2017. július 31., hétfő
LGBT+ folks supporting the new "pro gay" churches and saying islam is a religions of tolerant peace is like letting Jeffrey Dahmer represent the commoin LGBT+ person, just because his faith prevented him from being worse.
There is more correlation between Abrahamic religions being opposed to LGBT+ people than there is a reason to think they are accepting, they still throw gay people off roofs, hang them, stone them, and put them in Chechnya's camps, all because they do not follow the religion, yet I see loads of LGBT+ people advocating to accept muslims and christians into the fold because not doing so is somehow the same as being anti gay??Where is the logic in this new "to be gay you must believe in god!" Jeffrey Dahmer believed, was gay, and is famous, do you WANT him to be the new typical gay?
Gay social network – Right Platform for Everyone
If you belong to community like gay.Then a gay social network site provides essentials services to gay community.When searching for a successful love stories that they meet online,you know what we are talking about.Gay social network site will make it possible to meet people while not cash.Before you join a social networking site looking for love or any other purpose,you must make certain that it's systems in suit that's designed to shield your personal data.Social networking and Online Dating are new ways to make group,friends and love relationships.
Gay dating make simple with Dating for gay men
With the advancement of technology, more and more people are starting to look online for love.One good thing is that you don't have to worry about the embarrassment of being rejected face-to-face. Dating for gay men is that you won't be limited by your geographical location.Sure,you should look for someone that lives close to you so you can see each other in the real world.
Entering my 40s and confused
Well, the title pretty much sums up my situation. I've been marriage for 17 years and have amazing kids, but nothing in common with my wife or most women I meet. I'm no longer finding myself attracted to women sexually, I still find them beautiful regardless but that's the extent of it. I honestly just want to feel love which is something I can honestly say I have never truly felt... this all sounds dumb I'm sorry. I just want to live happy and loved. My spouse and I haven't shared a room for over 3 years. I wouldn't know were to begin, or is this where I begin. 😕
Life is rough.
Hello, really just here to rant off some shit.Life is rough, although I've only been here for 18 years it has been far from easy.Growing up in Northern Ireland really has been hard for me, I might have had the most supportive family anyone could ask for but the people make it so unbelievably hard.My school life was hard, getting attacked and bullied for something I had no control over, I took ill which has put me out of action for 4 years and somehow I'm still going on.I'd go into Belfast thinking of a nice day out that I might have but I can only think of bad times, a gay tourist couple getting spat on for holding hands, people throwing bottles into the crowd at "Belfast pride" the riots and the government being so backwards and fucked up.Yet here I am. Pushing on. Trying not to let this hold me down.It is hard, I don't want to pretend any more I want to be the open happy kind person I know I can be but I can't. So I wait.I wait for the day I can move away from here the day I can say "I'm gay" and not worry about getting a rock thrown at me or a fist.These people have made me the fucked up mess I am today. Insomnia, depression, anxiety and paranoia. It's hard to trust people because they most likely want to hurt you.With all this I have to wonder is it worth it? Will this pain end? Is there anywhere I can be accepted?It's scary. I'm afraid.And yet I push on.It's taken me 6 years to come to terms that I'm gay. How I wish I wasn't.I'm young, stupid and bound to make so many mistakes but I want to improve I want to be a better person I want to learn from my mistakes.College starts in September and I look at it with anticipation and dread, I've learned what not to do from school, people say that they will be accepting and open, I don't believe them.Either way this chapter of my shitty life is coming to an end, will the next one be good? I have no idea.All I know is that I will push on. I have to...That leaves me to ask you, is it worth it? Will there be anywhere that I don't have to pretend? Can I be who I am?
Need advice
So me and my bf have been together for 7 months and I have noticed that when we have sex he gets hard or when we are making out he gets hard but he doesn't want to show me his dick. He doesn't even want me to suck his dick. Or jack him off. What do you guys think i did wrong or am I suppose to do something to pleasure him? Anything can help.
How to hide your gayness?
So I am gay but I'm not out of the closet yet, and I keep getting in awkward situations.... Today I kept looking at this hot guy while he was getting changed and I was caught, I said a guy was hot (no one noticed though). And my friends keep on making gay jokes and calling things gay (in a bad way), how can I get them to stop without being suspicious? And how do o suppress my gayness?
Did any of you realize you were gay while in (or because of) a hetero relationship?
If so, uh, what happened? How long in were you and how long did you go (assuming you didn't marry said person)?
Curious about jocks....
Whats so great about them? I'm curious to get one, but want to know what the big deal about them are.
curious
So I consider myself straight but I have always wanted to try gay sex once to see if I like it, I mean I have tasted my own cum and didn't hate it. I am not sure if I would like being with a guy. I think if I had to choose a type to lose my gay virginity would be either a twink or more of a femboyish guy.
Are you ever too young to know your sexuality?
I'm a 13 yr male, and I think I'm gay? Or bisexual? And I don't know if it's just a "phase" or if it will last, (it's lasted for about a year now). I know this is really cheesy, but any advice?
Am I Gay Or Not?
There's This Really Cute Boy In My Class And I Definitely Fancy Him. I Currently Have A Girlfriend And Am Horrified At The Thought Of Gay Sex (Especially Anal) However Would Happily Date, Kiss, And Spoon Him. I'm 99% Sure He's Straight (Or At Least He Thinks So) As He's Still A Virgin. Anyone Else Had A Similar Experience? What Do I Do?
Does anyone hate themselves for being gay?
(I made a new Reddit account to ask this. I don't want it on my main.) I'm so sorry if this turns into a wall of text but I truly need helpSo, a bit of backstory first. I'm gay. I've been gay. I always was, but didn't accept it to myself until about a month ago. Just curious or bisexual or horny or whatever other excuse I could use to justify how I felt.Now here's my issue: I've spent so many years already suppressing my feelings, and now that I've acknowledged how I actually feel, I'm having a very, very hard time handling it. I told my close friends and family I was bisexual about a month ago, which I thought was true. Once I let myself "be bi" it became clear that I'd much prefer guys over any girls.This realization destroyed me. I'm accepted by my friends and family and will be, but I'm not accepting myself. I don't dislike gay people. I have gay friends and have had them for years, but I just never saw that being my life. Now that it is, I can't even think of myself or my future the same.I don't hate that I'm gay, but I hate what it entails. I hate how my friends treat me now (I'm "accepted" but apparently being gay means you like anyone of the same sex to some straight people. You just get treated differently even if they're still ur friends) I hate that I wouldn't be able to have a fully biological child with a guy. I hate how a child would feel in school with two dads. I hate how picky I am about the guys that I like. That's gonna make love very hard, because physical attraction is a very huge deciding factor in many relationships. I hate how my very close guy friend is being dragged through the mud in all this and being called shit behind his back because he's sticking up for me. Apparently gay guys can't have straight friends? BullshitI don't believe love's for me, because I'm a hopeless romantic, too picky for my own good, and hate who I am.I don't know what I expect from you redditors except maybe to talk about it somehow in hopes I might accept myself a little bit. I just feel like I let myself or others down in some way and I can't explain it very well. 😢
Someone else allergic to polyester?
One year ago I bought some nice boxers, the kind that are a bit difficult to find in Italy. They are made of 50% cotton and 50% polyester.I've discovered that I am allergic to polyester. After wearing them for some hours, my foreskin starts itching, it gets red, I experience rashes, it seems like if it's sweating, and it's turgid and warm (but clearly soft, an hardon in that condition would be impossible to have) . If I remove that underwear as I clearly have to do, it gets back to normal in some hours.Clearly I could live without polyester and only with cotton, but I am curious if someone else suffers from the same or I am quite an exception.
New to Cinciatti!
Like the title says. I'm going to be moving to cinci in September for work. If any of you guys are from there; what's it like? Do you generally feel safe there? What is there for an almost 21 year old (10/01!!!) gay guy to do in town? Extra points if you know of any good gaming shops to play yugioh or magic at!! Or general nerdy things do. Also the best sushi in town!?
What is everyone's favorite pair of underwear?
I love my white ck briefs. What's your favorite underwear that you own?
Opening Doors For Others.
So my entire life has been a journey, and the ones who have truly gone through it as well has been my family. This year marks my first year anniversary of being married to my husband. While the journey here has been very long, the process of seeing my family go through with it is something else. I think my being out to my family (and extended family) has truly made them reflect on who they are and how they see/interact with other LGBT people in their own life. Something I just found out that seems courageous is that my cousin just came out as well. She is going through the same ups and downs. My aunt is in shock and feel that she is in loving company. Her concern is on how people will react and what they will say. My mother offered the best advice, if you love her you will support her. You will be there for her and if they can't appreciate how great of person she is, it's their loss. My husband and I couldn't have been luckier. We're 19 years apart. I'm a millennial, 28, and he's from Generation X at 47. We are supportive of each others actions and have gotten paperwork ready for adoption. I just hope we can find a big enough house and the right career for me to be there with my family. I love teaching, but sometimes it does take away time from my family. In a weird way, I guess our marriage opened the door for others in my family to have a conversation on this. Being Latino is not easy. I think fighting that machismo characteristic among others has created a new tide of change. Just sharing.
So what if I'm fat! (sorry for the rant)
No, I'm not the best looking person around and I doubt anyone would fall in love with me at first sight, but I'm okay with that. I have an awful lot to offer this world because I truly care about people. I have a lot of love to give others and maybe those who wouldn't take a second look at me just don't deserve it. There's so much more to life than dating and sex and I think maybe our community forgets that.I'm slowlyl beginning to love and accept myself for who I am. I'm learning that my self-worth should not and is not dictated by the love and affection of others. Those who would judge me for being out of shape, not as young as I used to be, and fat are probably too shallow to understand the value of people in the first place.I've spent too many years telling myself that I'm too ugly for anyone else to love. I've spent too long feeling that I'm worthless because nobody has ever wanted to date me or call me theirs. Yes, the feelings of despair will come and go, but I know I'm not those things. I'm a truly wonderful and unique person who has a lot to give.
2017. július 30., vasárnap
Ru pauls dragrace
Guys where can I download or buy cds of rupauls dragrace .. season 5 and up .. including all stars
Going to blacks beach in San Diego
I'm 19 and I am visiting San Diego. I'm making a trip to blacks beach by myself and was wondering if you guys had any advice or anything I should do or lookout for!
Need a spanking from a dominant daddy
I live in Orlando and I need a spanking from a dominant daddy I'm 18 m kik me santiago_jordzzz
If I had money every time a guy I was talking to was tagged in something with a mutual gay friend, I'd be rich.
The number of times I'll be talking to a guy casually, we chat a bit, follow each other, maybe connect on Facebook and then not days later he'll be tagged in something with an old flame, or a close friend or hell today topped it all, tagged at dinner with my ex and his new boyfriend.I mean, I can't seem to get a drink out of people sometimes but I talk to a guy and a week later he's out to dinner with my ex and his boyfriend.God daaaaaamn the gay network is both impressive and frustrating, I just wanna hide under my duvet.
What do you think of prides, or what where your experience of them?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZzpKcmEeXcE
Breaking Up W/ First Boyf?
So, long story short, I came out like 2 years ago and started hooking up with this guy like a year later. I moved away for 6 months and we were in a relationship, technically non-monogamous, but neither of us slept with anyone else. We've done long-distance for a while, but now that we're back in the same place, I don't even want to see him really.I'm a very masculine guy with very classic interests but he's super flamboyant. I'm a pretty "establishment" guy with high career goals, but he's an "outsider" with no career plans. We're going into our Senior year at the same college, and I've been working my ass off this summer and he's done nothing. I'm constantly annoyed that we always have to do his things, but he's extremely uncomfortable and honestly even like incapable of existing in "my spaces" -- football games, hanging with fratty type guys, engaging effectively with my parents, etc.This issue is, it's both of our first relationships, and he's definitely more invested than I am, and I'm pretty sure he's falling in love with me.He also has some mental health issues, and it's a lot for me to deal with. Honestly, I just don't enjoy spending time with him, but I'm worried about hurting him.The question is, do I just continue this through college and break up with him then, or do I break up with him now? Both of us plan to go our separate ways in May anyway, so I'm unsure.TL:DR -- annoyed with college boyfriend, honeymoon period over, worth it to break up now or hold on longer
My sister googled "can homosexuality be cured"
And now i found out that even my brother (who is a religious) thinks that the reason i am gay could be because i was not brought up in the "right environment". No idea how i feel about, except i am a bit mad and confused and no idea if i should talk to them about it.
Is there something wrong with me?
Az összesítés nem áll rendelkezésre. A bejegyzés megtekintéséhez
kattints ide.
Handicapped
Hey guys. I just wanted to tell someone what happened and I am just posting it here... a few months ago I was in a horrible accident, I lost my leg and my whole body is seriously scarred. So today I was going through a park and a group of small children were playing and when they saw me they started screaming and laughing and running around me saying stiff like "look it's a one leg monster" "look how ugly it is" and so on... a few parents saw it and reacted immediately and apologized for what the kids said but I was just shaken. I know kids don't know any better but it was awful, I sat at a more private bench in the park and I just couldn't hold my tears. I cried for like half an hour. But the kids were right. I do look like a fuckin monster. How could anyone love an ugly scarred creature like me? I used to be a normal good looking man and now I scare children in the park 😢
how to find a 24/7 TPE dom?
I'm almost homeless and I want to be a complete slave anyway. Any good spots for finding a good dom? I want to find one who doesn't think handcuffs are bdsm. I'm looking for bondage, torture, slavery, etc.
Just watched G.B.F and to my surprise...
I was shookt when i searched on google if Topher(Taylor Frey) is gay or not. Wow..... just wow.
Dealing with the mother-in-law
So im not sure how many of you have to deal with this. But does anybody have a mother-in-law (or boyfriends mother) that you just really clash with...I've been with my partner for 4 years now, we're basically married as we've pretty much decided we're going to get married eventually, we just dont have the money to do the whole wedding crap and we want a house first anyway since its more important.Well my partners mother is literally the complete opposite of what i am. I'm very laid back, relaxed, chill, easy going, open minded and accepting of anything. She on the other hand is a control freak, attention seeking, demanding and difficult. My partner knows how difficult she is, and he knows i dont get on with her much. I play nice, do the round of smiles, go through all the pointless generic chit-chat with her when were around etc... But she just irritates me as everything she does is calculated to make her seem better or get attention.Today, i woke up with a pretty big headache, my father-in-law rings up telling us that shes been in a car crash, obviously we were concerned but shes not injured or hurt or anything but the car is damaged, not her fault, someone drove into her. Basically the dad asked (demanded) us to come see her as shes "shaken up by it" (we've seen the pictures of the car, its literally just the wheel arch is smashed in).Since its not serious or anything, i told my partner to go as its his mum but i'd prefer to stay as my head is pounding, its a Sunday, its a 1 hour drive to theirs and i have a pretty tough week at work ahead of me so i'd rather stay at home and get this headache sorted.Basically, their whole family has been 'summoned' to come see her (shocker... milking a small incident for attention, who would have thought) and some comments have been going around about where i am, my partner told them i'm not feeling the best with a bad migraine but his mum said "I could have died, does that not matter to him?"I'm livid, absolutely livid. Am i in the wrong here for wanting to stay home and get this headache sorted? Should i feel guilty for not wanting to see her? When we first heard she was in a car crash, i said "Where are they? ill go get changed" as i was ready to drop everything and help, but as soon as we found out shes fine, i feel like its okay to just be happy that shes fine and worry about other priorities?If it was my family and my mum, all it would require would be a nice 10 minute phone conversation, asking what happened, asking if shes alright, and all my family would be happy and fine with that. No need to rush over and see her because we all understand there is nothing serious going on.
2017. július 29., szombat
I have a boyfriend, but I have been coming to a realization that I love women (I am female)
I have been going through life changes: I moved in with my boyfriend of one year. I was convinced I loved him, but then he started talking about children and our lives together and for the life of me I could not imagine a life with him. I have been thinking about my feeling for the past half a year. I tolerate him in bed. I hate the idea of being in bed with him and or any other man. I try and imagine myself with a man, but I just feel disgusting after. And then I started thinking about my life before him. I have only ever had boyfriends, and I started thinking about why I was with them in the first place. Please, if anyone is out there, listen to the rest of my story. I am battling myself internally with this night and day. Like I said before, I have only ever had boyfriends. Ever since I was 16 I thought I like men. I have done things that I regret and I feel disgusted about. And so my recent relationship I have been thinking about my feeling and what I truly want. I am 23, and for as long as I can remember, I have been utterly and impossibly in love with women. I can remember when I was 11, my sister had a friend who lived down the street from us and she was a swimmer. I thought I just always loved hanging out with her because I loved the water. Don't get me wrong, I love swimming, but I loved hanging out with my sisters friend because I loved the way she looked in her one piece. It held the unbearable secrets underneath that one piece that I love so much. I loved her curves, her sharp edged defining her figure. And then there was middle school. I made friends with two girls who were inseparable. I loved watching the way they acted together. I was very observant as a child. They decided to not be friends with me because they say I was weird. I found out later it was because they felt uncomfortable with me in the room because I stared too much. I couldn't stand it, they looked lovely together. And then there was high school. My best friend in high school was a soccer player. I learned to play just so I could work out with her. The way the sweat fell from her body and glistened in the summer sunlight. I knew by that time I had feelings for women. I can remember all the nights we spent together exchanging secrets and laughs. I still think about her today. I can still remember the day she told be she was in love with some guy we met at a party. I think that was when I gave up on everything. I thought she was the most beautiful thing in the world, and then my world was crushed. That was then I started dating men. I'm sorry, but this story is still going on. I know it's long but keep listening. I started dating men when I was 16. I lost hope in my love for my former friend and I suppressed my feelings by drowning myself in relationships with men. I am never satisfied sexually with any of the men I am with and was with. My feelings are dull and I fantasize about women constantly. I am now in college, 23, and I still have fantasies about women. I had a trig tutor and I admit, I fantasized about her ever time we met. She was the only reason I excelled in my math classes up until Differentials. I admit, I still think about her every so often. Currently, when I have sex with my boyfriend of one year, I think about his best friends girlfriend. I think about the way she moves her hair away from her glasses, the way her thighs and ass look in her tights. She wears tights all the time. I melt every time we are alone together, I get nervous and never know what to say but spout off random physics terms. (I'm a physics major, supper nerd I know) My problem is this. I am currently in college, no job because my life is dedicated to my studies, and I live with my boyfriend. I have no home to go back to. I'm stuck. I'm stuck in this situation and I do not know how to get out, or what to do. Please, if any of you read this all the way through, I need advise. Please. I am lost.
I'm in love with my best friend. Do you think she feels the same way?
This is a bit to read, but I seriously need some guidance.I'm in love with my best friend. We are both females, both 19 years old. We've been best friends since we were about 14. I've liked her for almost this entire time. As far as I know, she's straight. And as far as she and everyone else knows, I'm also straight. I haven't come out, she's the only girl I've ever had these feelings for. I'm usually attracted to men.Firstly I'll tell a bit about myself and her. I'm more masculine, but in no way do I identify as a male or a butch. I usually just wear a men's tshirt or hoodie, and sweat pants. This is just because I'm comfortable in this. I'm kind of shy, so I don't get touchy around any other friends apart from her. She is VERY beautiful, she's also had a kind of rough upbringing. She was kicked out of home at 16, where she moved in with my family and I which we live over 2000 kilometres away (I used to live down her way, we went to school together until I moved when I was around 16, she moved here a year later). She recently moved back after living with me for two years after sorting things with her family. This was one year ago. She's very feminine, but she can also be a little sloppy and I like that!I'm just going to list some things below that she does or has done in the past.• She's very touchy, but she tries to do it discreetly, much like I do to her. For example she will grab me around the neck (jokingly haha) with her arms and kind of wrestle with me. She always wrestles me and tickles my stomach. She always sleeps on my shoulder during long car rides and stuff, I don't think she does that with other friends. One time in particular recently, she rested her head on my lap when we were sitting on the couch watching a movie and asked me to play with her hair.• She keeps my clothes. As I said, I usually dress in male clothes so I have a fair amount of comfy shirts and hoodies. She always used to ask to keep some. I'd let her. One time she uploaded a photo to Instagram wearing my shirt she got a while before and the caption to the photo read "Haha aw, I still have it :)". But she didn't tell me about the photo or anything, so I don't know if she wanted me to realise she was meaning the shirt. I got to excited so I just started to look for other things in the photo that she could've been referring to, but honestly it was just a photo of her and I couldn't notice anything else.• One time we were laying on a fold out bed together, we were just talking to my younger brother. We weren't sleeping in the bed, just laying on it. I was just laying behind her, we weren't touching. Then we both just got up about 5 minutes later and left to each others bedroom. Then within 20 minutes, someone had messaged me (without her knowing) some screenshots of some texts between this person (we'll call him Jake) and herself. She was telling Jake how we were just laying on the bed and that I was putting my hand on her hip and so she asked what do I want, and I apparently signified to go to the bedroom. I was so confused because none of that happened... why would she say it? I don't get it. She doesn't know till this day that Jake sent that to me, I was a little embarrassed so I just kept quiet. It also happened another time, about a year after this she told this Jake guy that she mentioned something about lesbians and I went all funny.. this definitely didn't happen, I would've remembered it.• Once we were sitting by the computer at my place just doing stupid stuff, and she decided to prop her phone up and just video ourselves talking and saying funny things. Towards the end of the video she grabbed my face and gave me the biggest kiss on the cheek, almost like it was a big urge. I loved it but I just acted like it was normal and tried not to get flustered.• She lived an hour away from me at one point, we were about 15. She used to come and stay at my place every second or third weekend, she would catch the bus for an hour to get to me. I'd always want her to stay longer so I'd convince her to stay for another night. She sometimes have work the next day (part time job). But then she would ring up and say she can't make it. This happened every time she stayed.• About a year ago, she had just come back home from visiting her family flying distance away. I decided to sleep with her in her room that night because I was happy she was back and wanted to hang out. Her and my other friend who was staying over (who she's also kinda friends with) were having conversations, I was trying to sleep. As weird as it sounds I just fake slept because I was trying to sleep anyway, hahaha. Then I decided I'm gonna cuddle up to her and see what she does. I wrapped my arms around her arm, put my head on her arm or shoulder, put my head all the way up near her neck. It sounds weird, I know, but I just wanted to see her reaction. She was just having conversations like normal with my friend while I was doing this, she was just acting like it was normal. Then I seen flash through my eyelids haha, assuming she'd taken a photo of me. Just assumed she was being funny. They talked for a hour or two and then went to bed. I woke up the next morning and the my other friend was looking at her snapchats and she opened the photo of me, and it was captioned 'cute'. I didn't get the snapchat, so she mustn't have wanted me to see it.• Once I decided to go hang out with her in her room. At this time she only had a single bed because she had just moved in, so it was a bit squishy. We were just being funny and taking stupid photos of each other, but I had just laid on the edge of her bed. Somehow I found myself laying between her legs, but I didn't even realise at first. We weren't doing anything, it just happened to be the position we were sitting. She didn't ask me to move or anything.• She sometimes mentions that she dislikes lesbians. But, I do that too. I know it seems like such a terrible thing to say, but I only do it to hide the fact that I have feelings for her. I wonder if she says it for the same reason.• I don't know if this is a lesbian thing, but she did watch all seasons of Orange is the New Black... just a thought ;). She also done a school assessment about gay marriage rights.So, let me know what you think. Do you think she feels the same way or a similar way? Let me know why or why not.
Need Advice
So me and my Friend are 15 and 14. One day, there was a party at my house. It is typical for everyone at the Party to make gay jokes. Then, about 3 hours later as people are leaving, we are sitting in my room and he was playing xbox. (I was laying on my back, on my phone) He asked me if i remembered the gay jokes and we both laughed. Then, he came up and said if i wanted to try. So, he pulled down my pants and started to get hard. It was both our first time so we didnt quite know what to do. so we stopped. we didnt talk about it. it was time to leave, he left and said we will talk later. Should i call him? Ask if he wants to try? He seemed like he wanted to but did not know how to make it go in.
Not Ready for a Relationship or to Get Married
It's been years since I've been on Grindr and it's mostly because I'm not interested in what it predominantly offers: hookup sex. I've never been in a relationship and I'm definitely not ready to get in one. I honestly don't want to right now and it's primarily because I am not where I want to be in life. Not being financially secure and independent is probably my biggest insecurity. Last thing I would want to do is be dependent on my partner. Anyway, I digress. So I made an account on Grindr and I honestly made it just to find one person to hook up and never see again then delete my account. Then I meet this super nice guy, very respectful, funny, mature and wealthy. I don't find him as physically attractive but that's not a huge factor for me. I'm 24 and he's 30, and he said he wants to get married and grow old with someone. I would love to get married someday and grow old with my partner: but I know for sure that I'm not ready to make any such commitment. A part of me doesn't want to let him go but I'm just too insecure and haven't fulfill my ambitions. I'm still dating him but I think the best thing for me to do is let him go. He deserves someone whose ready to love him and financially independent and I'm not there yet. I'm going to let him know soon. Has anyone been in a similar situation?
18-21 Sep, 2017, the Sexual Violence Research Initiative will bring together over 450 researchers, gender activists, funders, policy makers, service providers, practitioners, & survivors from around the world who are working to understand, prevent & respond to sexual & intimate partner violence.
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Plastic dongs on a plane!?
Ever tried to get through security with toys in your luggage?I heard you should take the batteries out of the electric ones but what about just static dongs and bps?I certainly dont want to be part of a separate inquiry or do anything embarrassing.Im about to get on a trip with just cabin luggage and i wanted to be sure what i can and cant do and im mostly interested about europe if there is anyone to give some input.
so i tend to identify as gay despite sleeping with women.
im a "hetro" cis male whos had happy M/M relationships in the past but has banged only girls for 10+ years (so technically bi without actual attraction to cock??).. but anytime the subject comes up i verbally identify as gay.. i only really noticed this recently.. what do you reckons going on??
Grindr is like stat grinding in an JRPG
Spent a whole day on a couple of time wasters who within 5 mins of each other decided to meet me.The time and effort involved in doing this was like leveling up in a JRPG. Well, it was mostly tedious waiting and thoughts of rage blocking, but hopefully you get the point.
I'm in love with my best friend. Do you think she feels a similar way?
This will take time to read, but I seriously need some guidance.There's no other way to put it. I'm in love with my best friend. We are both females, both 19 years old. We've been best friends since we were about 14. I've liked her for almost this entire time. As far as I know, she's straight. And as far as she and everyone else knows, I'm also straight. I haven't come out, she's the only girl I've ever had these feelings for. I'm also attracted to men and I'm trying to date so I can lose feelings for her.Firstly I'll tell a bit about myself and her. I'm more masculine, but in no way do I identify as a male or a butch. I usually just wear a men's tshirt and hoodie, and a pair of sweat pants. This is just because I'm comfortable in this. I'm kind of shy, so I don't get touchy around any other friends. She is VERY beautiful, she's also had a kind of rough upbringing. She was kicked out of home at 16, where she moved in with my family and I which we live over 2000 kilometres away (I used to live down her way, we went to school together until I moved when I was around 16, she moved a year later). She recently moved back after living with me for two years after sorting things with her family. This was one year ago. She's very feminine, but she can also be a little sloppy and I like that!I'm just going to list some things below that she does or has done in the past.• She's very touchy, but I think she tries to do it discreetly, much like I do to her. For example she will grab me around the neck (jokingly haha) with her arms and kind of wrestle with me, and she full on wrestles too and she's setup her phone on record once (with my knowledge) and filmed us wrestling.. I would do that to capture some special moment or something, but that's just me. Anyone else? She always sleeps on my shoulder during long car rides and stuff, I don't think she does that with other friends. One time in particular recently, she rested her head on my lap when we were sitting on the couch watching a movie and asked me to play with her hair. I loved it, but it got me thinking. She also gets me to draw on her back.• She keeps my clothes. As I said, I usually dress in male clothes so I have a fair amount of comfy shirts and hoodies. She used to LOVE asking me if she could keep some. Even if I loved the item of clothing, I'd let her keep them. I liked her to have them. She would upload photos of herself in them, one photo in particular she was wearing my shirt she got a while before and the caption to the photo read "Haha aw, I still have it :)". I got to excited so I just started to look for other things in the photo that she could've been referring to, but honestly it was just a photo of her and I couldn't notice anything else.• This one is odd. So basically one time we were laying on a fold out bed together, we were just talking to my younger brother in a spare room. We weren't sleeping in the bed, just laying on it. We were kind of in the spooning position, but about two feet apart, so we weren't touching or anything. I think I was just annoying her and flicking her ear or something just messing around like a friend, something like that. Then we both just got up about 5 minutes later and left to each others bedroom. (We lived together at this point). Then within 20 minutes, someone had messaged me (without her knowing) some screenshots of some texts between this person (we'll call him Jake) and herself. She was telling Jake how we were just laying on the bed and that I was putting my hand on her hip and so she asked what do I want, and I apparently signified to go to the bedroom. I was so confused because none of that happened... why would she bring it up? I don't get it. She doesn't know till this day that Jake sent that to me, I was a little embarrassed so I just kept quiet. Also another time about a year later, she must've said something else to him again, and he asked me about it once again. She came up with this out of nowhere. Apparently she mentioned something about lesbians to me, and I 'went real funny and quiet'. I don't recall her ever mentioning anything... I know I would've got funny about it and remembered it because of my feelings. But it didn't happen... I don't know why she's making up these things.• This one was a while ago, but once we were sitting by the computer at my place just doing stupid stuff, and she decided to prop her phone up and just video ourselves talking and saying funny things. Towards the end of the few minute long video, she grabbed my face and gave me the biggest kiss on the cheek, almost like it was a big urge. I loved it but I just acted like it was normal and ignored it.• She lived an hour away from me at one point, we were about 15. She used to come and stay at my place every few weekends, she would get the bus for an hour to get to me. I'd usually really want her to stay longer so I'd be cheeky and convince her to stay for another night. She would tell me she has work the next day (part time job). But then she would ring up and say she can't make it, almost every second or third weekend. There's only one person I'd do this sort of thing for, and that's someone I'm desperate to spend time with.• About a year ago, she had just come back home from visiting her family at the other side of the country. I decided to sleep with her in her room that night (we used to sleep in each other's rooms sometimes) because I was happy she was back and wanted to hang out. I also had another friend visiting me that week who is also kind of friends with her, so we all decided to bunk into her bed together. I was on one side, my friend was on the other, and she was in the middle. Was very uncomfortable to say the least, lol. I was pretty tired so I decided I might go to sleep, so I put my phone and shut my eyes. They were having conversations, and it kinda prevented me from going to sleep. As weird as it sounds I just fake slept because I was trying to sleep anyway, hahaha. Then I decided I'm gonna cuddle up to her and see what she does (she would've assumed I was doing it in my sleep, so it didn't bother me). I didn't want to do too much, just subtle things. I wrapped my arms around her arm, put my head on her arm or shoulder, put my head all the way up near her neck. It sounds weird, I know, but I just wanted to see her reaction! She would move after a few minutes so I had to move too. She must've just got bored of the position lol. Then I seen flash through my eyelids haha, assuming she'd taken a photo of me. Just assumed she was gonna send me a snapchat of myself with a face filter or something. Then, they talked for a hour or two and then went to bed. I woke up the next morning and the my other friend was looking at her snapchats and she opened the photo of me, and it was captioned 'cute'. I didn't get the snapchat, so she mustn't have wanted me to see it.• Once I decided to go hang out with her in her room. At this time she only had a single bed because she had just moved in, so it was a bit squishy. We were just being funny and taking stupid photos of each other, but I had just laid on the edge of her bed because there was nowhere else. Somehow I slithered my way up onto the bed more and I was literally laying between her legs, but I didn't even realise at first. We were just laying messing around though, it wasn't anything sexual. I kind of was comfortable and of course I liked it, and she seemed to like it too. We weren't doing anything, I was just sitting there. But she didn't seem to mind, it would've been very uncomfortable but she didn't ask me to move or anything.• She sometimes mentions that she dislikes lesbians. But, I do that too. I know it seems like such a terrible thing to say, but I only do it to hide the fact that I have feelings for her. I wonder if she says it for the same reason.• I don't know if this is a lesbian thing, but she did watch all seasons of Orange is the New Black... just a thought ;). She also done a school assessment about gay marriage rights.• Back in the tumblr days, I was just going through some of my friend's blogs and stuff. I decided to have a look at hers, and I was just looking at her likes (which I remember once she was telling me how she thought they were private) and there was a hour something long lesbian porn video in there... I never mentioned it to her.Also, I'm getting a psychic reading from a VERY reputable psychic/medium in a few days. I'm a big believer in these things. I'm pretty much getting the reading for career advice and to connect with my grandmother. I was thinking, should I ask/hint about this subject to the psychic to try get answers? Do you think it could help me?So, let me know what you think. Do you think she feels the same way or a similar way? Let me know why or why not.That's all I can think of for now, if I can remember anything else I'll edit my post. Thanks for taking the time to read!!
After first sort of date
Hi, A few days ago( it was monday) i went out on a date with a guy that I've met on Grindr( he asked me out). It wasn't anything sexual, we just met in this nice bar with healthy stuff and talked for about 2,5 h. We really found our common ground, there was not a single moment of uncomfortable silence, we easily moved from one topic to another. I really enjoyed talking to him and also he was pretty handsome and nicely dressed. One hour after our meeting he has befriended me on Facebook. Two days after that I sent him a message( There was no contanct between us after the meeting) regarding a follow up to one of a thing that we were discussing and I also asked him If he'd like to meet up again. He repplied sure, but I'm free on thursday evening or whole friday. And I proposed Thursday. But on thursday we wrote to me that we cannot meet with me neither on thursday not friday, so I asked him to write to me, when he'll be free and he only viewed my message without responding to it. It's Saturday today and I haven't Heard from him ever Since. What do you think I should do? Should I write to him? If so, what should I write to him? Because I'm starting to think that he didn't enjoyed our first date as much as I did, but looking back at it I still see a certain connection between us. But If so, why would he befriend me on Facebook and why would he write "sure" on my proposition? Gee! this area( dating and relationships) is not the one I'm very good at, so Please help me.
Have feeling for a guy who cannot let his ex go
So both of us are 21. I met this guy one week ago on the app and we soon agreed to meet in person. After that we were meeting everyday and having beautiful talks. We can tell that we share similar background and mindset, interest and taste and views.Today he asked me how I would define our relationship. I said that I would expect it to be more than friendship, but he thought being friends would be more preferable for both of us. He told me it's the pressure from parents of his ex that killed the previous relationship, and he cannot let him go. (They broke up six month ago, with little contact since then)Our conversation can often go quite deep and the story I mentioned is also very private for him, so I know even if he refers to me as "a friend", I'm still a special one. But I want to make our relationship further. What should I do? Should I still keep my feeling for him? What can I do to move forward with him, at the same time he won't feel pushy?
Munich gay life?
Hello everyone, I decided that I will go on a trip to Munich to practice my German because it's the closest city to me, (6hr by train from Italy), how is the gay life there? I wanna meet new people and socialize as much as possible but I need gay places to go to or else it's not gonna happen, I also did some google research but I'd love to ask reddit for the chance of someone living there, thanks!
I'm back!
It turns out that my pathetic ex logged into this account while I was on holiday and deleted it! Guess the ugmo didn't like what I wrote about him 😙
Asexual? Graysexual..?
I'm back again, because hey new discovery with my sexuality.I thought i was bisexual but i dont know anymore, i'm highly confused, i've started to research the Asexuality.. spectrum.I'm more attracted to men but i wouldn't mind a romantic relationship with a girl (the same gender). I'm not that interested in sex but i wouldn't completely shy from it, i would only have sex if there were real emotional feelings and wouldnt just jump in bed with someone the first chance i got. I dont know, the thought of sex kind of grosses me out, i prefer the emotional side of it, how it brings you closer etc. I'm also not that interested in kissing/making out, i think it would be nice i just wouldn't want my mouth attached to someone else aLL the god damn time. I prefer the little moments, like hugging etc.I just dont know what to think anymore.
Any advice on relationship, please?
I've been dating this guy for two months now. I love him, he says he loves me too and his actions show that he means it.The thing is that, when I met him, he was in an open relationship with a guy he hasn't seen for the last 4 months, even though they are still in contact online. At first I didn't really mind it because I wasn't in love with him , but now it bothers me a lot , because officially they're still together.I've been clear from the start that I wouldn't want an open relationship, so I confronted him about this and he told I'm the one that his loves and that his other boyfriend knows that he's seeing someone else.I don't like this situation, firstly because he's boyfriend thinks it's just a part of their open relationship. Second because it emplies that he's cheating on his boyfriend. And more importantly, for me, I keep wondering why he didn't break up with yet, since he says he loves me.I'm so jealous 😣😣
Gay club
Being sucks because if you're not an ugly white guy you literally no attention. #whiteprivledge.
2017. július 28., péntek
Is it weird to go to gay bars by yourself?
So I don't have any gay friends. The only one I could consider a friend is my ex, but we don't talk much. There's a gay bar in my town and I saw a lot of people my age outside when I drove by tonight. I have pretty bad GAD and I was wondering if it's weird to go to a gay bar alone. If this isn't the right sub for it just redirect me to the right one.
Advice for getting into it
Well, as my username suggests, I'm gay. I'm 21 and really just got to grips with it after years and years of trying to convince myself I'm bi and might have a future with a wife, kids, all that jazz (which fucking annoys me because I was involved in my GSA in high school. I could have been out so much sooner dammit!) like this kid who was in denial because that's all I've seen my whole life when it comes to stable, monogamous relationships, which is something I want.Long story short, I have a plan but want feedback. My thinking is I'm going to set up an OKCupid profile, start dating, and come out to my family (there are hints but they don't know - I've been asked before and lied, I'm confident they'll be accepting, we talk about LGBT issues - even T issues! which is pretty progressive as far as I can tell - and they're pretty liberal) when I have a boyfriend. I figure this will be easier because "I have a boyfriend, I'm gay" is easier to say than "I like cock, I'm gay" which seems like what they may take it as if there's no romantic component involved (I'm in my own head on this and I know it, but what the hell, seems like a reasonable plan).Basically I just wanted some input and thoughts on what I see as a 2 part process - part 1 being getting involved with people and living the life I should have been living since I started college, and part 2 being coming out to my family - is this a reasonable plan? Is there anything I haven't considered? Any criticism or suggestions you have to offer?
Best gay animes? (No porn pls)
I need some anime to watch that is cute and has prominent gay characters, since it's summer and I'm bored. Any suggestions?
Independent/startup brands inspired and/or created by gay men?
I'm looking for subtle brands created by gay artists as I am trying to support the gay community. I read some article about Oso Apparel and was interested in stuff like this pin: http://ift.tt/2vRNIib It's subtle, but it carries meaning. Not only that, but it supports the artists. Please help me find some more like this, list them please!
I just burst into crying because of something my friend straight said
I live in a homophobic country (Poland) and one of my friends I just came out to said that "you've been a great friend, you've always been and you always will be no matter your sexual orientation is, don't let anyone make you feel any worse because of it".I instantly burst into crying, I always feared rejection and my friends showed me great respect even though they're all totally straight.
I Don't Do Black. - Between Bias & Preference
Hi guys, I just wrote my first article on race, actually article in general and I was wondering what u guys think of it. By it I mean my writing style. Please critique.(http://ift.tt/2vfCS8W)
Write a letter to your 12 year old self
What would you say? Would you encourage yourself to come out sooner? Tell yourself to stay hidden in the shadows?
"There Are More Important Issues!"
I hope you don't mind me sharing my thoughts on here! I felt compelled to unfriend someone who is not afraid to make her "Conservative" viewpoints known on her Facebook profile. She went on this rant which started with your typical "keep it in the bedroom" and "stop shoving your lifestyle down our throat." The last sentence stood out to me because it reminded me of how ironic many of these anti-LGBT bigots really are. It said "there are more important issues."I honestly do try to refrain from being someone who automatically unfriends those who disagree with me. However, I don't know this person that well. I have only seen her face to face maybe once or twice within the past few years. I don't want this kind of bigotry to fill my news feed.I find it ironic when people say there are "more important issues" than LGBT rights while they (often simultaneously) turn around and make the personal lives of others a matter by expressing their opposition to laws which would protect people from discrimination in workplaces, schools and in housing.We could focus on those "more important issues" if people didn't think like this person whom I felt compelled to unfriend on Facebook!
Anyone else at this point?
So I'm 23, and I have been out and dating since I was 15. I feel like I've already been through my 'slut phase', got all my craziness and experimenting out. I then decided I wanted to start dating and I found an awesome guy after trying for a while. He was my one serious relationship where we had our own place together that I thought was going to last but we were forced to split because of forces out of our control (we were both military, he got orders to go somewhere I couldn't follow him). Anyway I decided to move back to my home town and not beat myself up about losing him and go right back into the dating scene. I've been going on dates for 2 years now and it's been terrible. Everyone in my hometown I go out with has a major negative character flaw. And I think I'm giving up on dating finally. I'm just done. I'm kind of done with the gay community at least where I live. I want nothing to do with it. I've decided to be a loner, delete all my apps on my phone, and just focus on myself. I know this isn't necessary a bad thing and actually probably the best thing for me but I still find it sad that after 8 years this is where I'm at.
Are there any LGBT influencers?
Hey peopleI created an app for LGBT community and i want to get it out there. I would like to get in touch with some influencers who wants to take some of their time to take a look at it and write or post about it.It's pretty new app with some fresh approach on LGBT dating and meeting in general.Does anyone know where to find influencers?
Guy advice?
Hey guys...I hope I'm in the right place... I've lurked on reddit for a long time but finally felt compelled to seek wisdom on here. The situation: So I was kind of seeing this guy for like a month and we went on about 4 dates and had been talking non-stop and sharing memes etc.. which is unusual for me since I don't often make romantic connections and it seemed like it was going great. The last one was a week ago and he came over and I made him dinner and we watched a movie and cuddled and made out etc and things were sweet but then all of sudden this week he got really distant. So I backed off and waited but it just got worse. I ended up breaking last night and I texted him telling him that I was getting a weird vibe and I was hoping he/we was/were ok. He responded by burying the fucking lead and saying we were cool and then telling me he had just been super busy and it wasn't me (bullshit) and then he was like "that being said, i think we should just be friends" and I just felt really sucker punched since I haven't felt anything for anyone in a long time and I can count the number of times I have on one hand. And it just kind of came out of nowhere? Like things were going really well (I mean I guess they weren't...but they seemed awesome) and all of a sudden....this. Any ideas? I already had rebound sex lol but i feel like it just made me a little sadder. I'm currently just sublimating my sadness into rage and then working it out but any insight or advice would be greatly appreciated. For reference I am 26.
Question
What's the thing you hate most about being gay? I hate 1. That I can never have kids and 2. That my dad will never accept me. Wbu?
A Message To All Transexuals (This Is Not A Hate Thing Just Watch Before You React)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5hMM62LP0M
I'm homophobic
Hi,I'm gay, and I'm homophobic. In the past, I've been 'attracted to' both girls and guys. Later on, when I discovered porn, it became kind of a habit to masturbate to gay porn, and my attention shifted to guys more.Anyway, I've had one crush, where I felt love and affection for a guy, at that point in time I was in love and we'd do a bunch of things together. It didn't work out, after an incident in which he tried a move on me and when I responded, he acted like he wanted to discard it. Eventually confronted him with my love for him but he rejected me.I've been familiar with gay subculture when I was 13 or so, I joined something similar to reddit. I got a bunch of internet friends from there, and most of the guys were normal, there was one 'diva' but I thought he was kind of cool, I secretly wanted to be like that.Anyway, fast forward to now, I've had a friend with benefits because I wasn't really ready for love anyway. It was fun the first time, the second time I noticed he was feminine and I got really put off by that.Since that, I've noticed that my gay dar has improved and I don't like the faces of most gays, I don't like the squeaky voice, I don't like how they act. OF course, this is not true for every gay person out there but it seems like it is a bunch of them. I've dated a few times, and I just can't stop thinking that I'm weirded out by the person next to me. It's almost like, I want to have love and affection for a guy, but to a straight guy. And I know that's paradoxical. Honestly, I know not all straight guys are attractive (like on a ratio of 1 attractive guy to 5), but I like their energy more, they're laid-back, they don't say that much, they have prettier faces.I mean maybe some of you guys can relate and don't like the squeaky acting, but it's also more profound. For example, when I found out two guys from 13RW were 'dating' in real life I couldn't stop look at their faces and think 'they're gay' and 'they look so gay' and secretly be repelled by it. Maybe this has something to do with that friend with benefit? Because I'm kind of disgusted by it all now. Even looking at porn, I tend to jerk more to straight porn because sometimes gay guys act feminine suddenly and I'm turned off. I hate doing this.
So how do you guys keep in touch with a guy you like?
So I posted somewhere else yesterday about my first encounter. Long story short, we both swiped right, we talked for a really long time, we eventually made out, and I blew him.But then I think I wanna keep talking to this person. Are there things I need to know because I don't wanna come off as annoying to him?Thanks :)
How do I come out
I came out to some close friends and my brother but I'm really scared about my dad because he does not support the lgbt community. I wonder if he is going to accept me or push me away. What do you guys think I should do to make it easier.(Thank you so much this community is so supportive💖💖💖)
my bf has been cheating on me for 2 years.
(Sorry about the long post)About two years ago, he confessed to me that while I was abroad taking care of my dying mother for couple of months, that he met this guy and they jerked off together.It was the worst time of my life because I was grieving my mother's loss and at the same time felt betrayed by the second most important person in my life.After long talks, I decided to forgive him as he used the excuse that he felt lonely and alone and he went along with what the guy wanted because he liked the attention.He then asked for an open relationship, something that I never imagined I would ever agree to be in. I went along with it because I love him and I probably have no self respect.For months, nothing happened, neither of us met anyone and he didn't show interest in meeting anybody. Although he is gorgeous, he has a lot of self confidence issues and so that plays a role as to why he doesn't meet anyone.Then few months ago, after months of us not being happy with each other, we broke up (for the first time). He broke up with me to be more specific, saying he is not happy. I didn't stop him.We were broken up for about 3 weeks. I met few guys on successful dates and then eventually he wanted to get back with me saying he loves me and all of that. So hesitantly, I agreed. Figured that he saw the outside world and realized how much I mean to him. He also said that he doesn't want an open relationship this time. That he only wants me and thats it.Couple weeks ago, I complained about me not being happy sexually with him, we rarely do anything and if anything happens, it's always me pleasuring him and thats all. He apologized and made up couple excuses and said he'd work on it. The next day I went through his phone and I discovered that he's been talking to guys on this fetish website (which we are both on and I allowed both of us to be on it in the goal of making friends with people with the same kind of fetish) not only he's been talking to these guys sexually, but he admitted to me that he's often jerked off because of these conversations which would explain the lack of sexual interest he has.He again apologized and made me feel sorry for him and promised he'd not do it again.Then last night, I go through his phone randomly to find that he's had the guy he cheated on me with on snapchat, registered under a different name (one of his old friends) and it shows that they've been in contact often. When I questioned him about it, he admitted they've been messaging occasionally and even having sexual conversations and that he's even sent dick pics to him.I feel like my entire world is just a lie. I don't have enough self respect or self confidence to walk out. He says now again that he wants an open relationship, that he is not happy and that he's just been trying to please me and make me happy, which I called bullshit on because he's literally been lying and cheating behind my back for 2 years non stop. He never tried.I'm not really looking for advice, only because I know what the 'right' thing to do. I know I should walk out and leave him. I'm a good person and a good boyfriend and I know I deserve better... I just wanted to vent because I can't share this with any of my friends because I'd feel ashamed.
2017. július 27., csütörtök
honestly social media sites that catch people making racist/homophobic/sexist comments about others should post a public notice on their profile of their crime, and block them from making posts for at least an hour.
honestly social media sites that catch people making racist/homophobic/sexist comments about others should post a public notice on their profile of their crime, and block them from making posts for at least an hour.
How do you signal to a guy that you're interested?
Again, using a throw away because my friends follow my other account and I'm not out.But that being said I would probably coming out to them if I found a dude to date. There is this one guy in mind, who I mentioned in my last post named "Ed". TL;DR He's really sweet, really cute and has wanted to hang out with me a lot more lately. I kind of chickened out of just plain talking to him about it and confessing it all at Prom. But we're going to hang out sometime soon and maybe go on a bike ride, said something about this bike path that he normally takes and wanted to show me. I really want to do something about these feelings I have for him this time!So do you guys have any ideas as to how I can kind of hint to him that I want to date him? Note that: With me he's normally a really touchy guy so I'm not sure that subtle contact will do much difference.
Unprotected sex
Ok I made a stupid decision I want to this guys apart under the impression he had condoms and upon arrival I asked and h said "no". In the heat of the moment I said fuck it we were both naked anyways, how worried should I be?
How hard is it to come out to your family? (read on)
I'm a straight male. But I have a strong suspicion that my brother is gay. And we were both raised with a very strict family that has opposing views for that kind of orientation. We are all over 21. So I wanted to ask you guys, how hard is it going to be for him to come out?
Top, Bottom or Versitile?
Hey I am new to this community and I wanted to know what your opinions are on the top or bottom division and and the gay tribe situation?
Anyone
Anyone else from a homophobic country? If yes, how do you get going, how do you keep yourself positive?
Desensitization
Would it be unusual for a virgin to masturbate to the point where it won't work anymore? I watch porn while I try but I just can't peak anymore. Did I get myself to the point where I would have to be with a guy to be able to do anything?
Do you also hate rough or too porn-like "passionate" sex ?
I've recently come to realize that I find slow sex to be much more enjoyable than super porn-like sort of superficially passionate sex.As a gay man who did not commit to a relationship in last 2 years, I've realized that I had latter form of sex much more but it honestly isn't all that better than masturbation, thinking about it now.Just to give a simple example, I like slow bj by a cute boy looking right into my eyes accentuating the warmth of their mouth so much more compared to porn-like bj where it's very fast and hardcore.Talking with my straight girl friends, I have realized that superficially oh-so-passionate way of having casual sex did not seem to be significantly prevalent among straight people. I hate this though.My rant is over, what do you guys think ?
Shooting into guy's mouth and face
I like to shoot my cum into the mouth (or generally face) of other guys. Some guys on Grindr are happy to comply. They visit me at my home and then we do it. I like it when they swallow. Because eating cum is considered somewhat risky, I always pay attention not to touch them very much and I also do not perform sexual acts on them, but sometimes they like to lick and touch my body while they jerk off after they swallowed my cum. Is there anything I should consider or be aware of? Do you also like to do this and how do you plan/proceed?
Rejection
I like a guy a lot. I know he is straight but for some reason I wanted to tell him. We are friends. He knows I am gay and so I came clean and told him that I am inlove with him. He reacted okay but said he could never love me back that way and only as a friend. I took it pretty hard but now he has a girlfriend and obviously he told her about that and she made him chose between her and me, so he no longer takes my calls he said he is sorry but he doesn't wanna lose her. I hate my life.
What can I do to know?
I am male in early 20's.My only sexual experience is with a man when I was younger. It was not proper experience because we did not go all the way.I wonder what it would have been like if we had done more. But I also wonder what it would be like with a girl.I think about contacting men on Facebook that I think are gay but I am in Arab country and I am nervous.I do not know whether I am gay straight or bisexual. What would you do to know?
Becoming gay?
First off I'd like to say, I've never had a girlfriend or a boyfriend before. I distinctly remember at around age 12 only being attracted to females, not getting hard from males of anything. As I got older and began masturbating to porn more frequently, I began to became so that when I would not masturbate for a day or two I would want to watch any porn no matter the type. For a while I mostly watched straight porn and watched gay porn maybe once a week. But recently it's become more and mkre frequent to the point where I watch gay nearly every time rather than straight. Am I becoming gay? Could it be that I got tired of straight porn? I don't have anything against gays but I still very much like girls and it makes me depressed when I'm no longer turned on by them. Could it be puberty and a bunch of hormones that's making me confused maybe? I'm currently 16 years old.EDIT: Would like to mention recently I've started to see vaginas as gross looking although I never did before
Thank you guys
I know this is kind of a random post but I just wanted to thank everyone in this sub for being such an amazing source of positivity. I've been struggling with coming out for a long time now and scrolling through a lot of the posts here made me feel so much more happy and comfortable with myself. That's all, keep on keeping on <3
2017. július 26., szerda
gay!
do you ever think about how very gay you are and exactly why you are ?? and then realize it and a smile invades your expression. yeah me 2 galpal.
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So I talk to this guy and i asked for his sc and he was like yeah sure I added him and he never snaps me back so I sent a snap saying snap me backkkk and he opened it but didn't snap back but texts me fine 😐😒
Any coming out advice or stories to share with a closeted 15 year old?
So I am a 15 year old guy from Australia and I am unfortunately closeted... I was wondering if you guys would be kind enough to share some advice you have or any stories (positive or negative) about your coming out experience. Thanks in advance for any replies.
Help
Hey guys there was a short movie where the main character was a young gay boy that used to go in mall bathrooms and have sex with random guys until he was caught one time. Does anyone remember the name of that movie?
"Gaydar" tips?
How do you usually find out if someone is gay or not? I am absolutely terrible at knowing if the guy i am into is gay and into me as Well or just being really friendly. Any tips?
Need support : I was outed
I'm a doctor from Spain (I apologize in advance if I write English badly). Spain is said to be the most 'tollerant' country in the world regarding lgtb, that's why I can't still believe what has happened to me.I was working in a hospital as a doctor in internal medicine. I' ve met a guy in cardiology and he was very friendly to me, he was so friendly that I started thinking he was closeted (he stared at me, he rubbed my back, etc...) However he boasted about being a "womanizer". Then I went on holidays and by my return, his behaviour towards me changed drastically. He sometimes even shouted swearwords when I tried to talk to him as if these words adressed to me, he became pretty unfriendly with me and it was so obvious from my point of view that he wanted to get rid of me that I felt ashamed and when we finished our duty in cardiology (and so we have were going to work together anymore) I contacted him via telephone to tell him that If "I were in love with him , whats the matter?", I reproached him for wanted to get rid of me because something like this and I finally said that I hoped he were nice to me again. I also ask him not to tell anybody else that I am gay. He never replied.I was not prepared to any outing. However I took this risk because I wanted to reprimand him for acting like an homophobe and I thought that if he talk with other people about it, they wouldn't give a damn, to make him learn it was irrelevant. But it seems he was offended because of it as if I was questioning his heterosexuality.And he outed me, he talked with my colleagues in the hospital about of it and I tried to contact him once more just to remember him that outing someone was bad and the only reply I received was : "I don't know you. I don't have your phone. Bye" (it was his phone)And the nightmare began. My colleagues started mocking me, making fun of me about it behind me. They started playing with the 24/7 guards at the hospital to make me and this guy coincide. When we met again at this nightguards, he never talked me, he talked about it with any other one and these ones just said indirects towards me like "I thought you were going to work worse this night" with a smirk.People started judging saying that I needed a psychologist or saying I was arrogant. But I never talked about, I remained in silence and I had to passed through all these things.Finally by june 2016 (6 months later) , I started my 3rd year in the hospital so I was going to start doing 24/7 guards (I dont know its traslation in English sorry xD ) just in internal medicine so I shouldnt have to work with this guy together at the urgency departmente (he started his 2nd year and he started doing guards only in his service too therefore I was sure this story was about to end. However 2nd june 2016 my boss called me. I went to his room eagerly thinking about some new task like writing an article or a research project... but.... no, he called me because "a guy has talked to him and he said that I had an unstructured thinking so he - my boss - wanted me to go to a psychologist". I couldn't believe it. I tried to convince him I didn't need it and, nevertheless, he should tell me a reason (or the name of that person). He said he couldn't (neither the name of the guy nor the reason). I insisted like an hour until I finally ask him to trust me and the my boss said that "he didn't trust me and that he wanted to know if I was 'rarito' " ( which means weardo but it's also a pejorative term for gay people like "faggot" but softer, like "queer").I left his room after it and he phoned me 3 days later, monday, to ask me if I have thought about it. I answered him that I was not going anywhere and he said that if I dont go, then he will take measures. I talked with my tutor, I was worried and he said that they just wanted me to be happy. I finally went and there was a psychologist and psychiatrist (my goodness). I made up something and they left me go back home.But it affected me.I stopped studying and working as I wanted, I was worry and pretty sad because there was gossip, derision and now my service treated me as if I were sick. I tried to contact this guy again then in an attempt to fix things personally. Not only he didn't replied, he also make other people know I tried to contact him again as if my messages were public. And I fed the mobbing doing this. I started to be depressed and very anxious, I could barely work as things seemed to worsen and the jokes and indirects never ended. Finally my "friends" went to the hospital and they began doing the same not only personally but also via whatsapp. A girl contacted with my mother when I was on holidays again by july 2016 and I realized it. I asked that "friend" if she knew something about what was going on in my hospital and she said she didn't know anything (she's a doctor too but she works in another hospital) , that I was paranoid and that I should see a psychiatrist. It was terrible because jokes and indirects were obvious as if they wanted me to go out of the closet compelled. And if I contact that guy then it was me that I was harassing him.He never ever contacted me to finish it.I finally took a time off work and my service ordered me to go to a psychiatrist. This doctor said that my superiors should talk and explained me why they did that in June, didn't they do that, I should leave.They never told me anything. My tutor said that he didn't believe me. I remained at home thinking about whether to return working or not. In those months.1 My mother revealed me what my "friend" did when I was on holidays in July (she contacted her via phone to tell her everything). I talked with this girl, she blushed, got nervous and denied everything.2 I started talking about this issue with some other less-toxic friends. I told a friend of mine who contacted with one of my colleagues (they were friends) and this colleague told him that there was mobbing, yes and it was going to continue if I went back but he considered that I should return because it would be a shame if I leave for sth like this.3 I came across with a doctor from the hospital that really appreciates me and he didn't played dumb. He said that i should understand that no everyone accepts "this".4 I felt better. I started to find support.Finally I left but I have to study again in order to have a job. Its a pretty sad situation.I sincerely dont understand.Why? If my country is the most tollerant in the world, why these things still happen?Why was this guy protected as if he was able to out me but I was unable to contact him?One of my collegues was homosexual, why even he made fun of me?Is it fair?Please be honest. No matter if you're rude. I just want to understand why this could have happened.Thanks in advance.Pd. I apologize again if I made many mistakes. Hope the story has been well understood.
Best apps/sites to meet guys?
I'm trying to meet new guys in my area for friends. I'm looking for some apps or websites that gay/bi/queer men use.Over the years, I have sampled numerous sex/social gay apps: Grindr, Adam4Adam, GROWLr, SCRUFF, Jack'd, BoyAhoy, Hornet, Mr. X, BRO. Most of these I deleted within hours or days of downloading and never tried again. The only two I have used with consistency are Grindr and A4A.I have also tried dating apps/sites: OKCupid, Match, Plenty of Fish, Tinder.And even have gotten on 'anonymous social' apps such as: Yik Yak, Covertly, and Whisper.Some of these don't seem very active where I live. And I'd rather not have dozens of apps on my phone.Which apps or sites do you use most actively to find guys?I'm sure Grindr and Tinder will take the cake, but I'm curious if there's apps/sites I haven't used/heard of.So what are you active on most frequently? Where have you had the most success meeting guys? Keep in mind, sex is not my goal.
Trump announces ban on transgender people from serving in the military
As a a veteran I'm so done with this piece of shit draft-dodger. Claims to be "lgbt friendly" and then attacks transgender people every fucking chance he gets.Welcome to America, the great country of regression
Gay life in Australia...
Hi, I recently accepted that I am completely gay and after realising that i began to think about my life as a gay man (I'm currently only 15), I wanted to know (If any other gay Aussies are on here) where the most accepting cities are in Australia as i currently live in Brisbane and it isn't a very accepting city. Secondly I wanted to know when you guys think Australia will accept marriage equality because I would ideally like to get married to a man in the future. Thanks in advance for any responses.
I need advice.
I don't think I'm gay, because I like vagina a lot. But, I get so turned on when I see pics of a rock hard cock, and even more turned on when a guy covered in cum.I thought about hooking up with a guy but I never follow through. I'd want to top. But on the other hand. Bottoming looks fun too, I'm just too afraid of the pain for that.Any advice would be great. Thank you!
Can a gay guy kiss girls?
Hey everyone, I would like your honest opinion. Basically I know this guy who says he is gay but I'm starting to have doubts about his orientation. I totally believed him at the beginning but he acted sketchy at a party with coworkers. So at this party he decided to lip kiss all the girls because he said "I'm gay and it doesn't matter". Many girls accepted the invitation. Do you think it's sketchy and he is playing all of us? Or is it normal for a gay guy to lip kiss many girls at a party? Thanks in advance for your opinion.
Advice?
I have been talking to this boy for like over a month. He was extremely quiet at first, and after 2 dates he opened up like a fucking flower. I really like him, so I took it like TURTLE slow. Like a 3 legged turtle, slow. He really liked me too, but had never had a bf before, so he was a little awkward and didn't initiate like anything. But this introverted little dude who was so quiet just loved to chat with me about anything and everything. Then tonight out of the blue, he asks me to be just friends....... I asked why (in a much more elegant way) and he said that "we are too much alike, and I'm not sure how that would be in a life partner". Tbh I'm a little hurt, wanna know what y'all think or where I should go looking for other boys who are this genuine, and don't just wanna fuck. Lemme know, thx in advance.
Introvert who wants space but is unsure of how to communicate it - help?
I'm an introverted forward-planner and I love my partner very much. But for the past two weeks he's been planning to go away tonight and stay away for the next two nights.I love my alone time and have been mentally - and silently - been planning these next few nights to myself since he told me (about two weeks ago) and this morning he wakes up and exclaims "I'm going to stay home tonight!" So now my two nights is just one night - which means I won't relax properly - usually it takes one day to start feeling less anxious and the next to be completely at ease.I know it sounds petty - but I hate the fact that I now feel anxious and want to say something. But I'm not sure how. "I need a bit of space for myself every once in a while" Makes him feel sad, then my alone time is compromised with feelings of guilt. Is anyone similar and has found ways of communicating how they want without feeling like shit?
2017. július 25., kedd
Is this one of those subs
The ones that have a shit ton of SJW garbage where I can't even say faggot or I'll get banned even though I'm gay? Skimmed through some posts and kinda looks like it so far...
I need a pice of advice
First of all I would like to apologize if I commit some grammar or spelling mistake. Here is my problem: I haven't kissed anyone yet and I know this sounds really stupid but in Argentina at the age of 15 (my age) it's not common at all haven't kissed anyone yet. The problem is that I don't know anyone near my age who is gay and I can't give myself the chance to try new things. Please if you have an advice tell me I really appreciate it.
Is my bf secretly gay?
My bf is very effeminate and sweet and I love him so much. We've been dating for 2 years and im his first gf or so ever. He says he's straight but there are things that make me wonder if he may be closeted. What are some signs to watch for during sex, etc that may indicate this?
Where can a young guy find someone to hookup with
I'm a straight identifying guy, I'm just curious and want to experiment. Only problem is I have no idea how to go about finding someone
For your consideration...
After years of trying to fit into a typical work environment, I decided to try my hand at being a blogger/writer earlier this year. I have a blog that is LGBTQ related and I would appreciate a moment of your time to check it out. Thank you."No Pride"Thanks to the moderation team of r/gay for allowing me to promote on their subreddit.
Questions about gay dating
So I recently came out to myself as bisexual. The hard part wasn't telling others, for me, but rather accepting it myself. I favor men greatly but definitely enjoy the company of women, still. I'm probably too picky for my own good with both, though haha.Anyway, I've started to get more comfortable with the idea of dating guys so I logged back into tinder and switched it to seeking men. Fast forward two weeks and my phone is full of the cutest guys I've seen and they actually interested in talking to me!?! And a couple of them in particular I can't stop thinking about. They want to hang out and I really, really want to. They seem awesome. The people I've talked to agree with me in a sense that we just want to hang out like bros and see what happens. (But we are pretty well aware of what is likely to happen lol) so it's not much of someone asking somebody else out, as much as it is basically a date for people scared of the word "date"The issue is I'm broke. I've never had much desire to go on dates cuz I didn't like most girls as much as I told myself I did. Now that I'm meeting these interesting guys who want to hang out and drink and smoke like my friends and I already do, it feels great, but it's like all these expenses add up and I don't have money for it. I'm a college student.( $10 in gas to hang out cuz all the cute guys are far. $20 for the movies. $10-$40 for dinner. $15 for parking at the beach. $20 for weed. $9 for alcohol.) this isn't what I need to spend at once obviously, but the general, dates cost money and I don't have a lot of extra income, at all.I've been so happy talking to these guys but feel so embarrassed making excuses why we can't hang out because I can't afford it. Even if they would offer to pay, I'd feel awkward and shitty. I need a job, but I'm in school and the only jobs available are warehouse and I can't work in one anymore due to health issues. I'm keeping my job hunt open to fast food and all, but...How do you guys pay for dates (or how did you when you didn't have a job and whatnot)? It seems like I'd need $30 every time I want to hang with someone. Do you guys pay equally or do you cover the whole thing, normally? I want to at least have enough money to cover for them if I need to... I'd love to pay for them, even, should my financial situation permit.
What does it mean when you tell someone your gay and they instantly defend themselves?
I've told friend and family and strangers that i'm gay and rarely has it gone bad or awkward for me. Where i haven't been able to control the situation or handle it. Today i had a thought and then remembered coming out seriously to a best friend years ago and that he instantly defended himself, unlike anyone else to this day. Repeating that "I'm not gay" "I don't like guys" etc for a good 5 minutes.I tried googling for information and other cases and what does it mean. If it was typical negative response, if he thought i liked, had feelings or had a crush on him. Or if it just was the stereotype straight males have of gay friends. "gay guys like all guys" or something like that.Just curious on your guys thoughts and opinions as i couldn't find what i wanted on the internet. Or any information on google and now its bugging me.
Native American study advertised on Grindr, does anyone know it?
I was on a Grindr awhile ago and they had a pop up about a study asking for Native Americans. I clicked on it but they didn't have a contact form, only a phone number, and I didn't have time to call at the time. Well I forgot about it until today and I closed all tabs awhile ago so it's gone. Does anyone know what study this is?
Guys, I’m crushing hard on my co-worker and it’s killing me!
The cutest guy I’ve ever seen started working as a mechanic at my job. I’m a parts purchaser so our paths don’t really cross, but my desk is right next to the shop so I see his all the time from my desk. I’m sure I look like a creep, always staring at him, but I can’t help myself. He definitely noticed because he gives me a glance now and then and tries to ignore me as much as possible. I don’t even know his name! The other day he changed into his normal clothes to leave work and he was wearing tight jeans and a tight shirt which made me want him even more. The other mechanics even noticed and started messing with him and whistling and saying how “sexy” he looks. Nowadays a lot of guys wear tight clothing so it probably means nothing but I really hope he’s gay (wishful thinking). I’m not even out at work but for this guy I’d do anything. I sound like a teenage schoolgirl over this guy, I just wish there was a way to know for sure if he’s gay.
Im confused
There's this guy on my job that I have a crush on. When we first met ,the first words out my mouth were " aren't you cold ".He was in the refrigeration unit with his button up shirt wide open exposing his hairy bare chest. He just laughed and smiled at me .ever since then I've been throwing random ques at him that I'm gay and I have out right told him I like him. Sometimes we lock eyes and stare for a good three seconds or more. Sometimes we go on deliveries together and I ask him questions and talk to him about random stuff but it always goes back to me telling him I like him. Nonverbally; I show him I close the gap between us physically , like there's only one armrest in our mini delivery Van and it's on the driver side, I'll put my arm on the arm rest and just leave it there.Or we rub elbows or knees and he never seems offended or uncomfortable I'll even ask him if I'm too close or if he wants me to move over and he always says "no it ok". Sometimes I catch him staring at me . Sometimes I look at his bulge and than look him in the face and I'm not talking in a unnoticeable way and he just seems unphased. I just don't understand .The communication we have is good he always smiles and talks nicely to me one time he even let me rub his bald head but it's never gone past that. Quiet recently he called me on WhatsApp at 10 o'clock at night but I missed the call. Im just confused l. I've tried to tell myself I'm crazy and that he doesn't like me like that or that he isn't gay but when we interact it's this tension like something isn't being said I've asked him if I make him uncomfortable or nervous and he says "no not at all". He's even let me take his picture a couple of times one time he had a whole man spread going on and was less than 4 feet away from me. I just don't get itCan somebody give me some adviceOh yeah he's Jamaican and 20 years my senior (I like older guys)
infatuated about someone i met 1 month ago on the internet. Need advise
So 1 month ago i met someone on the app meetme. Im gay and He doesnt know if he is straigt, bi or gay. He only like dicks. nothing else with a man. he does like weman tho. We started to talk and got very close very fast. The first 7 days we talked on watsapp till 5am. We have a lot in common and both started flirting a bit with each other. Sended videos and pictures of ourselve just to make things more real. Now yesterday he told me that he think hes straight. but he doesnt realy know. It was a shock to me and i feel so bad he telling me that. i dont know what to do. He feels lonely a lot of the time, he has almost no friends. he told me yesterday he would do and say anything to feel less lonely and that broke my heart, i dont know if the last month was all a lie or not. he told me he didnt meant some things he said but i dont know what he didnt meant. im so confused.
Sexual orientation and dorm mates
I'm gay and i'm really nervous about my colleges dorm assignments. How should I go about informing my dorm mate that i'm gay as I don't want him to find out later once we're established in our dorm and him get angry about it. I want to present the information upfront. I'm not sure how dorm assignments work, but some have said to contact them on social media before move in day and tell them you're gay. I just don't want to have much confrontation and I'm not sure the best way to mitigate it. Advice?
I couldn't get it up with a guy I like.
He thinks he's not attractive enough. It broke my heart.I was drunk but still I am 22.Would nofap help?Should I go see a urologist?I don't really want to take Viagra at 22.
2017. július 24., hétfő
Never kissed a guy/first kiss experiences
So, I have known, or at least suspected, that I am gay for quite a few years now, but have only started to accept that it would be ok. However, I feel like I can't really be sure until I've at least kissed a guy. The problem is, though, I don't know how I would go about doing that. i don't want to talk to my family about it until I know for sure, after all, and only a couple of my friends even know it. So, how do I meet someone? Everyone I've told is always surprised, because apparently I give off a "straight guy" vibe.What were your all's first (gay) kiss experiences like, and how did they happen?
Solo clubbing buffalo/toronto
Thanks for reading. I'm a 22 year old gay guy and lately I've been wanting to go to clubs, the problem is I don't have anyone to go with. I've gone a few times, but spent most of the time dancing by myself. And maybe getting too drunk. I managed to dance with one guy and another said he wanted to but his friends didn't want me around so I didn't feel too good about that. I'm seeing everyone around me have a good time and I just wanna join but I feel so left out. Clubs in buffalo are ok. But I feel like there's better places for people like me. If any one knows of a place near buffalo that has like a laid back vibe that isn't too many cliques, preferably a place geared towards scruffy guys around my age. And also any advice on solo nights is welcome. I feel like a creep all lone so it's hard to open up with all these hot people around me. Like I said I'm just trying to have fun. I don't blame the gay community for my problems it's just that I'm a bit awkward, people at the club say I'm pretty hot, I just don't have confidence in a room full of people who all know each other yet I'm like this new lone creep.
How to deal with crush anxiety?
Hey everyone, so.. I'm struggling with this massive anxiety over a crush and having a bad time understading why I feel the way I feel. There is this guy from college, he asked me to hang out on his birthday last year and we eventualy became close friends. I find him very cute, but I found out he was straight, so I dropped my expectations to zero, but keep hanging out with him because he is a really nice person (the rare kind of straight guy that's not ashamed to hug you in public and tell it loves you).I know how fortunate I am to have a friend like this, and that was kinda easy to felt in love or misunderstand those actions, so I avoided having a crush on him since then at all costs. Then, one day, I called him to lunch at the shopping, and he told me he kissed another boy at a party for the first time.I freeze, and the hell comes. After he said that, it instantly became an anxiety trigger. It hit me so hard that I had to even stop eating. I never felt that way for him, and I'm feeling ill because of this, because I started avoiding seeing him or imagining anything related to him, since then.The last time I felt this way, was at high school, when I've had my first crush on another straight guy (this one was different because it made me realize I was gay for the first time, and I was totally unaware). Back then, I felt the same anxiety, feeling like I would throw up, because it was sooo strong (which happened two times, fortunate at the bathroom, when nobody was close).Maybe this sounds silly, or stupid, I know I should move on those feeling and find another gay person to date, but I can't stop this trigger from happening, neither understanding why it happens. Does any of you have any advice or thoughts about how to deal with this anxiety? I even explained to him what happened, and that I didn't understand, but it didn't changed anything on the way I felt.. I don't know what to do anymore... :(
That freeing feeling of happiness
I wasn't a very tough kid, i got picked on until I learned how to "behave"Then as I became a teen I became desperate to prove I was straight and manly and lifted weights like no tommorow, forced myself to go to prom with a girl. But it wasn't me. No matter how angry or hard I tried to deny it.I was homophobic and angry and closed off. So ashamed of what I wanted. I wanted to date guys.I didn't enjoy that stage.But eventually I moved past it and my feelings grew and grew. And my fitness became a health pursuit rather than some toxic masculinity armour around myselfAnd then I met HIM. And everything moved forward so fast.I had my first kiss, even better than I'd hoped, and for the first time I got to experience what it was like to be with a man. And I loved every second of it. The protection I felt when he held me, the loving affection, the feeling of liberation knowing I could be myself with him, and spend my days with best friend in the whole world.And I knew from the moment we first kissed. This wasn't a mistake, there was no more doubts. I was gay.I am in love, with a man and I couldent be more overjoyed.I'm finally freed from that prison, no longer do I have to hide myself or bottle my feelings. I even cry now because my emotions are free are things make me cry tears of happiness or I'm no longer afraid to sniffle and bawl at a sad film when I'm with him.I'm just glad I was lucky enough to have supportive friends and parents who accepted me when the truth came out.I'm finally free and my heart feels ready to burst from all the warmth in my heart these days :)
Am I too old for "the gay life"?
This is going to sound pretty stupid to allot of you I'm sure and I'm sorry in advance if this sounds like the kind of disposable rant you make when you're 15.The fact is I'm 28 years old and generally considered myself bi in the past but I've always been more fond of guys. Ive been with guys before but never in a relationship, more like one night ( or one hour) stands and I've never really made an emotional connection with another guy. I always thought i could just have a normallish life in a heterosexual relationship and accept not really fulfilling that side of myself but the older i get all i seem to want is a real gay relationship. I have a gay coworker who's been engaged for years and i feel like i could have had that. The thing is im almost 30 and i feel like ive let that part of my life pass me by and even though ive been with guys im still so inexperienced. Its really cliched to say that its never too late but i dont even know how to be a real part of the gay community or how to meet and approach guys for a relationship.
Do you donate blood?
Do you lie when asked if you've had sex with another man within three months?I don't agree with the policy and I donate blood a few times a year and always lie when asked if I have had sex with another man within the lasts three months
Dating App Idea
Would you use a dating app that required you to complete a mandatory "sex ed" program before gaining access to the app? I'm a graduate student and need to come up with a health app. Based on what I've heard from my friends (and think myself), I think this would work well! Please let me know your thoughts (also if this is not appropriate, please feel free to delete). Any feedback is greatly appreciated! Mainly want to improve awareness of STIs/HIV/etc within the MSM community.
Help me, please! I am so scared of comming out, at all.
Hello, sorry to say, I have smoked a bit of hashish tonight.Anyhow, I am having a huge problem with beeing gay. I can't really admit to myself that I am gay. I keep finding excuses everytime I find a man to be sexy, keep excusing myself with the fact that I find women beutiful, but never sexual.Sorry, I'm babbling. My question is if anyone have any solutions about the fact that I am gay, but I hate myslef for beeing gay. I'm fucking depressed, full och self hate and it fucking sucks-.
Finding your flaunt
Last week I had a friend tell me that if I found out what made me attractive to other guys and how to flaunt it then I would be unstoppable.And while I try to do just that I guess I wanted to throw the idea out here. I'd like to believe that all of us has this and hopefully know they are beautiful to someone.
5 years ago, I thought I was straight. 3 years ago, I thought I was Bi. Today...
Today I decided to admit to myself that I am gay. 100 percent, no compromises, no denials.
Relatable things
Does anyone who's not out yet has the same thing that when you're watching tv with your homophobic family and a gay person comes on everyone is patiently waiting for their screen time to end and you are just there arguing with yourself whether you would do him or notOr tfw you see a cute guy in public and you ALMOST say something like "oh my god" but the only thing that comes out is a weird sounding "mmmmagawd" but it's enough to make everybody around you look awkwardly at youOr tfw people ask when you will finally have a girlfriend and your thinking about throwing it all out and say girl I'm gay as fuuuuckOr tfw you see politicians on TV arguing of they should re-abolish gay marriage and you're just there like welcome to your tapeOr tfw you see a really funny gay meme and your laughing your ass off and someone is asking what's so funny and your like "uhm nevermind"Other relatable things? Keep posting!
Militant queer anarchists fly rainbow flag in Raqqa, the capital of ISIS.
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question for bottoms
As someone who enjoys being penetrated, have you ever noticed that the "tingly" feeling that usually happens with your dick when you become aroused happens in your butt now? Half the time when I'm horny I feel more arousal anally than I do with my dick. This is conflicting with me as I mostly like girls.
NSFW, wondering as a 100% straight guy, how other balls / dick would feel to play with..
Okay, let me first say I'm 100% straight. Last time (and I'm 45 years old) I'm experimenting with my balls, experimenting, for example, stretching my ballswith elastic bands and rubber cockrings. I noticing that it gets me very turned on.Now I regularly wonder how it would feel to hold other balls (or dick) and possibly satisfy, just for the feeling, not because I have Homo-erotic thoughts. Also not a little bit, so not sucking on my dick, fuck or other stuf but just me who plays with his cock / ballsDoes not go as far as dreaming about it but more curious how that would be, hard to explain, hopefully you will understand what I mean?Do not really have a question here. One question might be; Should I do something with this feeling? I also make pictures of my balls / dick lately and like to show them (for example, on Reddit), but of course these would only be suitable on gay subreddits. Why do I make pictures? Don't know, Just think I'd like to hear that I have nice balls :-)
Bear flag speedo?
Hello, does anyone know where to buy a bear flag speedo? I can only find one on eBay but it is 60 EUR and quite frankly I do not wanna pay so much for it.
I'm circumcised and my dick looks like it went through a cheese grater.
The foreskin covores half the head, it is all wrinkly and there is a lump of flesh on the side. frankly I love my cheese-grater-cock
2017. július 23., vasárnap
NSFW I think a porn I watched might be rape? I'm tormented from watching this. Please help.
I've never used this sub before and I'm not sure if it's appropriate to post the video link so I'll just explain it for now. Someone please let me know if that's allowed.Hey guys I went to Gaystrugglefuck sub yesterday and watched this porn that is now tormenting me. The bottom begs the top to stop two times and at the end of the video, it clearly shows blood coming out of the bottom's butt. Throughout the scene, the top shows no compassion for the bottom, and after the "break," you can clearly see that bottom is no longer enjoying the sex especially when he just lies there like he's dead after the top is finally finished.I'm tormented because of few things:1) In my perspective, I cannot see how this sex could'vd been consensual. I almost feel like the actor and the camera man pressured the bottom into finishing the scene. I feel like even if it was consensual, the bottom was definitely in a lot of pain, and the filming should've been stopped. I'm shocked by the fact that there are people who would continue shooting such video knowing that a person is obviously hurting and not enjoying what's happening. It scares me.2) The comment section of the video really bothered me. Virtually everyone found the video hot. Reading positive comments under a video that tormented me really makes me feel uneasy about gay people and men in general. This might sound so stupid but now I'm scared to hookup.3) I feel like this could be rape and there's no way of knowing what really went on. I don't know what to do. I'm currently in Korea and tried to look for websites where it can be investigaged but had no success.Am I overreacting? Do you guys find it hot? Are people in the comment section how gay guys normally are?? Watching a possible rape video and applauding??? :( Is there a website to get the video investigated?Thanks for reading my long post
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