I don't like other gay people

So I no it sounds hypocritical, but most gay people annoy me. Basically the only type of gay person I like is one you can't tell is gay. I find very gay guys make me uncomfortable and butch lesbians as well. The guy part is partially attributed to me hating everything loud and flamboyant in general but there's other aspects that bother me to. I hate the stereotypical girly guys behavior and mannerisms and I've never met ones I don't find insufferable. Butch girls bother me to but only if there super super butch (I don't mind girls with the Mohawks and manly dress as long as they don't talk all deep and boyish.) I'm sure it goes without saying I don't like trans people either.You'll never make me like flamboyant people, but I don't really have a good reasons for not like the others. I just think there gross and I honestly don't no what to do.I know that all sounds bad but I'm trying to be candid and have a open discussion. So how can I start liking these groups of people? I don't need to educate myself on them, I know more then the average person probably. I just have this intense dislike I can't shake even though I want to. I don't think it's a self hate thing or anything I just don't like them.(Sorry from grammar)