Coming out at 30

I was married for 11 years and have 4 kids. I have always known I was gay, but ashamed. Last year I came out to my wife and she took it well. Wanted to stay together and figure things out for the kids, etc. We are in a great place. Our Divorce will be final soon.I am wondering what do I do next? How do I go about becoming part of the Gay Community, finding friends, possible partners, you know the whole experience. I feel like I am coming in so late In the game.Help!