My gf is 29, was previously married.
She recently went back to her University town for drinks with friends. Was originally meant to be a mixed group, maybe 10+. In the end was her, her best friend (f) and two dudes, one married, one single.
I said I felt a bit uncomfortable, as the single dude and her joked a lot on FB about old times. She said nothing to worry about "He's gay".
She also referred to his as "The gay guy Mr X".
Anyway, we have been on again/ off again last 3 months (long story). Mr X has been posting stuff from their old times on FB, photos, etc and liking a lot of her statuses. I call her out and say I don't think he's gay, she says she thinks he is as he's camp, never had a gf, etc
Mr X posts up an old pic of a piece of paper on fb in November with my gf's name written on it (and about 20 others people's), and next to it is three words scribbled out (it was basically a list of people he wrote the first day at Uni to remember people). In the comments on Fb, my gf is really curious to what it says. He says he can't remember.
A few nights ago, I was drunk and her phone was on charge. I check the fb messages from him to her (messenger). Found some from Nov - He said the writing was about a crush he had on her, but didn't want to put this on his wall. She writes "awesome" and smiley face. Then she said the writing scribbled out looked like the word "Boobs".
He says "not my style" but you did/do have great boobs. She puts thanks and a smiley.
On Dec 5th her best friend (female) comes to town, she messages Mr X saying I miss you, wish you were here, etc.
I asked her 2 days ago whether he was gay (yes, again) whether he had a crush on her (no) and whether he ever pays her compliments by text, etc (no).
Anyway, she found out I looked at the phone and just confronted me last night, wants to speak on the phone about it (she wont let me come round face to face).
I feel she lied about the friend being gay and everything else to do with the matter. I can understand if she did it as he's a male friend she has no interest in, but what's the deal here? Why lie? And how much am I to blame here?
tl;dr: Checked GF's phone. "Gay guy" she's friends with isn't gay, gf has lied about contact with him to me.
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