2016. november 14., hétfő

What to do with date?

Hi,So, well, i need some advise i think! :) I'm currently dating a guy for about 2 months, i met him at my work and he is a really nice guy. He is goodlooking, smart, handsome and he is really sweet. Dating went fine, we saw eachother a lot (because it was so great being together), he sends sweet messages when we are not together and everything seemed fine. Until this week, he said to me that he wasn't ready for a "Serious relationship" because of his previous experience and his parents got divorced a year ago (which was pretty intense for him). It was a little red flag. But then yesterday. Somebody told me that he said "I like him and it's very great being together but i don't see it becoming a relationship". That shocked me a bit, so i asked him about it. He was very honest about what he felt and what was happening, he said he has trouble really falling in love after his previous experiences and that he is afraid to love somebody again and then get hurt or something, which is understand completely. I asked him multiple things like "Isnt't is just "Friends with benefits" then?" He said "NO". "Do you want to stop dating?" "No, absolutely not". "Do you feel anything for me?" "Yes i do, you really mean a lot to me and i love being with you". "Is there anything with another guy?" "No, of course not. I wouldn't even able to, because i have you"So now i'm a bit confused. It was a little bit awkward after that conversation but in a few hours it was as happy and joyful as ever. We were kuddling on the couch, he was giving me kisses, calling me "baby", saying how handsome i am and we watched a movie together like nothing ever happened. Just before he left i asked "Is everything ok between us?" and he said (very confidently) "Yes, of course it is" and gave me a kiss.But now the big question, what do i do with it? Is it just his uncertainty? Does he just wants to wait a little more before making things serious? In about 2 weeks i am about to meet his dad during a dinner. But i want to make sure it's not just "because". Anybody got some good advice?O yeah : This is an anonymous account, because i don't want it to be traceable back to me. I'm sorry!

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