gay sex to see if I am gay or not. I told him how everyone kept telling me I have to try it to know for sure. He was okay with the fact that I wanted just sex and it would have to be me penetrating him. We don't kiss or anything and he gets down in the doggy style position and takes off his shorts. His bum is sticking straight in the air and his face was buried in his pillow. I take off my pants and try to get it up while looking at his body.For some reason it was not working!I decided that I was going to pretend he was a girl and maybe that would help me out and it did. I was able to penetrate and I could only stay erect if I pictured him as a women. It grossed me out a bit, but I was committed. After a minute he asks me to give him a hand if you know what I mean. I decided that I would because he was being so nice in doing this for me. He seemed to really enjoy it and we both released at almost the same time. It did feel nice, but I only enjoyed it because I was pretending he was a girl. I let him know that I was doing this and he was okay with it. He understood fully and was very supportive. We hung out for a while and talked about the experience and he told me that he thinks I am straight and that is cool.Now here is the problem!When ever someone asks me if I am gay I always say that I am not. They then usually say how do you know unless you try it. I tell them I have and tell them the experience, then they label me as secretly gay. I don't get it! How can I convince these people that I am not gay?
Update on earlier post
The guy who was taking down my gay is okay signs also was saying gay is a choice so I show a crowd that had gathered my cut wrists and he said you chose to cut your wrists. And the word bit is that I can't tell the principal he said this school is not a place for such statements you can't put up gay is okay signs up vote for love and help for my school and fellow gay men and women who feel this pain.
My friends hate my bf
Okay so I have a problem. My boyfriend has a criminal past and has been to jail. I don't care about that and to me he is super sweet, although he can be a bit over-protective sometimes. Because he has been to jail some times, he doesn't have many friends left. We are together for 3 months now, and most of my friends are afraid of him, or afraid for me he will harm me. In the past my bf was a bit controlling and manipulative towards me, but we spoke about that and now he changed his ways.But I don't really know how to handle this situation. My life with my friends and my life with my bf are becoming more and more seperate lives. For example: my bf rented a house in the woods to stay over at during NYE. There is space for 4 more people, but nobody of my friends wants to come with because my bf is coming. I don't know how to tell this to my bf, and I am quite disappointed in my friends.I am afraid if things continue to go this way, I'll loose both my friends and my boyfriend eventually.What would you do in my situation?
How do I stop seeking attention/approval from straight crush?
And I can't just avoid him without quitting my job.This crush has been going on for the better part of a year, and I'm just so tired of obsessing.Dude is like a drug to me.Every time I think I've moved past him, we have a water cooler conversation that sends me reeling back into addiction.I want to be able to move on without compromising our friendship, or needing to find someone else (because I am not emotionally ready for dating right now). I just feel like I should be able to separate him as a person from the traits I idolize. But it's been so exhausting and difficult.Why couldn't I fall for the gay guy at work who might have been actually into me instead? Sigh...
Solo Gay masturbation. Methedrone & poppers
I love watching gay porn whilst taking methedrone and poppers on my own. This makes the porn so hot and adds a new dimension. Just wondering if anyone else does this and what they like about it.
My New Reddit Boy Toy
So happy to say user/Synthetic_Synthesis and I really hit it off. The ass on this man is to die for.
I appreciate this community.
I don't post or comment here very often, but I check this subreddit everyday. I love that this is a place questioning and confused people can come and ask what they need to and get real, helpful advice. I love reading posts and learning from others experiences and learning about the state of LGBT issues in my home country and around the world. Basically you all are awesome and a stranger from a po dunk town in Pennsylvania really appreciates all the posters, commenters and mods here!
Here is my story on coming out and what influenced me to do so. Please share your story and what influenced you in the comment section.
I have had a lot of LGBTQ friends who have told me that I can come out whenever I feel it's ok. So I came out on Sunday night to two of my friends. One is gay and the other is straight but supports the LGBTQ population as he is one. So I told them knowing that they were the last people to make a downgrading comment. The gay friend lets call him Matthew told me that he wants me to be happy and I deserve it. And my straight friend said that he knew it from the way I acted when we talked about girls. My influence however came from the song by Tomboy- it's ok to be gay.🤣
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