So everyone's looking for casual sex???

I've had a great problem with my sexuality. Still have. I can't seem to accept myself, I always argue for gay rights, yet I can't accept me. I think this has to do with how I was raised. But that's not the point. Recently tried to date, I'm a Uni student. I tried internet search and seems like everyone is looking for sex, I went to Grindr and got lots of People looking for sex. This has filled the stereotype I always held. Is there someone looking for relationships, every gay I got online wanted sex or nudes. Now I'm traditional and believe in relations, if I had sex with a stranger I would never forgive myself... I feel guilty enough for feelings for another guy. Is anyone really wants a relationship in the gay world. I feel like gay families only exist on TV shows.