I am seriously confused about my idendity as a gay guy

Hey guys,So, until a while ago, I was pretty sure and comfortable to label myself as a gay man. However, I started to think about myself further, and I think I fit into other categories as well, but now I'm honestly questioning the Gay one.I am comfortable to assume myself as a demi sexual queer now. I rarely ever feel attraction to people, unless I find out what the person is about, other than the visual features. I agree with myself being Queer as well because I don't always follow heteronormativity.I am questioning my Gay label because I remember that 3 years ago, I met a girl online, and we had a fwb relationship for a few months. I remember I had severe emotional attachment to her. However, I don't know if that was me just faking my emotions because I was in the closet, or those feelings were legit. Since I came out to my close relatives and friends, I found myself only being remotely interested in guys, but a girl in my class made me question my gayness again.Whatever the case is, I don’t really enjoy labeling myself that much, because I like to generalise myself and others as simply human beings being themselves, but for convenience sake, I'd like to know what is your opinion on this.Thank you!