Hey all! I need your help. I'm going to bottom for the first time with a guy(never have fooled around before) and want to make it the best possible time and pleasure for myself and the guy. What are some tips or nuggets you can give me that'll help for my first time. Thanks again and have a happy new year all!!
2014. december 31., szerda
Is there internalized animosity towards cisgender individuals from (some members of) the transgender community?
Hello asktransgender, I am a cisgender gay man, and I am sort of confused on why there is this internalized animosity towards cisgender individuals. A few months ago, I would receive obvious passive aggressive signs from a mutual friend who identifies as a trans male. I accidentally misgendered him a few times when we first met because he was the first transgender individual I have met, but I felt really guilty for doing so. He was not on any testosterone and was still pre-op, so most of the time, they were accidental slips. We talked it out, and he told me that he understood that it was not intentional but to try not to keep doing it. I am basically past the point of having accidental slips, but I still have to be quite conscientious about it from time to time. We are at good terms now.
Anyways, I began following him on Tumblr and noticed that he is quite popular within the transgender community. When looking at other blogs, I noticed a lot of negative posts towards cisgender people. I understand that individuals who are cisgender may not understand what it feels like to be msigendered and can be very ignorant on the matter, but why create this animosity towards all cisgender individuals?
27 [F4F] London - Someone new!
Looking to widen my social circle what with it being new years resolution time and feeling the need to make more effort. First stop - Reddit! Any fellow London gays out there?
x-post from r/lgbt: I'm a journalist who just published a yearlong project on LGBT issues in India, I hope this is okay to post here.
Hello all,I hope this is okay to post here, I posted in r/lgbt and some folks suggested I post here as well.2014 was the year for gay rights in many ways, but some places like India took a giant step backwards. I thought Reddit might be interested, and if there's any interest, I'd be happy to elaborate and answer any questions.The world's largest democracy last year re-instated a colonial era law which systematically discriminates against a large portion of their billion plus population. With a global image of tolerance, India stunned the LGBT community when they made engaging in homosexual relations an offense punishable with life in prison, suddenly millions of people were made criminals overnight. I spoke to an older advocate, a young man trying to come out, a hijra who was raped and kicked out of her family, and walked with protesters to see what they had to say. Looking over the last year and throwing it forward, I explore the societal, geo-political and economic ramifications of sending the country's gays and lesbians back into the closet. A year in the making, I'm happy to present: Unnaturalized Citizens.http://ift.tt/1xg5mZq
Need help with my first time as a bottom
Hey all! I need your help. I'm going to bottom for the first time with a guy(never have fooled around before) and want to make it the best possible time and pleasure for myself and the guy. What are some tips or nuggets you can give me that'll help for my first time. Thanks again and have a happy new year all!!
So I saw a coworker on Grindr... and it gets more complicated.
Alright guys, here goes... (Also, throwaway because I don't know who might see this and my main account could possibly be traced back to my job)Okay, so I am a 24 year old gay guy. I work in a field office on a construction site. As the majority of the work is subcontracted out, my company has very few employees on site. For about a year it was only me and an older guy who is the site super. He's about 60 y/o and a great guy to learn the business from. always answers my dumb questions. Then, a few months back we got a third guy on site here, another guy about the same age as the super. Things worked well between us though I mostly keep to myself. (I am not explicitly out at work. I don't lie or try to hide it, but I don't bring up my sexuality either) I sometimes feel like I'm on the outside and like I don't fit in with the other guys since this is a very straight-dominated business. And the people I see/talk to most often are two older straight guys. We don't really have a lot in common socially.Anyway, about a month ago, we started getting busier at work, so the super decided to bring his son in as an assistant super. He's about one or two years younger than me. Really nice guy. Sharp dresser, good sense of humor. just an all around good guy. Plus it's nice to have a guy close to my age around. Early when he started here the thought that he might be gay crossed my mind ever so briefly and then I remembered the super having said something about his son's girlfriend or something. Plus he doesn't really give off that gay vibe as far as I can tell. (Although I am cursed with a somewhat shitty gaydar).So yesterday, I went in to my super's office to talk to him about something and his son was sitting there on his phone. As I'm talking, he turned around and I could see from across the room that he was typing in a chat window with blue and yellow bubbles on a black background... and I immediately think to myself "Wait.... Is he on Grindr?!?" But that seems ridiculous because I had been like 90% sure this guy was straight. Maybe there are other messaging apps with the same color scheme? So, I go back over to my desk and pick up my phone and open Grindr (which I don't use very often) and yup. There he is.Now at that point he was leaving for the day so I think he may have put his phone away. My point being, I saw him on Grindr but I don't know if he saw me on Grindr. About 20 minutes after he left, his profile disappeared from the list. Now, I don't know much about how Grindr works, but from what I can tell that means either he left the geographic radius (pretty likely since I work in a large city) or he saw my profile and blocked me (perhaps hoping I wouldn't see him and blow his cover?)Now, my issue is I don't know whether I should talk to him about it. I was wracking my brain all last night and this morning and couldn't figure it out. Turns out, he is out sick today so I have until Friday to think about it before I see him again.Here are my main issues:I don't know if he is out to anyone (although he does have a facepic on grindr). In any case, if he's still in the closet I don't want to accidentally out him.I especially don't know if he is out to his dad, who we both work with. This could lead to some pretty awkward situations. Based on the way they act around each other, it would be my guess that his dad has no clue.I hate feeling all alone like I am the only gay guy on this whole jobsite. It may be nice to and mutually beneficial have each other as understanding allies.Just to be clear, I am NOT interested in dating him. I think we could be better friends though.It's possible that he has already picked up on the fact that I am gay. I think I'm easy to read, although other people sometimes tell me I'm not.I don't really know how I should approach this situation. Here are the options I've been considering:Casually ask him if he is gay. Something like "Hey, by the way, are you gay?" (Obviously in doing so, I would be revealing my own sexuality, which I have no problem with)Tell him I saw him on Grindr. Something like "Hey dude, I saw you on Grindr the other night. I didn't know you were interested in guys!"Casually mention something about a guy I was dating. Something like "Oh yeah I love burgers, I went to this really good burger place on a date with this guy... blah blah blah" and let him take it from there.Next time he is around, log on to Grindr and let him "find" me.Do Nothing.I'm sure there are other options. These are just the ones I've thought of.Basically, what would you guys do in my situation? I feel like I am probably overthinking this and it will hopefully help me to hear from other guys. So.... HELP!
Marco Polo
Marco Polo is a Netflix original. Think Game of Thrones meets House of Cards with Mongols. I'm only a few episodes in, but it's turning out to be pretty cool! There's blood, scheming, death, swords, politics, and badassery.If you start watching it, don't be let down by the first episode. It might take a couple to really get into it.
My boyfriend wants a sex change...
Hey bros.I've been with my guy almost 3 years now, and i love him a great deal. It surprised me quite a bit when he said he was thinking about it, he's never really mentioned it before. I was supportive at the time, because if he's not happy he should do what he feels is right.I've slept on it now, and honestly it's worrying me a lot. I'm gay and i don't find women attractive. I had the expectation of being with the guy for a long time, but i don't know if i will be able to adapt. I'd like to think i would be able to, but my dick might not agree.He's always been quite feminine, and i liked that about him. He's not camp or anything, but quite petite, and likes being submissive. Dont think he'll have much problems transitioning, I mean i think he'll make a convincing girl even without hormones. But yeah, i don't know if i can adapt. Im 23, and he's 21. We're both finishing university this year, and he's starting hormones after he finishes, or at least that's his plan. We were talking about moving in together too, i have no idea what's going to happen.Few questions: Anyone been through this? Any advice? What do i say? If we become no longer compatible would i be the biggest dick in the world for leaving him/her?
18 [M] really confused, help please
Hey, so this might be a pretty rambling post (apologise), and if I should be posting this in another subreddit, please advise, but I feel like this is the right one. Basically, I'm an 18 year old male who is seriously questioning if I'm bisexual, or even further down the kinsey scale. I've only ever identified comfortably as straight, and even thinking of myself as bisexual makes me feel extremely uncomfortable, but I don't know if I just have some self loathing going on. Not to sound conceited, but I'm quite a strong athlete with Olympic prospects, and the thought of 'coming out' or 'being discovered' to be not straight gives me legitimate terror.
My family is quite religious, and while it wouldn't be to the extent of being thrown out of home, I know my family would be severely disappointed if I wasn't straight. Despite all of this, for the past few years I've watched predominately gay porn. Every single time I masturbate to gay porn and I cum, I have an overwhelming sense of self loathing and disgust. Sometimes I feel like I almost have a split personality where one side is wanting gay sex and the other is disgusted by it.
On the 'gay side': I found a guy online and I've met him three times for sex. He's about 20 years older than me, which in itself makes me feel really fucked up, but its what I am physically attracted to. Each time I've had sex with him (not anal, but mostly oral) I fall into what I can only describe as a depressive state. The 2nd time I was with him I couldn't bring myself to orgasm, and left humiliated and feeling very dirty and wrong.
On the 'straight side' I keep up a very convincing charade of being a poon crushing alpha male, despite never having officially lost my virginity to a woman. Since I've started watching gay porn frequently, I feel like I can't have an erection even by watching straight porn, and when I do, I need to start masturbating while flaccid and that eventuates into legitimate arousal. I basically haven't made out with girls in about a year, but the last 3 girls I made out with I did get an erection while making out with them, but since then not really, but I'm not sure if that is because my sexuality is somehow shifting or just because I've been really drunk. The last scenario that comes to mind is when I was in bed with a girl during a party, and I was quite drunk. She was completely naked while I still had undies on, but I simply couldn't get an erection. She was 100% keen to have sex, but I basically chickened out and through some elaborate scheme escaped. I don't know whether this is because a) I was so freaked out and nervous about getting an erection that I over thought it b) I was too drunk and had whiskey dick, or c) I've spent so long watching gay porn that I legitimately can't get erect for women.
That being said, I've had what I can only describe as an intense crush on this very good looking girl and close friend for about 2 years. I had planned to lose my virginity to her, as she was also a virgin, but then on a school leavers holiday, she lost her virginity to another guy, and while I was very drunk I legitimately started crying (which never happens to me ever) because I thought that I loved her. But then again, I'm not sure whether I actually love her or I thought that I could prove to myself that I was straight by taking her virginity. I can feel this text post already being a confusing cluster fuck, but basically: I strongly identify as heterosexual, but am forced to accept that I'm not, because of what I've done. At this point gay feelings are purely sexual, although I'm terrified that might change if I don't somehow stop 'indulging' in that side of myself. I can only imagine myself being in a serious relationship with a woman. I would literally rather kill myself than come out as being not straight. That sounds really heavy, and is probably controversial on this very accepting community, but I'm just being 100% honest with myself. So this has strayed to a very extreme 'am I bisexual' question, but I would love some advice from anyone that has perhaps been in a similar situation (although I doubt it haha). IDK, i just feel really fucked up and confused. If you made it all the way through, thanks for reading and happy new year!
My boyfriend wants a sex change...
Hey bros.
I've been with my guy almost 3 years now, and i love him a great deal. It surprised me quite a bit when he said he was thinking about it, he's never really mentioned it before. I was supportive at the time, because if he's not happy he should do what he feels is right.
I've slept on it now, and honestly it's worrying me a lot. I'm gay and i don't find women attractive. I had the expectation of being with the guy for a long time, but i don't know if i will be able to adapt. I'd like to think i would be able to, but my dick might not agree.
He's always been quite feminine, and i liked that about him. He's not camp or anything, but quite petite, and likes being submissive. Dont think he'll have much problems transitioning, I mean i think he'll make a convincing girl even without hormones. But yeah, i don't know if i can adapt. Im 23, and he's 21. We're both finishing university this year, and he's starting hormones after he finishes, or at least that's his plan. We were talking about moving in together too, i have no idea what's going to happen.
Few questions: Anyone been through this? Any advice? What do i say? If we become no longer compatible would i be the biggest dick in the world for leaving him/her?
NYE Plans in Miami?
Hey bros. My boyfriend and I are in Miami for New Years. We had planned on going to his friend's house party, but we're thinking it may be a bust. Does anyone have any suggestions for places to go in the Miami Beach / South Beach area for New Years? Preferably somewhere we won't have to stand in line for an hour. Thanks guys, Happy New Year!
Did you hear the one about the gay ghost?
I highly doubt that, because I just made it up and I haven't told anybody yet.
i made a list of diffirent gay web series with links
the outs
whatever this is
hunting season
dog park
gay's anatomy
g&t
the horizons
where the bears are
derek & cameron
the hinterlands
hustling
in the moment
bulk the series
i love dick
gay top gun
in between men
steamroomstories
my gay roommate
steet behaviour
triangle
the variants
conq
two jasperjohns
the vessels
besties
love bytes
scenes from a gay marriage
retratos
dudes
go-go boy interupted
husbands
old dogs new tricks
other men
will add descriptions later
/r/canada report: Wednesday, January 01, 2014 - Wednesday, December 31, 2014
Totals: 351 days, 22,025 posts, 581,035 comments.
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There were 9 gilded posts, and 133 comments were gilded.
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i made a list of diffirent gay web series with links
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Really like this guy, but he's not emotionally available. How can I be there for him while protecting myself from being hurt?
I met this guy about a month ago, and we've really hit it off.The first time we actually went out, there was just so much chemistry between us. He would reach out and touch my hand, and it felt like electricity was running up my arm. After dinner, we went to a gay bar for drinks and wound up making out for a bit.Things have been weird since then, though. He recently went through two terrible experiences, and says that he's not emotionally available for a relationship.The thing is, though, is that he always gives me signals that he's very much into me. He recently came over to my place, and we had such a wonderful time together. We made food, played video games, and just genuinely enjoyed each other's company. Toward the end of the night, when I brought out wine, we started getting a little flirty. He held my hand a little, but we didn't kiss. He said he doesn't want to confuse me. As I walked him out, we hugged, but the hug lasted for a while and we simply held each other by the door. He tells me that he really likes me and cares for me, but can't give me what I want.I really, really like this guy. I don't think I've connected with someone so well before. I know--beyond the shadow of a doubt--that we would be fantastic together and that, given the chance, we could be together for a very long time.I also don't want to force him to do something he's not ready to do. I want to honor his own process and respect his wishes.What should I do? Should I wait around for him to be ready, or do I simply stay his friend and keep dating other guys? Also, how can I be there for him while at the same time protecting myself from falling for someone who may not fall for me?I have yet to go through the degree of heartbreak he's faced, so if anyone out there with a similar experience can explain how he might be feeling, I'd greatly appreciate it.
Really like this guy, but he's not emotionally available. How can I be there for him while protecting myself from being hurt?
I met this guy about a month ago, and we've really hit it off.
The first time we actually went out, there was just so much chemistry between us. He would reach out and touch my hand, and it felt like electricity was running up my arm. After dinner, we went to a gay bar for drinks and wound up making out for a bit.
Things have been weird since then, though. He recently went through two terrible experiences, and says that he's not emotionally available for a relationship.
The thing is, though, is that he always gives me signals that he's very much into me. He recently came over to my place, and we had such a wonderful time together. We made food, played video games, and just genuinely enjoyed each other's company. Toward the end of the night, when I brought out wine, we started getting a little flirty. He held my hand a little, but we didn't kiss. He said he doesn't want to confuse me. As I walked him out, we hugged, but the hug lasted for a while and we simply held each other by the door. He tells me that he really likes me and cares for me, but can't give me what I want.
I really, really like this guy. I don't think I've connected with someone so well before. I know--beyond the shadow of a doubt--that we would be fantastic together and that, given the chance, we could be together for a very long time.
I also don't want to force him to do something he's not ready to do. I want to honor his own process and respect his wishes.
What should I do? Should I wait around for him to be ready, or do I simply stay his friend and keep dating other guys? Also, how can I be there for him while at the same time protecting myself from falling for someone who may not fall for me?
I have yet to go through the degree of heartbreak he's faced, so if anyone out there with a similar experience can explain how he might be feeling, I'd greatly appreciate it.
Florida group tries to stop gay marriages
http://www.kansascity.com/news/nation-world/article5167137.html
Glasgow hosts Scotland’s first lesbian and gay marriages
http://www.theguardian.com/society/2014/dec/31/glasgow-first-gay-lesbian-marriages-scotland-hogmanay?CMP=share_btn_tw
Rarity is my all time favorite pony... I wish I was as motivated and hard working!
Seriously, I've never seen anyone so freaking devoted who just gets it done. She doesn't ever seem to hit those road blocks where you end up having to sit and stare at it for 2 or more hours while you figure out what the fuck is going on and what the next step is.
She's a self supporting business woman/pony who is making a living "giving her gift" as they say. Can't I be reincarnated or whatever as the middle sibling of Rarity and Sweetie Bell? I mean come on, a socially awkward gay visual artist who works mainly in photography and has always had a soft spot for the occasional fashion photo shoot just for fun... I'd be the perfect sibling. My character was off living my dream in the Equestrian version of Paris and is moving home to be near my family and two amazing sisters... maybe with an amazing husband in tow!
Me [22 M] with my _1year [24 M]. I need some advice on how to deal with someone hurting you.
First off I'm on mobile and I don't have access to a computer so I apologize for any grammatical errors.
I live in an extremely rural area and it's difficult to find people... Anyway we met and hit it off awesome. After 3 months of talking/hangnh out we decided to be official. He told me he plans on leaving eventually for a new job and I agreed to just cross that bridge when it gets there he's a journalist if it makes any difference. Well things were going great for the most part... Except he occasionally uses apps on cell phones designed for people like is to meet/hookup. I asked him to stop and after 3-4 times of getting upset he quit. When he moved he was very mean, uncaring and flat out didn't care about my feelings. I was pretty bad emotionally to the point it affected my work and other people who didn't know were noticing I was upset.
We stayed together despite all this. Hr moved 900 miles away and I was starting to be my old self, then a friend of mine who visited the area and is gay also and uses the same apps... Noticed someone he thought looked familiar. Sent me a screen shot. I got very upset and broke up with him.
A few weeks later he asked to be together again and I still being very much in love said yes. He promised stuff would get better and it did. Eventually he got hit on in person and gave it up and cheated on me and (I promise we're getting closer to the question) which odviously made me upset but I was okay because well I am in love I guess.
Well I'm visiting now. I drove 15 hours to see him. Things are cool...until I look onto his phone accidentally and see him texting the guy from above...
My question is it worth getting my heart broken again? I sometimes feel like I'm the only person who is putting all they can into this relationship between us. Eventually he'll be moving to a city close and then we talked about moving in together but that's a few years down the road.
Tldr: we're in love, he does stuff to hurt me unintended usually (I think.) I have been loyal and loving and all that I can be (making sacrifices of other plans to see him etc) and he doesn't seem to ever give up anything and I feel like I'm being put on the back burner. !
How to break news to the wife
My wife doesn't know that I write erotica. And I have no idea how she'll react when she finds out. And she will find out during tax season. She also hates that I'm bisexual (though wouldn't cheat), and there's bisexual/gay themes in most of my stories.
What's an easy way to tell her?
Question for gaybros in LTR with someone in law enforcement
I am currently in a LTR (going on 4 years) with someone in law enforcement (he is going into his 7th year). I've often noticed he gets easily irritated and annoyed with small things that seem insignificant to me. Sometimes, stress that is experienced at work spills over into home life and our relationship. I'm a caretaker by profession and personality so I often try to ask questions to see what is bugging him, which annoys him even more. I typically have a very strong and dominant personality and don't take shit from people, but when I see others frustrated or hurting, I become more passive and feel anxious. He has a strong personality as well (part of his job, I suppose). My question to you gaybros who are in relationships with someone in law enforcement: is my partner's disposition typical? Do you guys have similar experiences? I have met several of his co workers and they seem a bit more even tempered (maybe because I don't see them all the time). Any advice or sharing of your experiences is greatly appreciated.
[NSFW] German Museum's "Porn This Way" Gay Pornography Exhibit
http://www.adammaleblog.com/2014/12/porn-that-way-german-museum-exhibits.html
Publix adopts same-sex marriage insurance policy 5 days ahead of Florida's lift on gay marriage ban
http://www.firstcoastnews.com/story/news/local/2014/12/30/publix-same-sex-marriage-legal/21066699/
[FR] Unplanned meeting of two plates
I joined one of my plate to a bar the othernight. I knew she was with 2 or 3 guys at this bar, as she shitested me before, but that those guys were gays (as the successfully passed shittest revealed). So I just pop-up, firmly say hi to each and everyone of them, big smile, whatever "Hey, I'm Ermgotthis"
Sit down next to her, all of them are pretty drunk, talking sex : great, no work to do for me. So I just sit there next to her, enjoy the jokes, talk not much... When one of the guy stands and says "I'm gonna call Tania !"
Huh. What ?
Tania is definitly not an usual name where I live... And it's the name of my other plate. I balantly ask "Hope it's not my Tania !" to which he answers "I think she is..."
Huh. Double-what.
So yeah, big surprise : I'm here, having a drink with my 1st plate, pretty much getting ready to fuck her brain out, and my second plates is coming. I start to wonder how to handle this shit coming, as it's a 1st time for me... And just decide to fuck it : those two know there's no exclusivity, it's not up to me to handle that shit.
And there she comes.
Now a bit of a reminder : I'm a straight male, sitting at a table, between 2 girls I fuck, facing two gays guys. Holy shit : I'm the most wanted cock of the table.
And the fun started. Basically, I did not much, just sit back and enjoy my time here. I under-the-table-fingered plate 1 while having conversation with plate2, and balantly talking about my sexual awarness to the two gay guys when they start asking about it.
I felt like I was just there, didn't care, and still the whole night was turning around me.
I'll skip the details, I got plate1 to my place, and she gave me one of the most amazing (bloody) sex of my life, even empaling her asshole on my cock on her own. I woke her up and fucked her again during the night, and she got up and got us croissant in the morning before fucking me again.
Plate 2 ? Got a text from her as I started making out with plate1 stating : "The thing is, after I meet you, I really want to fuck"
Felt great.
Conclusion ? Just own who you are. Makes wonders.
As a guy with an anal kink, dating gets frustrating when women don't share my sentiment and i feel guilty asking for it. Do you have any advice?
I'm trying to develop what my gay best friend called an "anal sixth sense," and yes i know that sounds ridiculous. But as a man, its hard to talk about this stuff on a first date, or write on my OkCupid page, only interested in girls who like anal, without being labeled a complete scumbag, whether justified or not.
Do you have any insight, based on having girl friends who do or don't like it, that might show some sort of pattern? (I am not looking for an exclusively anal sex life; just a decent mix of everything.) I know what I'm asking isn't exactly easy to figure out, but I'm just trying to get in the heads of women, to better understand them, for the benefit of my future relationships.
Thanks all.
Would anyone like to make a gay incest CYOA story?
I saw this post on /r/incest and it made me think about /r/gayincest. From what I remember of the stories linked there's hints at gay content but nothing substantial. If enough people here wanted to get involved then we could make our own.
[NSFW] German Museum's "Porn This Way" Gay Pornography Exhibit
http://www.adammaleblog.com/2014/12/porn-that-way-german-museum-exhibits.html
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Interesting: Would you think I'm gay?
There are people who would think I'm gay
I've gone onto Chaturbate a bunch of times, just for... I don't even know why
I like getting loads of guys to watch me stroke my dick while I'm naked on cam
I like them all getting excited and egging me on.
I love the idea that they are lusting after me.
Even the idea that one guy is lusting after me while I masturbate on cam is exciting.
I'm getting a boner, even now.
But I don't consider myself gay. I like sex with girls. I've even given a blow job to a gay guy, in a drunk and horny haze, but I lost interest after a little while.
lol
What do you guys think?
Getting girls phone numbers is like being a serial killer; it gets easier with every murder.
Like the first murder really is like, nerve-racking. Hands are shaking and you're wondering if you've got enough bleach; all that shit. Oh I can't do it, this is too dark, even for me. And I love dark humor; I fucking love the Wayans Brothers.
Anyway, it really does get easier. There's probably better analogies than murder, you know? Perhaps like tennis? Maybe the first time you play tennis is hard but it gets easier?
I fucking hate clubs. My fucking skull is vibrating and it feels like my soul is trying to escape and a good percentage of these girls aren't my type either. Let's just say I wouldn't necessarily bring them home to mom and dad, you know what I'm saying? And I fucking love my mom and dad. And cheap sex got fucking old a long time ago. Trust me, it gets fucking old. That sounds gay, but it's true. Don't call me a faggot, it's really unsatisfying and unfulfilling and just because I'm looking for a woman to spend the rest of my life with I'm a faggot? Fuck you, I want a girl that cries during Sarah McLachlan commercials and who kisses my forehead when she gives me a head rub and who sucks at blowjobs because that's endearing, and a girl who's good at blowjobs makes me wonder about her past experiences if you know what I mean. Because she can always learn, you know what I mean? I want a girl who cooks breakfast in her underwear wearing my oxford shirt and I want a girl who knows where the fuck England is on a map. A want a girl who never nags and calls me baby and will make me a sandwich without a fucking feminist tirade. I want a girl who's loving, giving, flexible, and who will laugh at my corny jokes.
Wow that's kind of gay. So I hate the fucking clubs and where do I meet girls? Everywhere. Everywhere. Everywhere is the fucking answer. Dating is a numbers game, and there's a lot of similarities between dating, sales, and evangelism. I fucking canvass streets son! I live in a small town and it's fucking tough my friend. I literally walk down the street, shop by shop, canvassing like I'm working for fucking Green Peace or something. To motivate myself I say, "This street could have my future fucking wife on it. She's working in some shitty shop, lonely and reading some book, looking beautiful, and I am going to walk inside and I am going to change her fucking life like a fucking romance novel."
I got 2 girls numbers today, and 2 yesterday actually, technically 2. One was a girl at a restaurant I've been to a handful of times, always flirting with her. I teased this girl to death, it was so cute, I wish you could have seen it. This girl is tiny and she's adorable and I kept teasing her that she was absolutely infatuated with me, and made her beg/work for my number. I usually don't give my number and prefer to take theirs, but she wasn't having it. Usually they never call. But she texted an hour later, what a sweetheart. The other girl, lol, I was driving by and I saw her in the shop, and I literally did a fucking U-turn. Sales baby! Another guy would have rationalized and made up excuses, "Oh she probably has a boyfriend and I gotta get going and blah blah blah." You don't fucking throw away a fucking lead! So I walked in there and man, it was magic from the very first moment. I had her laughing so hard she literally had her head in her knees, almost laughing on the floor. This girl did the same shit though! Wouldn't give me her number and wanted to take mine! I honestly sincerely thought I'd never hear from this girl again, but a few hours later, what do you fucking know, she texts me, and now I've got her number. Heh.
Now yesterday, I was canvassing a fucking street. A few somewhat promising leads but eh, somewhat uptight. Came across one girl at a luggage shop or whatever and got her number. Later that night she texts me "Hi" and I tease her and say Aww, you're so cute. It's only been a couple hours and you're already texting me ;) Heh heh, you gotta tease em. Now earlier that morning I ran into someone and this girl is really hot, but she's married and has two kids. But hey! Guess what! Got her number anyway because I told her if she knows anyone or has a girlfriend to introduce me and hook me up! It's sales baby! They say if you can sell, you can do anything or something, I don't know, Mark Cuban said something like that or one of those guys on Shark Tank. And jokingly as we left, I said to her, When you leave your husband, give me a call ;) Just kidding of course, kids terrify me.
In the end, in the big scheme of things, why does this matter? Because guys and gals, you should never settle. Because settling leads to unhappy marriages and divorces and broken families, and long after we're buried in the ground, our children will inherit the consequences of our sins, and what a fucking shame for our children. You know something like 90% of drug addicts and criminals grew up without their biological father. It is a damning statistic. And I want our children to grow up with both their parents and I want you men to be able to see your kids more than once a fucking week and not have another man raising them. Because divorce lawyers should be made homeless, and our daughters should not grow up being promiscuous, trying to fill the void of their father's love, and our sons should not grow up to be criminals and drug addicts. This is why we ought to date, and this is why we ought to hold out until we find Miss Right, and not settle for the first one that comes along. This is why we need to find a good woman.
A good girl with class doesn't mention her ex-boyfriends on a date with you, because she knows that that won't make you feel happy and comfortable. A good woman doesn't push her man's buttons. A good woman has a caring nature and family values and honesty and humor and tenderness and grace. They're sweet and serene in a playful manner. They're flexible givers who don't ever nag. And they respect themselves. And they cry during Sarah McLachlan commercials, lol, maybe not.
You want to know my secret to all of this, to every single bit of it? I never let my interest level in a girl rise above 89%. And I never will, even after I'm married to her. I am always willing to walk away, and I will not be blinded by my dick or by my supposed heart, because if this union is not right, I will walk, and I will not look back. And you know, women cannot respect a man who always goes along with her and doesn't have a spine and who will put up with her shit and never leave. Occasionally, when the situation matters and you truly think things ought to be different, you need to say that word that all those bullshit love doctors say is wrong; you need to say no. Respect means that sometimes you say no, and she'll respect your decision and go with it. Not, "Whatever you say dear" and roll over like a fucking who the fuck knows. And if she knows that you will put up with her shit no matter what and never leave, here comes the walrus, packing on the pounds, and then comes divorce and child support and seeing your kids once a week. But if she knows that you will fucking walk and not look back, that's the beginning of respect.
Also I have a big dick. Lol no, let's be honest, I have a mediocre penis, but that's besides the point. The point is this; what is one of the most important things you will ever do in your entire life? Pick a college? No no, it's picking a fucking husband or wife. And don't you think that such a decision ought to have some fucking thought behind it? People rush into marriage easier than buying a fucking car. You will research for weeks for a car, but you will marry the first fucking breathing soul that gives you attention without considering any of their red flags or their character traits. 2 years, no red flags, then you can marry. You cannot learn engineering overnight; you cannot learn to be a mechanic overnight; you cannot learn how to be a chef overnight; how do you expect to understand love, one of the most elusive of life's mysteries, overnight? But I have come to give you the greatest gift, and this may be the best day of your life. Because there is a man who has changed my life, and he can certainly change yours. The first man in 6,000 years to understand women: Doc Love. He's on a mission, and he is a good and honorable man, because it's about people; it's about families; it's about humanity. And is that not honorable? This is why we date. Good luck fuckers!
Interesting: Would you think I'm gay?
There are people who would think I'm gayI've gone onto Chaturbate a bunch of times, just for... I don't even know whyI like getting loads of guys to watch me stroke my dick while I'm naked on camI like them all getting excited and egging me on.I love the idea that they are lusting after me.Even the idea that one guy is lusting after me while I masturbate on cam is exciting.I'm getting a boner, even now.But I don't consider myself gay. I like sex with girls. I've even given a blow job to a gay guy, in a drunk and horny haze, but I lost interest after a little while.lolWhat do you guys think?
Ron saying gay stuff
There is a clip somewhere on youtube. Ron is saying gay stuff but then tells people not to play it back.
i got cysts in the most undesired place and it's psychologically killing me.
I'm a 20year old and since how long I can remember I have had a number of cysts on my scrotum which has seriously effected my sexual life. I have stopped myself from having sex with girls (WOULD YOU BELIEVE IT?!) because I know how off-putting it will be for girls to see them. Along with that, the amount of times I get super-close with girls at clubs then 'leave-it' is so frustrating because I WANT TO BED THEM but it's stopping me. I've been doctors like 3 times regarding it and each time they said they can't help me. The last time I went (which was 3 days ago) I took evidence from the NHS website on how they can remove it and the doctor immediately said "no no need for that" and this got me so angry because that is what I have heard from the GP's every time and I said "what do you mean there is no need can you take my issues seriously?" and he started having a go at me for raising my voice? I told him how this is effecting me extremely and he kept saying the NHS would not to do as it is not serious enough. He then said that a clinic can do it but they charge, and at this point I thought 'ok i'll pay' thinking it will only be like £100 or something since it is a minor surgery and it turns out, the consultant charge is £150 and the actual operation is like £350. It pisses me off because I am at university, not being boastful but I do have a quite a few girls waiting for me and they must think I'm gay. This has caused me not to have sex in 2 years now and since I am at university, I certainly do not have the money to pay for the operation. It's just a piss take, imagine how it feels going out to a club with your mates, a lovely girl comes and pulls you away from your group of friends,s tarts grinding on you etc, and after all that you say 'nah, not interested'.
sigh just wanted to get that off my chest to someone
2014. december 30., kedd
I'm a journalist who just published a yearlong project on LGBT issues in India, I hope this is okay to post here.
Hello all,
I hope this is okay to post here. 2014 was the year for gay rights in many ways, but some places like India took a giant step backwards. I thought Reddit might be interested, and if there's any interest, I'd be happy to elaborate and answer any questions.
The world's largest democracy last year re-instated a colonial era law which systematically discriminates against a large portion of their billion plus population. With a global image of tolerance, India stunned the LGBT community when they made engaging in homosexual relations an offense punishable with life in prison, suddenly millions of people were made criminals overnight. I spoke to an older advocate, a young man trying to come out, a hijra who was raped and kicked out of her family, and walked with protesters to see what they had to say. Looking over the last year and throwing it forward, I explore the societal, geo-political and economic ramifications of sending the country's gays and lesbians back into the closet. A year in the making, I'm happy to present: Unnaturalized Citizens.
http://www.newsweek.com/india-gay-lgbt-modi-transgender-us-kolkata-civil-rights-coming-out-295483
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