So being gay

What did it take to start calling yourself that? Why I am asking - it is like a job in a shitty industry (excuse my language) - you end up in a situation to decide somehow to take on a role not only dealing with shit, but also refusing to deal with honey - otherwise you are at least bisexual. So what I am saying - what actually went on inside the head not only to arrive to this but to take it further to go out with it?To re-phrase that - if to say you are onto dealing with shit only is to call dealing with honey WRONG - what taught you that - or what has inspired you into going with it?I don't ask this in leasbian subreddit for gender reasons - it is man and what went on inside his head question.Share you thoughts about your thoughts.