Older 4Younger

Im 34 and single. Im also heavyset. Like alot of other gay men out there who have a "type" theyre attracted to, I am attracted to younger men. 18-29 and athletic. Trouble is, the only young men Ive met are online and most are looking for either a hookup or a "sugardaddy". I am very loving and looking for someone to spend some time with. Is that too much to ask?