My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months and have only had sex about 6 times. I am his first and we decided to wait to have sex after being together for 6 month to finally have sex. I would have loved to have sex before that but he refused. See the problem is that he can get hard but once his penis goes close to my vagina he immediately becomes flaccid. I am so confused about what is going on. The couple of times we did have sex he has to masterbate looking at me and then he can go inside me.
To clarify he is not gay. He thinks I am extremely attractive and just looking at me he can get hard. So the problem isn't if he thinks I am attractive it is staying hard to have sex with me. I have asked him repeatively what can I do to help him? I wear sexy lingerie, high heels to bed, and role playing. I am at my wits end. I just want to have sex.
He told me that it has to do with his family shaming him into thinking sex is not ok and should be frowned upon. I am just confused if that can have such a huge effect on him? I brought up that it might be from excessive porn use. I am his first and I know before we started dating he used to masterbate to a lot of porn. I was wondering is that could be the case?
Can anyone give me advice on what to do?
tldr: I need some advice on why my boyfriend won't have sex with me. And makes excuses everytime I initiate sex. He is not gay and is attracted to me, I know this from his constant boners around me. So I am confused why he refuses to have sex.
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