I've lost my GBF 🙁

So I am a gay man, 27 years old, I look alright. Married for 5 years in October.My husband kind of inherited my friends. My only link to the gay world after I got with my husband was a guy who we'll call Patrick.He was the best man at my wedding and we celebrate holidays together. Etc. well he eventually met someone and they became serious and blahFast forward threeish years they breakup and Patrick Doesn't feel a need to tell me, his "best friend" they've broken up for THREE MONTHS.all the while he's been hanging out with newer younger gay people that he hasn't bothered to introduce me to.We've been best friends for almost 10 years, and I just didn't know I could be replaced so easily.So now I don't have any gay friends.... other than my husband.