So, very briefly, I've recently started coming out to friends, which has been great. I'm 24, but I've only just come out (ish) and have never been with a guy/been in a relationship at all ever (besides a year-long thing with a nice girl in HS to keep my parents from questioning my interest in women - dear becca, really sorry about that). I lurk the gaybros subs frequently, and then I'll see stuff like this which make me reflect a bit.I have no real experience with relationships, but I know I'm single and really lonely, but I don't want the pity party. I've had friends who wouldn't shut up about being forever alone, despite a slew of short trysts, I get it. I've heard a lot that you should "be happy single" but like... am I allowed to want a boyfriend, since I've never had one ever? Is there a certain mindset it takes to be "happy being single"? I'm aware I'm just now coming out and thus dating is okay now where it "wasn't" before, but for the time being anyway, what mindset do you guys think single people should have?
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