He won't appeal to my feminine side.

So, I've been with this guy for awhile and he's a hopeless romantic. I told him a bit feminine. Like I like wearing only panties and high thigh socks during sex or foreplay. I like being called beautiful instead of handsome. He said he wanted to marry me and I told him I wanted to be called wife. He says he accepts all this about me, but I feel like he doesn't. I feel like he's uncomfortable with that. He said he's willing to try to make a relationship work. He's even said I love you countless time. I don't know what to do now. I love him too but I don't want to spend my life with the man that won't indulge in the things that make me happy. Any advice would be great right now.