Am I the only one on here who avoids Grindr?

So I'm gay, but I HATE Grindr. I used it maybe for 3 weeks before I got fed up and deleted the app.Problem 1.) I'm a bit embarrassed to admit it, but here it goes: while in every day life I feel average looking, the guys on grindr make me feel like shit about myself because I don't look like a greek god. I don't go chasing them, but it still sucks to see your small pool of options get even smaller. It's even worse when you message a cute guy you think you have a shot with and get ignored. :/ I can only imagine it's even harder for chubby guys/poc/ and just legitimately ugly fellows...Problem 2.) A lot of guys on grindr are really flaky. Like you finally make a connection with someone, either sexually or otherwise, and you guys get along, chat for a bit, and then you ask if you want to meet up? Silence, ignored. Or they're busy.I know you all probably have encountered these issues, but a lot of guys still choose to use grindr. For me, I've just decided to not use it. Partly for self-esteem reasons and partly because it's a waste of time....