2014. december 27., szombat

How do I get my brother out of his deep depression without using a family intervention?


This is a quick rundown, our background story would be too long and complicated to type out so here I go:




  • my bro is 4 years older, not married, no kids, renting a room out of his gay best friends house




  • my bro has talked shit about me to my fathers side of the family (whom I used to not speak to), and continues to make things up about me to make my father hate me.




  • recently, my father came to see me and apologized for the things he's done to me. I told my bro this on Christmas Eve. My husband instantly told me my brother was upset-I had no idea wtf he was talking about.




  • Christmas Day, he is supposed to show up our aunts house, and he texts me-when he was supposed to already be there-that he isn't coming due to a headache. I just had a baby and it was her first Christmas, which was important and he knew how important it was to me.




  • everyone is now making it MY responsibility to see what he is doing, where he lives, if he's OK blah blah blah. He says he's depressed, I say he is just one selfish asshole with absolutely no compassion or consideration.




Should I finally tell my brother how pathetic he really is and make him cut me off?



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