ADVISE NEEDED: Confronting My Crush

Where do I start...This guy transferred to the same university as I did. He's gay and I'm a closeted something (still figuring that out). He and I met about three years ago. We've talked on and off. Once he transferred this semester, we've spent a lot of time together.This past Sunday, he, a girl-friend of mine, and myself went out for drinks. Apparently, throughout the entire night was being a bit over protective of him. Fast forward to the drive to his house, he and I had a conversation after we got there. Now, keep in mind that I don't remember any of the conversation because the alcohol was starting to hit me. For these past few days, I've been under the impression that I just asked him if I could stay over.My girl-friend clarified the situation just yesterday. Apparently, I told him that "we needed to talk." And he said, "I know what you're going to say, you just haven't had the courage." He also said that i had crossed some boundaries (which I now agree). Afterward we got into a small argument and hugged it out.Now I'm freaking out because he was acting a bit strange earlier in the week but I just could not understand why. I apologized for some random message that I sent him just after I got home. But I didn't apologize for the way I treated him nor for crossing his boundaries.This weekend he's out of town with his "ex." I'll be heading there as well for another matter.Here are my questions:Did he friendzone me? Or was he just disappointed at me for not being straightforward with him? Does that mean I still have a shot?Is it proper for me to bring up this conversation this weekend? I want to because I rather clear the air than continue to ignore it. And, I don't want him to think that I don't care.I'm also planning on telling how I feel about him and why I was waiting to tell him. (This gets a bit complicated because he's technically in a long distance relationship. Yes, with the ex. Basically, I wanted to see if he would show any interest in me. At this point, I care more about our friendship than potentially being with him.)It's awesome to have a place to share this.