Divorced and gay moving on

I would love to talk to someone who's been through something similar. My story is long so I will give the brief version but I don't have anyone to share it with so I'd like to share the full story with someone and get a little insight.So I got divorced (from a woman) three months ago. We basically lived as roommates for two years. Five months ago, I was a point where I couldn't do it anymore. She confronted me and I told her I was gay. She was very supportive, perhaps because she had someone on the side as later came to light. So last year I met a guy. We started off as friends, but we fell in love while I was still married. We stopped talking for a while.but after we decided to split up I contacted him. My ex said it's be ok for us to have our thing on the side and for me to by all means do my thing.So fast forward to now. This guy and I are crazy in love. We are both happier than we've been before. It's a long distance relationship. He's been getting impatient and has been asking me to take steps so we can be together. So one of the steps I took was telling my ex that I was going to introduce him to the kids. She was not cool with it, even though she has recently introduced her new man to them.I'm just so frustrated with everything and stressed out to the max. A couple of weeks ago I told two of my sisters that I'm gay and didn't go so well. Part of me doesn't wanna give a fuck snd wants to live my life for myself but other is terrified to do that.Has anyone been through something similar. Let's talk. Pm me for contact Info. I could use some advice.