Isn't celebrating gay pride and celebrating lgbt stuff kinda homophobic and whatever the word is for lgbt?

Think about it. If a non member of one of those groups truly doesn't care about what you are and doesnt judge you based on your sexuality and whatnot, then they wouldnt give a shit. the would simply move on with their lives not being affected. wouldnt the fact that said person is celebrating it mean that deep down, they are trying to overcompensate for the fact that they still hate those people?