Are gay men the most judgmental?

I sometimes feel the gay men community are the worst. The only guys that most are drooling over are young, muscular white guys. Even if someone looks pass the skin color, they ask you about the size of your cock and whether it is cut or not. This gets very tiring. There are a lot of us who are looking to have a long term relationship, not just sex.Gay men want other people to respect them and be treated equally. At the same time, they are sometimes the most biased people I've ever met. I've met some wonderful people who are very down to earth, but seems like whenever I go to bars, those judgmental types are all over the place.Does everyone feel that way about the community?