Sorry for the incoming wall-o-text but here it goes.So I've been out to my parents for the last year and a half. Never told my grandparents (who have borderline Tea Party-mentality). My mom told me not to tell my grandparents for fear of their reaction. my grandparents live in Florida 85% of the year. Since they don't live near me. I didn't think it was important to tell them until I met someone really special.Right now I'm going 4 months strong with my current boyfriend. We connect really well (pun not intended), but this Christmas I flew down to Florida to spend Christmas with my family.In the run up to and after I arrived. My grandma kept grilling me and asking "Who's your girlfriend? Who's your girlfriend?". I just tell her work has been busy and I haven't had the time to find someone. Meanwhile, some nights during the work week, I'll stay over my boyfriend's place. Grandma says "Where are you going that your not coming home Wednesday & Thursday nights?". Clearly she is getting this information from my mother who doesn't want my grandparents to know I'm gay.My brother, has always told me to not be afraid and just tell my grandparents. But my parents said to him "Do not let Ryan tell your grandparents he's gay. That will ruin Christmas".Yesterday, while out on a drinking binge for Boxing Day. My mom & I got into a disagreement and I said some really messed up shit to my mom voicing my displeasure that she thinks me being gay would ruin Christmas.Grandparents know now, but I don't understand why this issue blew up like this.Do I have a legitimate reason to be angry with my mother? Or am I in the wrong here?Tl;dr - Super conservative grandparents, my mom doesn't want me to tell them I'm gay, she was feeding them secrets, mom said me being gay ruined Christmas, massive fight ensued, am I wrong here?
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