Gay hookup culture

I get that straights are just as promiscuous as gays, some even more so. Gays get the bad rap for having so many hookups. The difference is most heterosexuals eventually get married and "settle down" and many gay men still never do or want that.I have been on Scruff lately wanting to meet guys for dates. Hardly anyone texts me, but when my profile included hookups, of course I got hit up all the time.Do you all think gays are selling themselves short? I think we tend to buy into the common notion that nobody wants a long term relationship, so we just default to hookup culture and give up looking for what we really want and deserve, and settle for the quick fix of a sexual hookup.