i love gay cock, nigger (amirite) (get it because Im dalton prescott) and I like to eat food, but not from the top shelf of the fridge.
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2015. április 19., vasárnap
Rule Discussion Board
Hi all! As promised, here is our rule discussion board. It will be stickied for one week. There are two major things I want to discuss: submission guidlines and a tag system. Other comments/ concerns are welcome here as well.
For submission guidelines, reposts, as well as actual content, may be an issue in the future. Since this is a small subreddit, avoiding reposts shouldn't be too difficult, but in the case that we become very active, make sure that the image you're posting hasn't been posted in the past two months. As for content, images of Kirlia are definitely allowed. However, I'm not sure of whether or not gay/ male content should be allowed. This also goes for futanari content. If there's support for it, it will be allowed. If not, then maybe it can be worked out using the tag system.
For our tags, I have come up with a few:
[ALBUM] and [GIF] are the two that really don't have to be discussed. I'm considering having two tags, [ANTHRO] and [TRUE], pertaining to the appearance. I know some people prefer their Gardevior with/ without breasts, etc., and these tags are for those people. [GAY], [MALE], and [FUTA] will be used if said content is allowed.
Please give feedback!
I [22 F] am starting to think my boyfriend [23 M] of 6 months may actually be gay. What do you think?
I feel weird writing this, but I'm genuinely not sure how else to approach this, and I think that people seem to give good advice on his sub on the whole, so I figured I'd give it a go. Nothing ventured, and all that.
Here's the deal, and thank you, in advance, for taking the time to read this.
I met my boyfriend 6 months ago at a party that was hosted by one of my friends from college. He is a friend of one of her room mates, and he seemed cool and laid back, and we instantly hit it off. We met for a drink a few days after the party, and started dating quite quickly after that. He's funny, interesting, and he genuinely seems to like me, and to care about me, and that is something that I've really appreciated. In fact, apart from what I am about to write here, he seems PERFECT for me in every way.
We had several really nice dates over November and December, and a lovely time over the Christmas/New Years break. I really started to think that we might have found something special together. That made me happy.
He is a tactile guy. He touches my arm, puts his arm around me, and will sit close to me, so that part of his body is touching mine. However, when we kiss, it's hard to describe, but it feels like he's not really into it. Also, when we kiss I have to say that I've noticed he's not really into it "down there", if you know what I mean. There's no response that I'm aware of. At least, I don't feel anything, and this is different from the guys I've dated before.
However, the most noticeable thing is that when we're making out he has never tried to feel my breasts, or anything else for that matter, and we've not yet had sex.
I think he's really hot, and I'd love to jump into bed with him, but he seems to be quite happy to go along with this sort of chaste relationship, never even starting down the journey to the bedroom.
Clearly, I've alluded to this situation once or twice, and tried to be subtle about it. I'm too proud to say, "why won't you have sex with me," but I also wanted him to know that I think it's an issue. At least, it is for me.
When I have brought it up obliquely, he seems to either not notice what I say, or else ignore it. At any rate, he doesn't respond or answer.
And now I'm starting to get frustrated, and also suspicious.
Do you think this lack of response and interest means he's gay? He says he's dated girls before. I wish I could talk to one of them and ask if they had the same experience.
I'm so confused and frustrated.
What do I do?
Is he gay, or just not into ME? And if that's the case, why is he bothering with dating me......
I just don't get it.
Any advice would be gratefully received.
tl;dr: been dating a guy for six months. Everything has been going well except he seems to be physically unresponsive, and we have not yet had sex. Heck, we haven't even reached first base. I'm confused, frustrated, and starting to suspect he might be gay.
just a few things....
just gonna put random truths up... not in any specific order or for any real reason...
i was beat until i was 5......then around 8-13 learned about discipline. and that the people who abused me just didnt know how to be calm and teach a lesson.
i robbed more than 30 cars on more than one occasion somewhere around where i used to live. throwing id's wallets purses backpacks into the sewer was regular routine after we;d taken what we wanted.
i punched this guy in the face until he was crying because he hit a lady friend of mine.
when i have sex with someone i actively try to steal some of their clothes to wear later.
i lied to my ex and told her i loved her..... then i really fell in love and she broke my heart.
my step-brother was addicted to heroin and played me to the left. i got upset with him and turned him away from then forward. .. .. He died later that year of an overdose... i couldnt see he wanted help,., not to hurt me....
i helped a family in needd... i bouthgt them food and loaned one man some money. he swore and swore he'd pay me back....when he didnt i insulted him and his way of living. , . They really truly need help but, i'd rather let them suffer and die on their own terms.
im 22 and still get embarrassed of talking with ladies infront of my friends. guess im trying to hide my soft side....
a few years ago someone offeered to pay for my college and to set me up with a job. i turned them down. stating i didnt want to play the 'monopoly of money'. now i see the whole world is monopolized and i turned down the only free ride i may ever be offered. regret is sinking in...
my sister and i were molested as kids... she doesnt remember and not even the therapists i go to are willing to talk about what happened...
even though i see how the structure of religion brought about the modern era, i still look down on anyone who really believes in a 'savior' or can 'talk to god'
i have a friend who's been there for me the past decade or more anytime i needed someone. the bond is stronger than any i've had with another human being.... and i just want to put my dick inside of her.... -_-
i stole jewels from my grandma... and lost them...
Legit. tried to kill myself with a bottle of pills. prescription pills... was high for 4 days, pupils dilated teh whole time.
i havent told my friends about my fem or gay tendencies but anytime something related comes up in conversation i defend the rights and honor of likeminded people.
wearing womens clothing excites me. it's something i'd like to do on a daily basis. but i bottle myself up for the sake of other people, societal functionality, and respect from people that (if they knew me) i wouldnt want anyway.
a few friends and i destroyed houses under construction.
my dog has a fat tumor in his chest... but i wont focus in and get it removed cause im a cheap/broke fuck.
i really despise lying.. and liars... unless i decide it is/was ABSOLUTELY necessary
this girl (dating) took me out a few times. she'd do it to talk about fucked up shit. and every time she did i just got up and left.
2 out of 3 'true loves' never had sex. and the one love that did just wants to be my friend..... i tell her but i dont think she really knows what it does to me when we go out or talk. having that 'you're the one' feeling and it being denied.... there's a hole in my chest that burns.. anytime i see or hear her..... i want to run away from her. i did it before. but this most recent time our paths crossed again...and she's still aruond.. made me promise to her not to run.. like she saw me doing it again and again then caught me and basically said 'hey, dont do that to me again.' secretly i delete her number everytime she calls then find ways and reasons to keep us apart. i feel like a coward... but why would someone that 'loves' want me to suffer in such a cruel uncontrollable way.? i'm currently engaged in a (not so real) 'fuck partnership' for the reason of keeping her at distance. and have plans to once and for all discommunicate the only true love left in my life... in hopes that it stops hurting so much, the feelings/memories will fade away, and i can move on in life like a sociopath
Me [22 F] with my bf [20 M] 7 months, 2 months ago he made a tumblr to sexually message another man, I found it today.
Early in our relationship, maybe about 2/3 months in David confessed to me that he had a "big dick fetish" and that prior to our relationship he acted on this sexual fantasy through craigslist. We had extensive conversations about it and I ultimately decided that this was okay. I have also previously used craigslist for sexual encounters and used websites to meet people and have cyber sex and concluded that if these encounters had been with women, I wouldn't have even given it a second thought. So after we both got tested and talked about guidelines, the subject has since not been one that I've put a lot of thought into and every now and then we both even joke about our promiscuous pasts.
I have struggled with depression for a large part of my life and I knew at some point it was going to effect my relationship because of how bad I get with my negative self talk. Sure enough for the past few weeks I've been behaving a bit out of character. When I noticed something was wrong I scheduled an appointment for free counseling sessions at my university, but it wasn't particularly helping me from arguing with David about anything and everything. Through the whole process he was very loving and supportive and when I'd instigate irrational arguments he would always try his best to make sure we ended our conversations on good terms. However, after one particularly emotional argument we decided that if things didn't get better between us soon we should probably break things off since neither of us were feeling very happy with the constant arguments I was bringing up. A panic attack, therapy session, and a lot of soul searching led me to jumping the biggest hurdle ever in my anxiety, depression and self esteem issues. For the first time since I can't even remember when, I am not feeling bothered by extremely negative self talk and I feel like I can communicate and control my feelings very effectively. This is wonderful and for the last 2 weeks me and David's relationship has been exponentially better. I am so extremely happy with him.
A part of the reason we had been arguing so much was that I felt as though he was sometimes very oblivious (and almost selfish) as to how certain choices and actions he did made me feel. He's often very concerned with how he treats others to the point that he'd make himself very uncomfortable to make sure he's not being confrontational to someone. It sometimes upsets me, when in contexts of other girls he sometimes seems overly friendly in my eyes. I am/was an overly jealous person and I am highly aware of that and it is something I have worked very hard to resolve since entering my relationship. I can honestly say that at this point I've gotten to a place where I can be happy enough with myself and within my relationship that I do not find it hard to trust David when he's texting/hanging out with other girls he knows.
There's one girl however, that I absolutely cannot stand and it just so happens that she's someone who is in an organization with him here at college. While at a party last weekend I ran into her and gave her a pretty dirty look while my boyfriend briefly said hello and continued walking away from where she was. We mutually had agreed that since this girl had expressed romantic feelings for him that it's best not to really communicate any more than necessary with her. Flash forward to Saturday morning and I see that she's messaged him at 4am the night before. We open the text and of course, it's a novel from her expressing her anger about what happened at the party and mention that she had messaged him earlier Friday with the intentions to "piss your gf off." I was livid, especially since those text messages were deleted. David gave me a run through of what all was said and it sounded innocent and from how he explained it, it was so we wouldn't spoil the progress we had made over someone not worth our time and a petty text conversation. With my newfound self confidence and trust in him I agreed that my previous behavior did suggest that I would have been upset, but I reassured him that with my new positive mentality, I just would rather not have any secrets. I'd rather him keep me aware of the issues than in the dark for fear of upsetting me. I apologized again for the overly jealous person I had been before and let him know I am not going to ever be too angry with him as long as he is being truthful with me. So we dropped this subject and took it as a good riddance to the girl who had caused stupid issues for us in our relationship.
For some reason today I got curious about his story and I tried to look up the alleged reason that she had started texting him about which was an instagram tagged picture and further more I wanted to see if this girl had been commenting anything about him since she had thoroughly bashed my bf for blowing her off in the texts from the Friday, for his rude gf (aka me) and his personality basically. So I figured if I typed in his instagram handle the picture might possibly pop up. I'm sitting in my tutoring class and scrolling when I see a tumblr account with his twitter handle as it's url messaging a personal self-acclaimed massive penis account. My heart drops and I open it to read the message "How many times has somebody been able to deepthroat that? You've got an amazing cock, I have a GF but I wish I'd get to chance to worship a dick like that." I see the date was in February of this year and the account is empty but has a picture of him in his restroom flaunting his buck naked ass as his profile picture.
I immediately text David and ask if he has a tumblr, to which he promptly responds, "Nope! Why?" I send him the screenshots of both the message and his profile picture and explain to him how I came across this and ask if it's him or not. We have a long series of texts back and forth about how he's so sorry and it was only once and how I'm super pissed, but stuck at tutoring for another two hours. I text him that I'm done with him but I'm willing to talk after I'm out.
I spend the next two hours trying my best not to cry. At this point I feel cheated on and very, very, low again. For all the times he asked me just to trust him and now I find this message and I just feel stupid and used. The drive to his place was very emotional and the talk at his place was exhausting. I felt like I was literally stabbing myself with how painful it was to have the conversation about us breaking up. I love him very much and after hearing him out and lots of crying and honesty I cannot bring myself to cut him out of my life. I'm not happy with what he did, but I also believe that there may be more to this than just him attempting to have a sexual conversation with another man while in a hetero relationship. I think he may be addicted to this fantasy of his. I understand sexuality is fluid, so whenever he's refused to associate himself with being gay or bi, I have been very accepting of this so I don't think he's using me as a cover or anything. I just feel like he's previously allowed this to become a very real addiction to the point that he admitted he felt terrible after his sexual encounters with men, but that it was something he couldn't stop doing. He also said he saw messaging this man as another form of porn.
I'm in the process of deciding what if anything we can do to get through this, but I am not sure how I can trust him after this. Like I said earlier, I have experience with this and know there's a lot of ways to be shady on the internet and if you don't want to get caught and are safe, there's a really big chance that you won't be. I dropped him off at work and when he gets off work we are going to try to figure things out. He's already offered me any and all passwords and access to his computer and phone. He also agreed to attend therapy because he also thinks it may be a problem that he is struggling with. He is incredibly remorseful about his actions and I was actually a little scared for him because he was absolutely devastated when I said there's a huge chance I may not be able to forgive them for this as not only my boyfriend, but my friend either. He's willing to do all these things to just stay in my life as anything, period.
He has been there for a lot of very hard things that I've had to overcome in my own life so I feel like if I can I would like to try to get past this situation and just get him help or something, but I also don't know how I can get back to trusting him either. I believe I will be going through all his personal accounts sometime tonight, but other than that does anyone have some advice with how I can figure this all out or come to terms with my decision if I decide we won't work out. He's very kind and loving and has helped me so much on my journey to a more healthy mental state. This post seems to be focusing on a lot of negatives because of the nature of the situation, but he really is wonderful minus these last few incidences. I think he realized how poorly he treated me with this message because before he went to work I sat with him to calm him down so he wouldn't look like he'd been an emotional wreck. He said, "Wow, Sam I really fucked up didn't I? You're this great person who shouldn't have to put up with my shit and here you are trying to calm me down after I just hurt you so bad." I know he's really beating himself up over this and I think that's fine, but I want to make sure he is in his right mind and not going to like do something crazy to either of us or something, because he sounded kind of terrible.
tl;dr: My bf has a big penis fantasy/addiction and I found out about a sexual message he sent to another man. I don't want to break up, but understand that might be inevitable at this point. Need advice for how to regain trust or come to terms with what I have to do. Any advice or been there situations would be very appreciated.
Do I have a sock fetish?
From what I've read and heard about sexual fetishes (not just socks), they usually start when you're younger and are powerful enough to get you off without touching yourself or having sex. e.g. foot fetish people having an orgasm from having their feet sucked on.
I'm a gay male in my 20s and am starting to wonder if my interest in socks is more than just an interest. From since I can remember, socks have often stood out to me, even when I was a teenager. I'd easily notice the socks that other guys were wearing, and being in the socks and underwear department of a clothing store always aroused me. I never thought much of it until recently I watched some gay porn that featured sock play in it and I got really turned on. It was basically guys feeling/sniffing/sucking on other guys shoes and socks. And the guy wearing the socks sort of dominating the other guy by rubbing his socks over their face and stuffing it down their mouth.
I am noticing socks a lot more now and get turned on just from myself wearing socks, e.g. after wearing them a day and they have that smelly sock smell, or if they are white socks and show signs of dirtiness (I especially love this and seeing it on other guys...). Sometimes during masturbating I sniff my smelly socks and try licking them, but it doesn't really turn me on a lot. And I'm not sure if I could lick/smell the socks on other guys in case they smell or taste really disgusting. I kind of want to try, but I don't know if this is just because I'm inspired from watching the sock porn or if I truly do have an untapped sock fetish. WDYT?
[SERIOUS] Gays of Reddit: if your child turn out to be gay, what is the single most important piece of advice you could give them?
Obviously this is open to male or female homosexuals, with real or hypothetical children.
I'm a senior in highschool, willing to answer pretty much anything. AMA
To get the ball rolling, I am captain of my varsity tennis team and I am also stage crew for the musical being put on at my school. I'm also "the straightest gay person that anyone has ever known" (-my friends)
black, gay and Irish
So I am finding it difficult being a young black gay man in Ireland been here basically all my life dealt with a lot of things being a first generation black Irish kid let alone gay. Then get onto the gay scene here and deal it a lot of stupid old stereotypes like messages like "r u hung" and a few "hello blacky messages" though i love this place its home but its becoming eveident i will have to leave the isle to find better opportunities for work (our economy is a mess), some expect me to be like the black guys on tv basically stereotypes its frustrating all i want to do is talk about economics and the worlds political landscape it gets hard sometimes feel alone but have friends who are mixed gay and supporting me just wanted to vent. from an black (a lil drunk) Irish guy
Caught up with a cute fellow I used to play with on the weekend...
During a discussion at the party we were at he was lamenting the fact that women seem really keen on gay/bi guys playing/making out/what not. Which is problematic for him when he's a about a Kinsey Five.
It was just something about the way he said it just put me in mind of a boy band. So a laughed and put it too the room, and thought I'd put it to all you, who would be in your manufactured pop boy band call Kinsey Five?
Just as a matter of pure fantasy. Doesn't have to involve actual musical talent, that's what auto tune is for!
Hey rapter ladies, have a couple questions for you if you don't mind :)
So my good friend and I are making a graphic novel, he's the artist and I'm the writer, and were going to be adding a lesbian main character, and I just have a couple questions about how people act around you once they find out your gay, since were both straight males and have zero experience in lesbian and gay lives. I'm going to be asking questions i need the answers for the GN to make a more fleshed out character that actually feels like they've gone through these experiences.
1: If you came out to your parents, siblings, and friends as a teenager, what did they think of it/how did they react.
2: If your parents weren't accepting of your sexuality, then what did they say to you after you told them you were gay?
3: Elizabeth's, the main character, parents are religious so if anybody has religious parents they came out to, how did they react? Did they try and convince you that you were confused?
4: How did your friends react? Did you lose any friends because of your sexuality?
5: This one applies to whenever men try and hit on you: What do men hitting on you say/do after you tell them that your gay? Do they flee like a safari zone pokemon? Do they try harder at pursuing you, like some kind of challenge?
6: If you've dated both woman and men, how are they different and the same, dating wise?
That's all of my questions, if i have more follow up questions i'll be sure to ask in the comments :D. If i've offended or broke some kind of secret rule or something then I'm sorry, down vote this post and ill delete.
Thanks!:D
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