Questions on Gays Stereotype and Preferences.

Okay so it have been gone long enough, I were thinking why do people like to Fit into the Stereotype of Media Gay.The kind where they told themselves, that gay man have to act feminine to be gay, and lesbian have to be manly and tough to count as lesbian.Then preference come in, so what if a Non stereotyping Man, say he only like this big hairy bear, that he don’t like feminine or sissy kind of gay. Why is that such a hated thing in the community to a person saying their preferences?I saw tons of people argument saying if they don’t embracing the feminine gesture they are not embracing gay. That they are not a real gay man.But that’s what the media portraits gay men as, as a bunch of feminine acting people like they trying to become the cliche basic white bitch character is all low end comedy movie. But for whatever reason, they accept the insult and decide to become what the media want.So they set a standard where Gay men suppose to be and act feminine because gay men is about embracing their self... by acting feminine.It used to be gay men just wanted to be stand side by side with their fellow citizen, they are the normal manly hairy ass people. They have exist for a long time.But for whatever reason, people are angry at each other because they don’t act the way their preference wanted them to. Like why is that a thing, do you think it’s totally okay to keep acting like this? Acting to be different, acting to be themselves, acting into making themselves believe it’s what the Norm.I’m a man, who like man that’s is hairy, sweaty, kind and loving. And I don’t like feminine acting man.