2016. november 23., szerda

Pros/ Cons to being gay

Hello there,just to make sure: yes I am interested into other men (and of course male myself). Sometimes I come up with some pros and cons I notice gay men have over straight men. And I wanted to know wether other people thought of this. And while I can only talk about the male side, I would like hearing what gay women have to say to their pros and cons. So lets go. Here are some examples of pros and cons I noticed:Pros:-Sex. Its easier to find if you really search for it, and you have the full benefits of having both anus and male genitalia during intercourse-Public spaces. I could imagine that for pairs its ideal being able to go together in an onsen (japanese hot spring) for example. Or in general spaces where normally pairs would have to split up because males and females are not allowed to hang out together-Having similar interests. I know that is never a given. But what I hear about male to female relationships is that it is somewhat harder to have the same hobbies. Especially in "gendered" categories. While not impossible it is still pretty rare. Plus males act different then females. Due to hormones and what not. So males tend to understand one another betterCons:-Dating. Might be personal because I'm not a huge fan of dating, but generally it should be harder finding a date. Males interested in females could just ask any girl on the street and that girl would at least be interested in his gender (with a high probability). Where as if I would ask any guy on the street for a date he would either be laughing at me or feeling attacked (with a high probability)-Social. Like, you know. The people hating the LGBTQ+ community for no apparent reason other than fear of the unknown and religious interpretation. I myself tend to feel weird sometimes and its not unknown that people just hide their sexual tendencies. Coming Out should not be such a big deal and such. And here in the west we even have it good. In different countries it is illegal to be anything else then straight-Interest. I don't know if its just me but I really hate it that I get interested in men that I can be sure never will have any kind of interest in me. Like I know its kinda the same for men interested in women, but for different reasons(extra con: here in germany it is still not allowed for homosexuals to donate blood. Idk if it gets changed soon, but it is really silly. Like the only reason it is not allowed is because of the fear of HIV that existed in like the 70s. And the blood is even tested every single time, so it makes no difference in the end. Stupid. Just my opinion)So yes. Let me know what pros/ cons you noticed. And yes I still dislike using the terms 'pros' and 'cons' as it sounds like something you would gather before deciding wether you would like to be one or the other. But I am fully aware that it is no choice. That are just things that get on my nerves at times. But all in all I am happy with who I am (even though a relationship surely could not hurt)

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