Getting very paranoid and depressed, I need help!!!

Hi everyone, Im starting to get really insecure and depressed regarding the lack of romantic and sexual activity in my life. I dont know whats going on and I would like some advice.Im young (23) and in shape and pretty good looking, so I dont think that is the issue. I also have a pretty bubbly personality so that isnt a problem either.However I just cant seem to meet anyone. I use Grindr but a lot of the time I start talking to some guys I find attractive and we have a good conversation for a day or two and then they just start ignoring me.Im starting to get paranoid that there is some conspiracy against me in the gay community that inhibits me from meeting any romantic interests. I know it sounds crazy but the above mentioned scenario has occurred too often for me to get it out of my head.I should also mention that I have only been out of the closet for around a year and that I live in an area with not a whole lot of gay activity( Bucks county Pennsylvania). i also dont have many gay friends or friends that know other gay guys.If anyone has any advice I would truly appreciate it, Im getting really paranoid and depressed and getting dangerously close to suicide.