New beau refusing to bottom :(

Been dating this guy for months now.When we first hook up he was keen to bottom and he used to bottom with all his boyfriends. But now he hasn't bottomed for years and is now reacting poorly to anal play and fingering. Giggles and sorta makes fun of it which is getting me down.He keeps refusing toys and dildos etc.I am getting sick of bottoming all the time. Keen for some advice and strategies. Also if I have to accept this situation would love to know how to make this easier and advice on helping me accept the situation without feeling like I am rejected and not as good as his other exs...