Anyone got some advice?

So I am a bisexual guy [26], no experience with serious relationships. Main reason for this is that I don't easily connect with people emotionally, but also because I am rather picky about the people I date... As in, I'd rather not date than dating someone I only like a bit.Recently, I've upped my date-requency and started chatting with a dude on Grindr (yeah, I know...). We have quite a bit in common and spend the last couple weeks chatting daily on whattsapp, sometimes 2-3 hours straight, talking about things I usually don't talk about, with anyone. Haven't seen him IRL yet though, since we're both quite busy with work and school/uni.Ever since he said what type of guys he likes (he said he's quite picky as well), I'm really trying to fit perfectly in his ideal bf. Never done this for anyone and never expected to do this for anyone, until now. I really want something more with him, but I'm not sure whether he likes me that much to do the same. I've given him a decent amount of compliments, yet he seems quite detached with them... I don't expect or demand them, just in case you think that, but I am wondering if any of you guys has some experience or advice how to deal with this?I really like him and he is actually the reason I am telling more people I like guys as well (I can go on about the things I like in him for days, lol). In a couple weeks we're going to a festival/party with one of his friends and I know not to expect anything, especially with a friend of him there as well, but I can still hope right?How do I know this guy is into me or make him be more into me, I wonder. I feel like I really would do a lot for that, really weird for my doing. Got any advice or similar experiences?