2017. október 31., kedd
How do I get my name out there?
If this is the 897840129875th post asking how to start dating gay guys then I'm sorry - I'll delete the thread (or ask someone to delete it) and go to the relevant threads. Nonetheless, I'm a bi guy looking into how to get into the gay dating scene. A gay friend of mine said Tinder was a good place to start, but until I get back home (I'm at college rn) to get some friends' help taking pictures, what has helped you guys get into dating? I'm a fairly reclusive person, so I know for sure that's step one. What're some tips? Thank you all :)
Anthony Rapp Needs to Get the Fuck Over It, Already.
Sorry to vent, but I don't believe he was traumatized by Kevin Spacey. While it's lame that Spacey tried to come out as a way to deflect attention from bad press, I think it's important to remember that gay culture has been a haven for libertinism in the past, that show business has for centuries been famed and even envied for its louche character off stage, and that a lot of this "Weinstein Effect" shit is starting look like mass hysteria/McCarthyism. Also, for those particularly piqued by Rapp's age, it's helpful to keep in mind that age of consent is 14 in Italy, Germany, Austria, Portugal, and a dozen other European countries. This may not be a popular opinion, but I really do think this is insignificant and we can all just move on and hope Anthony Rapp does the same.
Starting to have feelings for close straight friend
Hey this is my first actual post (unless you count dog pictures, then it’s my third). Anyway I’m just looking for some advice on this situation.For a bit of context, I am 20 and this friend of mine is 21, we both got really close in our first year of college and we both took a break for unrelated reasons after freshman year. We plan on returning to school as roommates this summer. I have just recently noticed that I was starting to have romantic feelings for him. Now honesty is really important for me so I went ahead, after discussing with another friend of mine, and told him. He took it fine and was actually quite flattered, though said he doesn’t swing that way (as I had expected). I personally think that I am fine now, as I believe getting the solid no was what I needed. The problem is my mother believes that this will only lead to issues in our relationship. She seems rather adamant on this and claims that her greater experience with relationships lets her know this. I honestly just am not sure where to go now. Any advice on what to do here?
Still single... Want to break that
Hi! I'm a 23 years old man from Chile. More than introverted, I always was kind of awkward on social skills. At least I decided change that a few months ago, and while it's working, I still have difficulties on creating a deeper relationship (I have one only close friend, and a also some other friends, both online and irl).I tried different methods... Lurking around on websites I (would) like to spend on, as well just trying the straightforward dating sites. I won't try in my own city since I'm afraid of not being able to find someone who's not between a SJW or homophobic rando. Haven't found a guy I'd like to share the same house with yet.An additional note: I don't care about distant relationships. After having my best friend for year who doesn't live in the Americas, without mention I do see a legit distant homo relationship from a couple of artist I followed for a couple of years already. And I'm kind of apathetic towards patriotism, so I wouldn't mind moving out of this country (in fact I see it very likely, as soon as the income allows me to do so).I feel this post crontributes very little about my situation, so don't be afraid to ask!
How to come out to gay parents?
My gay parents are very homophobic - I know, kind of an oxymoron, but it’s the tried and true truth. Any tips on how to come out to them?EDIT: Does anyone know where I can watch Rick and Morty online? Sorry, unrelated, but two birds one stone.
Questions about Spacey and Rapp
I'm a woman, so my knowledge about gay men is second hand at best. I feel the mass attack on Spacey is somewhat off base and hypocritical, but I'm not sure about this. I have a few questions I hope can lead to sincere, nonhysterical answers.1) Is it not common among gay men to have their first sexual experience as a teen with an older man?2) If true, would it not have been even more common in the 80's?3) From watching 'Queer as Folk' I learned that gay male sexuality can be very forward and aggressive compared to hetero norms. Is this true? If true, is grabbing someone and lying on them a lot less shocking than it would be if this was a woman?4) Rapp says he was a very young 14 year old, and pictures from that era confirm that. This is the one thing that makes me the most uncomfortable about the revelation. However, I found an interview with Rapp in which he says:"MW: When did you come out?RAPP: When I was 14, I had a one-night encounter with a slightly older kid from high school. My mom found out about it. She confronted me. It wasn’t a coming-out — I was like, “This is something I’ve wanted to do.”http://ift.tt/2gSuC5m is the same age as the Spacey 'event'. So he wasn't a child, he was a teenager. Not that it makes this OK, but teen is different from child.Thanks!
My boyfriend cheated on me, and it kinda turns me on..is this normal?
Hello,I walked in on my boyfriend of one year cheating on me almost 8 days ago...I am trying to power through it, because he feels really upset at what he did and he’s making tremendous efforts to repair the relationship.My question is this, I am truly devastated that his happened. I am 21 and he is 19 and it was the first real relationship we both have ever been in. We love eachother. However, I have jerked off multiple times to the thought of my boyfriend getting fucked by this guy.... is so confused.Any help is appreciated.Thanks.
Holidays
Holidays are coming soon. The saddest and most depressing time of the year when people gather with their friends and families and their significant others and I stay and watch their pictures and envy them so much cause they have what I don't anymore(family and friends) and what I probably never will ( a relationship).
Age difference
Hi! First of, I'd like to thank you for taking the time to read my post! :) I am a 19 year old guy, and I'm kind of into a guy who's 16, and I am not sure how I feel about it. My friends have very different opinions on it. Some say that I am far too old for him, and others say that it's a completely normal age difference. I appreciate any feedback! Thanks :)
My friend sapports the transgender ban
It makes me so upset to evan think about it, i can't belive that he can sapport this kind of discrimination. He sais its not discrimanation becose not allot of trans would want to go to the milatery if they wont pay for thier sergury
Transitioning from Vanilla
Over the last few months, I have been reading up on the BDSM scene and I like the sexual dynamic of a dominant/submissive relationship. I like the idea of power exchange plus all the other things that go along with Dom/sub, such as the expectation of certain things to be satisfied for both partners and that there is a certain goal always in mind.I revolve my life around progress and motivation; I think this will give both me and my partner a new perspective to drive our everyday lives. The idea that his physical/mental dominance is equal to my willingness to serve/ability to stop at any moment is something that truly brings couples together. It's simply a representation of how you would truly give yourself to your partner in every way; knowing that you both are equal yet each plays their individual role.That's what I want for my relationship. I think we have the history and respect that is required for this type of relationship. I'm not necessarily into all of the torture and pain, however, that is something that is explored with your partner over time.Any advice on materials to help bring him up to speed so we are on the same page? I just need some pointers, because I'm pretty sure when I say anything with "B-D-S or M" in it, he might think I want to be electrocuted or some wild shit. LMAOHelllllp please!
Church Organist Walks Out During Homophobic Sermon.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gmIsO9TqsUw&lc=z234w5c5apjagpfmracdp430wr1htdc2lt1im4iccltw03c010c.1509442263816765
I feel like sociaty treats us like a joke
Im ok gay joke but i feel like some of them just come from a super judgmental place. Im talking about jokes that the hole joke is the fact that some people are gay, its like people are finding the very existance of gay people a joke. Am i over reacting or do you feel that way to
Do you think if I ask a straight male for sex they would do it?
I have a crush on my school bus driver, he doesn't seem gay, he probably has kids and a wife and i am much younger than him but im curious of the chance of me actually doing it with him. I know its possible so thats why i want to do it. I want to ask him if hes down for some but what could be the worse outcome you think? Have you done anything similar with teachers or anyone else? Its my biggest fantasy. Would he kindly say no? I have no idea
2017. október 30., hétfő
Is anal sex harder for males?
When I watch porn the girls seem to do it effortlessly and the guys pound into them and quickly. But with gay guys its so slow and looks painful. I'm just wondering why that is that it seems a lot harder for men than women.
I hate being gay
So I just need to vent on this subject. I've known since I was 13 years old. I didn't come out to anyone until I was well into my twenties, 25 I think. I struggled for a very long time with it, once I excepted it things got better for a little bit. But now its the bane of my existence. I never had a boyfriend but have been with 5 guys. One of witch was my best friend that was confused about his sexuality for awhile till he realized he was trans. Sleeping together destroyed our 18 year friendship.I fell deeply in love with him. I attempted to commit suicide but failed when my friend stopped me at the very last second. My whole childhood I struggled with weight, and in teenage years I lost a significance amount of weight. My upper body no matter how many days a week I worked out or how well I ate, I still had a fat looking upper body (with my shirt off). The damage was done to my body and no amount of working out or diet could fix my problem. I learned quickly that my body type was not accepted in the gay community. I have been insulted, harassed and shunned by gay men because of how I looked without my shirt. Though my whole life I've had a lot of women who wanted to date me because I am a very loving and caring individual. I care more for others then myself. I understand people are attracted to different things, but ALL gay men seem to like the same thing super fit guys. This has really gotten to me. I've had friends who are women who I would like to date and be with, but I'm simply not straight. Women can be shallow as well, but not as shallow as gay men when it come to the body. I love that women love you for who you are and not what you look like. Straight couple come in all shapes and sizes. Gay couples always look like siblings or very similar. I absolutely despise my sexuality and gay men. They are the most shallow, disgusting community I've had the displeasure of being a part of. I would love to be with a women who loves me for who I am and not how I look. I get hit on all the time by guys, but once that shirt comes off, game over. Sorry I am venting and just upset that at this point in my life I want so bad to be with a women and not a man. I wish I could magically become straight. Nothing good has ever come from being gay, its destroyed 2 of my very best friendships (only talked about one) and not being able to find a genuine individual making my love life nonexistent. Being gay is a curse, and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I hope to die young so this pain and suffering can't continue. I'm not suicidal anymore mainly because I don't want to hurt my friends and family. I know this was all over the place and could have been put together much better. Really just needed to vent
Frustrated
All I’m going to do is say what’s happening. I don’t really need advice or anything, I just want to vent.So I’m a 15 year old gay kid from Minnesota. I grew up in a big city where everyone was super accepting of gay people, including the vast majority of people around me. I didn’t really think about boys or girls or any sort of relationship stuff until I was in 7th grade. That’s when I realized I didn’t really have feelings for girls. Anyway, I never really struggled with my sexuality, I kind of just accepted it because it was just a normal thing where I grew up (I’m very thankful for growing up in such an accepting place). I didn’t have a hard time coming out to anyone, of course I got nervous, like any gay person who is coming out, but really it wasn’t that terrible. Everyone I told was perfectly fine with it. Now, we’re a very Christian family (who believe God had no problem with Gay people). So, the problem is that we decided to move to Honduras as Christian missionaries right as I was coming out to people. We live on a compound with a bunch of other missionaries. The thing is that the people here are not tolerant of gay people. One of the doctors is prepared to lose their medical license in the US because they won’t serve trans people (honestly, I don’t get how he’s hurting anyone but himself). It’s not really an option to come out here, and we’re going to be here for 2 years, which to me is a long time. I am completely comfortable with myself and was ready to be out, but right as that was about to happen we moved here. It’s just annoying to have to keep that hushed right as I’m ready to be out. To make it worse there are a bunch of other boys my age here, and I have a crush on one of them. Technically, I suppose he could be gay, we’ve never talked about that stuff, but the likelihood is small, and even if he was, he would not be comfortable telling anyone in this environment. I just want the crush to pass, but it’s a small compound and there aren’t a ton of things I can do to distract myself. I see him pretty much every day and it’s hard to avoid him. Also, this is my first real, recognizable crush. I’m just frustrated and wish I could be out, but I’m kinda stuck here for 2 years.I know there isn’t much I can do, I guess I’ll just have to wait. Well, that’s it, thanks for reading.
Crush after casual sex?
So I used a hookup app to fool around with a guy in another city while on vacation. A city I live far away from. It was fun but I also really liked him. As soon as he walked out the door I just felt sad. He was super cute and even though I didn't get very long to know him, he seemed like a very open and genuine guy. And like, he is exactly my type..I'm not going to bother him with more messages or anything crazy like that. We will never see each other again. Regardless, I never expected a little hookup to be so bittersweet. I feel like I'm gonna be dreaming about this guy for weeks. If you can't tell, hookups aren't something I do very often.Have any of you guys had a similar experience?
Crush on a "straight?" guy
So I've been crushing on this guy for the majority of this year now. He has had multiple boyfriends, and he just broke up with a boyfriend of 7 months. I've been getting pretty close with him and he told that he's not actually gay, but he wishes he was gay. I'm just really confused on what to do? Do I keep going after him or do I just be friends with him? I absolutely adore this guy but I don't understand what he means by him wanting to be gay, but he actually isn't.
I have a crush at school
Yes, I know that this isn’t going to be as important as some of the other posts on here that need to be spoken out about, but I feel I just need to do this for myself, even if no one replies at least I have said it. I go to an all boys school, where being gay is seen as not being manly and just wrong to almost everyone there. Most people there all act like their drug dealing rappers and tough guys, when infact if they were like that in the real world, they would get battered (well at least from where I am from). So I get called queer, camp, faggot all the time. The teachers know this and they “help” but nothing ever comes of it so I’m used to that, apart from one boy. He’s in a year below me and he is my best friend. We talk all the time and he respects me for who I am. He was the first person who actually respected me for who I really am. He gets me ya know? He joined around two years ago, and at that time I was at a really dark place. I got bullied by everyone, no one liked me. I mean the teachers supported me but I sometimes heard them talking behind my back, which made me feel like complete shit. When he came though he made me feel so much better about myself. I have a crush on him and have done for a year and a half, but he does not know this. I’m in year 11 (last year in high school I think for people in America) and I’m leaving in 8 months, when I think about leaving it makes me really sad. That’s because our school is a boarding school everyone is form all over the county, so I would probably never see him again, unless I tell him but I don’t know if he is gay or straight. I don’t wanna ruin amazing friendship though and make things awkward between us, resulting me being in that dark place for the reminder of the time at school and I’m really conflicted on what to do. I’m sorry if this turned in me rambling midway instead of me asking for advice. Thank you for reading and I would appreciate any help. ♥️♥️♥️ P.S This is a throwaway account.
Should I try?
I'm 22, I was always the top, but lately a friend with whom I have sex proposed me to be the bottom, should I try?
i keep falling in love with straight guys
hi everyone, i'm 21 bisexual, and the problem is this: i don't like gay guys. i had just 2big loves (for men) in my life, and both where whit straight friends so i never experienced real gay love. (one of the two infatuations is appening right now and I've been sad for the part weeks, and i mean really sad) the problem is that i can't find attractive or feel emotional attachment to gays. i don't know why, i have a ton of gay friends also hot guys but none of them can catch my attention in a romantic way. even the more masculine isn't my tipe. i don't even like the classic jock or straight hairy big guy with muscles. i like cute, polite, shy, young guys but they "have to be" straight. if i know someone i find interesting is gay my level of attraction falls down. i don't know why, i'm sick of having my heart broken (you know how it feels to love a straight guy) and I'm afraid that I will never experience true love.
The problem i live with...
I am 14 years old and if you haven’t already guessed it i am gay. I have a HUGE problem that i just have to get off my chest. I have a crush on a straight boy. And that boy is like the cutest thing in the world but like i said before he is straight. I want to at least become friends with him but i don’t know how too or that it will even work. I have a very flamboyant personality and he is the typical basketball loving boy. We have nothing in common but I really want to be friends with him. Any thoughts an how I should do this?
I have trouble talking to guys...
I would normally label myself as an outgoing person, but that it true only when I'm with girls. When I'm surrounded by boys I freeze up, and they don't even need to be attractive. I have this one straight guy friend that I talk to, and when he tries to talk to me in person, I freeze up and I can't even start a conversation. But, when we start texting I can talk for hours. I really don't want to keep doing this, because I want to be able to just talk to him, but I can't and it makes me so mad. What can I do to become less socially awkward around guys?
How to meet someone worthy
I have always been picky with guys. Whenever I chat with someone and I learn about their sexual history, I lose interest. Being gay it is so easy to have sex and not care about the consequences. I have a thing for quality and whether it's a guy or a thing I always want the best I could get. I don't like wasting my time on things that are unstable or inconsistent. It seems like everyone just wants sex and don't care about the long-term. Some people have casual sex and "want" a long-term relationship and that is just incomprehensible. It feels like I am the last of my kind and ironically I am in NY, one of best places in the world. How and where do I meet people who wants a real relationship? Am I just different and there is just no place for a stubborn hopeless romantic in the gay community?
My Friends keep calling me gay, what do I do? (I'm not)
Anything I should say the next time they do?
[Off My Chest] This is why you should't crush on straight guys
I was wondering whether I should post this to /r/offmychest or not, but I guessed if anyone were to read this, it would be my fellow members on /r/gay.Just like a lot of other offmychest posts, this will just be me venting and getting my thoughts and feelings into writing so that I can get over my current situation. So, please, forgive me if you didn't want to hear a pity story or something to make you feel down. I don't want this to affect anyone in a negative way, so, please, if your emotions are easily affected by the stories of others, I urge you to just click away.I want to start this off by saying something constantly repeated by members of LGBT+ subreddits and communities: Don't crush on a straight guy.I always wondered what the problem was with crushing on straight guys. Up to now, all my crushes were either girls who already had boyfriends or straight guys. (I'm Bi, just in case that wasn't clear to you.) My heart was never broken by these crushes, then again, I never actually told them that I liked them.A while ago, I stumbled upon a comment on the internet that basically said, "Although some people may say having a crush on someone you can't have is a waste of time and a burden on your heart, I beg to differ. A gay crush on a straight person is an experience that cannot be described in words. True, it might not come true, but that is the case with most crushes. Keep on crushing on that person, fantasize, dream, and cherish the feeling. Like most crushes, the feeling will disappear, you'll find someone else to crush on, or better yet, you'll find the true love of your life."I was touched by this comment and so I kept on crushing on straight guys, but never told them about my feelings, and gradually, I learned to move on. So, whenever I saw comments on Reddit saying, "Don't crush on a straight guy. It never ends well," I just ignored them. This was a mistake, and I urge others take this advice before you get really hurt (emotionally, and in my case, almost physically). Don't hold on to hope that maybe they might be Bi. Of course, such love stories exist, but they are very, very rare. I don't mean to be a pessimist, but after today, I feel like sometimes it's much better to be safe than sorry.My current crush is (was?) on my roommate. It was love at first sight. I remember meeting him on the first day I moved into the sharehouse and being captivated by his handsome face, sexy accent, and manners of a gentleman. I have a very faulty gaydar, (the reason most of my gay crushes are on straight guys) so I couldn't really tell if he was gay or not. I mean, he is European after all. (Gay~ or European~) I didn't cyberstalk him for his past relationships because 1) I don't go on Facebook anymore, 2) cyberstalking is the first mistake you make which drags you deeper into a crush and I really didn't want to crush on a roommate I will have to live with for a while. Despite my attempts and efforts to not crush on this guy, after about a month, I fell heads over heels for him.He was always so polite to me. He made me feel more confident about myself whenever we talked about our fuckups at work. He made me feel safe. And with him, I felt at home. I found that I started to adore everything about him. His laughter. His rapping. His routine of waking up late. Hell, even his smoking and snoring. You know you really love someone when you feel all giddy inside when you hear their snoring.I finally found out he was straight when he started talking about his past which he never really brought up because he was really shy about talking about himself, especially his past. He was a bit drunk and really opened up to me talking about how he grew up. He told me about the time he fell into a really dark place after breaking up with his first love. He told me how they both lost their virginities to each other. He told me how much he loved her. He told me how hurt he had been when he lost her. It was heart wrenching, not just because it was a sad story, but because I finally got my confirmation that he was straight and that this was going to be another passing crush with nothing I could do about it.Finding out someone is straight is usually the first step to allow myself to move on. However, this time it was a different. I couldn’t just distance myself from him. Hell, I had to sleep in the same room with him every single day. It really didn’t help that he was getting closer and closer to me. He would bring me food from the restaurant that he worked at because he “thought I would like a nice meal after coming home from work.” He called saying that he would come in late almost as if he knew that I would be worried about him not coming back early. (Yes, I was really worried that night… but that’s another story..) He showed me on Google Maps “the most beautiful place he had ever been to in his country” and that he “wanted to show it to me in person one day.” He had to make things confusing, didn’t he?What made things even harder and more confusing for me is that he delayed his flight back home a couple of more months when I distinctly remember him saying that he was tired of living here and wanted to go back in just a few months. When I first heard about his initial plans to head back home, I was a bit saddened, but relieved that I would soon be distanced from this crush and would finally be able to move on. When I heard that he now wanted to stay a bit longer, I couldn’t help but think, “Does he want to stay a bit longer… For me?”Of course that was another one of those brainfarts that you get when you have a crush.Okay… Let’s skip over how much I love this dude and talk about today.Today was a bit weird. Almost everyone in the sharehouse had a day off work or school and so we held a very small cooking party and my roommate invited his friend from his home country over for a few drinks. I really enjoyed the company of my housemates as it had been a while since we ever had a gathering like this. We decided to have a movie night, something scary before Halloween (because we all have to freaking work on Halloween night…) and while we were watching the first movie, my roommate and his friend were in our room drinking the beers they had bought earlier. (Don’t worry, it doesn’t end with my roommate and his friend in bed or something like that.)My roommate doesn’t get drunk easily, but right when we were getting ready to watch the second movie, my roommate came into the livingroom, clearly a bit tipsy, asking another housemate if he could have some of his Vodka. He wasn’t totally out of it because when I offered to help him make his drink, he could still properly and he poured the Vodka and some Cola into a glass without a problem.The moment I noticed that he was totally out of it was when he was sitting in a chair with his head drooping to the side in a very uncomfortable looking position. I think he might have even fallen asleep for a second. I got up from the couch, kneeled down next to him, patted him on the back, and asked him if he was feeling alright. And just like every single drunk person, he said, “Don’t worry. I’m okay. I’m not drunk.”I replied that I knew he wasn’t (of course, this was a lie just to make sure he would comply to my suggestions), but wanted him sit on the sofa instead of the chair from which he was nearly drooping out of, for his own safety. I really thought we was going to fall out of the chair and hurt himself. Thankfully, he seemed to get back onto his senses and said that he was fine. Not wanting to nag or annoy him, I simply went back to my seat.He was alright for a few more minutes, but I noticed that he was having trouble placing his glass back on the coffee table and he was just inches away from knocking it off the table every time he went to grab some popcorn. After a few more close calls and him dozing off again, I decided I was going to get him to bed.As I knelt by his side with my hand on his back, I realized that this was the first time that I actually made contact with him other than the first handshake. Touching him, feeling the warmth from his body ignited a feeling in me that really cared about him and just wanted him to get to bed before he got hurt.I took the glass from his hand and was going to move the bottle of Vodka out of his reach. That must have triggered him in some way because he immediately lunged for the bottle almost yelling, “Why are you taking that away from me? I’m fine!” I wanted to say, “First of all, it’s not yours, and second, you’re way too drunk to have more,” but I was so surprised that nothing came out of my mouth. I was still holding onto the bottle, but his grip was firm and determined, not to let go. Fearing that I would agitate him or that struggling with the bottle would make it go flying, I reluctantly let go. He then started to drunkenly mumble the words that stabbed me right in the heart.“You.. Just because we live in the same house.. Just because we live in the same room.. Just because you’re my roommate, doesn’t mean you’re my… my… you’re my… What’s that word…? You know! You’re not my…” Although what he said doesn’t make any sense written out like this, I understood what he was trying to say. There was no reason for me to look after him. I had no responsibility in caring for him. I wasn’t his keeper. I wasn’t his guardian. Maybe.. I wasn’t even his friend…All I wanted to do was help. All I wanted to do was see that my roommate, my friend, was safe. All I wanted to do was make sure he didn’t get hurt or hurt anyone around him.My other housemates, probably sensing some hostility signaled me to back away, and in caring voices, they tried to talk some sense into him.I was torn. I thought he cared for me like a friend, like a brother, but instead, at the moment when I thought he would need my help, he pushed me away.As I backed off into a seat right behind him, I couldn’t help but think about what I did wrong. Sure, I must have ticked him off, showing that I thought he was drunk when he didn’t think so. Maybe touching his back was a mistake. Maybe offering him to help with his drink in the beginning was what set him off. I felt really sorry to my other roommates as I had no power or control over my own roommate as he was making things awkward and uncomfortable.My thoughts were interrupted by a shatter. To no one’s surprise, he had tipped over his glass which shattered on the floor. I immediately got up to get some paper towels to wipe up the mess and a bag to gather the broken shards in. Even in that moment, he held up his hand and said he was “sorry about the mess” and that he would “clean it up.” That scared me even more, the thought of him trying to clean up the glass shards drunk. I ran to get the paper towels and bag. I didn’t care that he was telling me to stop, I would not let anyone get hurt because of my roommate. Blaming myself for not focusing on the glass that was bound to fall and shatter, I quickly picked up the broken shards and wiped up the mess.Even after that he would not agree to go to bed saying that this was “just a small mistake,” that “he was sorry,” and that “he was still not drunk.” He kept calling out the names of my other housemates, calling them “great friends” and “the best” and asked them if they would please make him just one last drink. He was trying to make a compromise with them. But what hurt more is that he didn’t ask me. It was like he was deliberately trying to show that they mean so much more to him than I do.Eventually, he did get his last drink (in a plastic cup this time) and fell asleep in a really uncomfortable looking position on his chair. I kept on debating on whether I should just pull him off of the chair and get him back to our room, but I was scared about what he might do in resistance to me. Instead, I decided to finish the drink that was in front of him so that he wouldn’t get any worse and cleared all the bottles from the room before he woke up. He did wake up to go to the bathroom and after I was finished throwing the glass out, I found he made his own way back to our room, but didn’t turn the lights off. I pulled up his covers, resisted the best I could to kiss him on his forehead, and turned off the lights.I didn’t return to the living room to finish the movie, nor did I stay in our room to look after him. I decided to go outside and try to make sense of my feelings and of what just happened.So here I am, typing on my laptop at 2:40 a.m. while trying my best to hold back my tears. I don’t want to go back to our room. Maybe I’ll just sleep in the living room. I don’t know…To whoever made it this far: Thank you so much for reading. Sorry if I wasted your precious time. I will not go back and proofread it, as it hurt enough thinking about it again, so I apologize for any weird flow in the story or any grammatical or spelling mistakes. I just really needed to get this off my chest and I had no one to talk to about it. Have a good day.TL;DR - In love with roommate. He got drunk. Wanted to help him, but he acted in a way that made me sure that he did not care for me the way I thought he did, or the way that I care for him. Heart is broken. Will now go cry myself to sleep on the living room sofa. Don’t crush on straight guys. Break your ties before you get hurt.
It really hurts that I've never had a relationship or even a friendship, and the pain is only exacerbated by reading about teenagers who are in relationships.
I don't know what's so wrong with me that I haven't ever experienced something at 20 that lots of people experience when they're 16. In terms of social experience, I'm still that 14 year old who-- wait, most people have friends by the time they're 14.At this point, maybe it's time to give up. I still have zero social skills; the only difference between me now and me 6 years ago is that now I can order food without freaking out too much.
Open Relationship?
Recently my boyfriend has been expressing his openness to an open relationship. I personally don’t crave one and know an open relationship isn’t for me. Every time we discuss it he explains that he’s still attracted to more masculine men since I’m more on the feminine side but he refuses to follow through with his feelings because he knows he’ll lose me in the process. It makes me feel guilty because I want him to be happy and if I’m not fulfilling his desires then he shouldn’t have to burden himself with me. I don’t know what to do.
Friendzone folluw-up, what now?
Hi alllll,In addition to this older post : http://ift.tt/2ziHQUn've told him last week. We were on a party (not sober) and i told him that i find it sometimes pretty difficult because i like him. We are spending more and more time together, we see eachother every weekend, he sleeps at my place at least once a week, we go to parties, dinners, nice things to do. Which is awesome.But when i told him he said "Ahhw, but then i will have to disappoint you, because you're just not my type. But you're my best friend and i like you very much". So, that was a bit painfull, but it was clear.But then last weekend, he was at my place again, he was trying to show off his sixpack and he said "When you place your hand here you can feel all the cubes". I said "Okay, that's nice" but then he insisted me to feel it. Nothing too weird maybe, but i think it's weird if you are just friends.Nothing changed after i told him this shit a week ago, but with some situations (like the sixpack thingy) it's becoming really, really hard to keep it together and not do more shit...Any tips or advice on how to keep this friendship "good"?
Dealing with a sudden break-up. Feeling lost.
So my boyfriend and I broke up recently (about 3 weeks ago). We're both in our 20s, in uni and he initiated the breakup after dating for a year.The main reason for his breakup was that he still feels young and finds it difficult to commit to one person and finds it difficult to be in a relationship. Everything was going on perfectly and the breakup came on to me as a complete shock. He says that he has had time to think about the idea of us being in a relationship, which made him feel anxious, uncomfortable and just not normal. This then triggered the thought of breaking up, which then happened in the weeks after.I, on the other hand, thought that things were going perfectly till that conversation we had about where we were going and what the future entails when we graduate. He said that he still wants me to be around him and be his best friend but I can't seem to remove my love for him. And the thought of him getting on with other people in clubs/night outs, kills me so much inside. Yes, we both did things with other people after the breakup but we both told each other that they were just physical/casual stuff.I feel as if he can do it so much easily because he took the first few steps of detaching me from our 'relationship'; and that I'm still recovering from the fact that we're not together anymore. I've been reading posts here, talking to my other friends and they've all talked about how I should remove him from my life so that I can move on with mine. But the idea of me walking away from him would hurt him a hell lot because he said that I was his best friend. I've been planning my future year around him but I guess the mistake was that we never discussed about our future in the relationship.I have been devastated and depressed ever since. The sudden change in lifestyle (no cuddling in beds at night watching shows, no kissing, me being unable to express all my life for him physically) is affecting me in so many ways. He has been my pillar of emotional and mental support in the past year in uni. But now, I can't even do any bloody essays or focus on work. He was the reason I came out to my friends around me. He gave me the courage to do that, hang out with other LGBT people, go out to LGBT nights and made me really happy about my sexual identity. I really thought that he was the one.We still hang out like friends do but it hurts to not see us as a couple anymore. I feel a mix of anger and sadness every single day. I feel really lost in my life at the moment and I have thought of just leaving everything behind, ending it all. What do I do?
Kevin Spacey accused of sexual assault on a 14 year old boy when he was 26
All this tea has me up at night! ☕Reading Star Trek's Anthony Rapp's allegations against Kevin Spacey, saying he tried to seduce Rapp when he was 14 and Spacey was 26.Even the lightest of Google Searches show reports and personal accounts accusing X-Men director, Brian Singer, along with Kevin Spacey, of hosting private dinner parties together (with drugs and alcohol) for underage teenage boys in Hollywood.Spacey "doesn't remember" the interaction with Rapp and blames it on "drunken behaviour" in his apology-turned- exposé, concluding with how he now "chooses" to live his life as an openly gay man. 👀Seriously? He's making this about himself?Now Seth McFarlane is involved too because there's an old clip of Stewie in Family Guy running naked through Quahog Mall yelling "Help! I've escaped Kevin Spacey's basement," and it's circulating as a form of proof that McFarlene knew something about Kevin Spacey's questionable actions with underage boys.Kevin is a talented actor, and I've always been a fan of Brian Singer and the X-Men movies but this obviously crosses so many lines. These titles are replaced with SCUM for me now.Consensual adults can do whatever the hell they want together but preying on minors is just the lowest of lows.There are so many shitty gay men in the news recently - Andy Cohen & Harvey Levin are acting a fool too re: Kathy Griffin. We really need to work on our representation, these homos are out here making us look REAL bad.I'm a disappointed fan but if this shit is true, which all signs point towards YES, I hope it's one hundred percent blown out of the water and they're held responsible for their actions.StopProblematicGayMen
2017. október 29., vasárnap
Am I a homophobe? (not supposed to be offensive im just curious)
Hi, im a 15 y/o male. I think that gay marriages are just like "normal marriages" and that gay people should not be segregated from the non gays. I don t care for "gay people" but the ones act like "gay" for attention (whether they are or not) just piss me off. Also, gay people engaged in public acts of affection also really get on my nerves more than straight people. I am a believer that people should do what they should do to be happy and I do not hate the idea of gay. But for some reason all the gay kids at my high school just piss me off for some reason. Maybe its just the population of the school and theres not enough "types of gay people". So my question is this, am I a homophobe for not liking the gay kids at my school and what can i do to change it. I apologize in advance for any offended readers.
Jonathan, my church friend
When we talked on the phone the first time there was an ease in our conversation. Pauses were allowed. His voice seemed so relaxed, comforting. We got each other, somehow.Jonathan was at a job he hated, and separated from his daughters four states away. He told me to call him "ANYTIME" because I had been struggling with some things. He was my new friend, 3 hours away. In a life with no friends.One night we were talking and he told me I shouldn't be alone. I mentioned I needed to hire someone in my new business at which point he expressed how he wanted a career change. An hour later we were talking about him joining my business. I hung up the phone delirious with joy. Jonathan and I could be a team. Over the next couple weeks he was overrun with excitement as well as we worked out the logistics. We were going to be roommates, too.When I met him for the first time in Dallas, he came almost bounding towards me with a cute limp from an injury years ago. We hugged and our eyes met somewhat cautiously. He had dark brown hair and deep brown eyes. In his apartment, he asked me if there was a funny smell as he had been working with the owners to deal with a mold problem. He lived very simply and talked almost nervously and I noticed a flashcard taped near his door with a Bible verse about not thinking anything strange.He gave me some of his clothes to put on for an impromptu game of basketball. On the court he would always shout like a little league coach when I made a basket. I didn't know what I was doing but was swept up in my happiness. We went to eat and then stopped by a grocery store before visiting some friends. At the store he bought some heavy cream and some health foods and I made sure to buy some sweets to throw him off and annoy his fanaticism. He laughed at almost everything.Jonathan was beautiful in his desire to be hospitable for me, his tireless efforts, his plain but introspective face, the way he laughed nervously. The way he called me "beloved" and wanted to be close to me. I was so happy being with him and to know his sweetness.Above all, we shared a bond that ran very deep in the way we perceived the world. But I began to lose my grip on reality and he saw it and I feared pushing him away with all of my challenges. My church told me goodbye, and with this was goodbye to Jonathan.It took me a while to accept my affections for him and to acknowledge that he may have felt a deep and loving connection the same. Sometimes I imagine hugging him and hearing his voice and feeling his hand touch me as a man comforting another man, both of us unafraid to share a love and a bond that isn't allowed but exists nonetheless."As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul." - 1 Samuel 18:1
Questions about meeting people
I've recently decided that I want to try and talk to guys, although I'm still hiding my sexual orientation. I'm 21 and just moved to a fairly large city and want to meet new people. I've never been with a guy or even talked to one due to self consciousness. How do I go about meeting new people or starting conversations? Also if one thing leads to another what should I do to be prepared?
Do you use Grindr?
We are looking for volunteers to fill out an online survey about how people communicate over social networking apps, especially Grindr.We are looking for men who: • who are age 18 or over, • who have used Grindr, and • who are interested in filling out a short (15-minute) anonymous online survey.This study is being conducted as graduate student research at the University of Kansas. Please click on the below link if you are interested in filling out a survey about your experiences on Grindr.http://ift.tt/2iJYK7a
Self-Loathing, Not Sure What to do
Hey there, Ugh so this story is a bit messy, but I'll try to tell it the best I can. So I am a relatively recently un-closeted gay black man currently living in the south. I am currently 18, and still a virgin. My family is extraordinarily religious (I'm religious to a degree, though pretty moderate) but they actually took to me coming out very well. I lost a couple of friends, but I most stuck around so that was okay. My issue stems from the fact that I've been dating a guy for about 3 and a half months now, but I've not been able to bring myself to have sex with him. He's attempted to initiate multiple times, and each time I've turned him down. It's not like I don't want to have sex with him, I find him amazingly attractive, and often fantasize about the possibility. But... Every time I get close to doing the deed there's just some psychological thing that fucks me over, and I can't do it. I just feel so... Dirty. Or rather I feel like maybe what I'm doing isn't like good or something, even though it's what i really want to do. Idk its kind of hard to describe. I have a lot of self hating thoughts due to being gay, like maybe what my pastor says is right and I'm like this terrible sinner, or what if I'm really just sick or something? I don't know. I don't want my bf to leave me, he's an amazing guy and I hate to keep letting him down, and at the same time I feel like I'm missing out on an experience with a person I deeply love and care for. Idk, is this typical? Or am I really just fucked up? Is there any way to get over it? Sorry for this hella long post, I just figure if I can't talk about it to anyone else, I may as well scream it into the void.
So I may have a disease...
A couple months ago I lost my virginity in a “spur of the moment” kind of deal, without protection (I know, I best myself up about it often but nothing I can do about it now) he was 28 and recently divorced. I’ve always been a paranoid person and of course I’ve thought about if I had ever caught anything. Last night I had a dream that I had aids so all day I’ve been sick to my stomach and freaking out. I have had any thin out of the ordinary happen to my body. I’ve been sick a little more than normal, but I work in a theater so I handle money a lot and seasons have changed. I know that the last person he was in a relationship with doesn’t have anything. I know where I can go, but it’s Sunday so I can’t make an appointment yet and I also don’t have any of my insurance information because I’m only 19 and I’m still on my parents stuff. I don’t want my parents to find it that I went there either, as long as I’m clean. So as of now I’m just waiting, making myself sick, and worrying a lot.
Hallowe'en (aka Gay Christmas)
I've never dressed up (or should I say down) as a "sexy" anything for Halloween. It's not my jam. I have no problem with it, do you, but remember that creative and character costumes are just as awesome. Halloween is supposed to be fun. Just because someone isn't in a jock strap and angel wings doesn't mean they aren't slaying in their own way.Happy Halloweek, ghouls and goblins!
That embarrassing time I told a straight guy I loved him.
I went to a community college where I was the best student at what I was studying. This caught the attention of a really attractive guy, who started showing me a LOT of attention. I wasn't really open about my sexuality, so I didn't really handle the situation well. I sent him a message on FB months after we graduated professing my feelings for him.... I never received a reply....and I was SERIOUSLY bummed out... It turned out he was engaged to a woman, and he was only being nice to me, so I would work with him, and ultimately impress his boss....The worst part was that He and his GF shared a Facebook...oops..
I keep being people's first boyfriend
Title says it all really. I'm 24(m), and have been in 4 relationships. Aside from my first boyfriend, I was the "first boyfriend" in all the subsequent relationships.Being someone's "first" isn't something that I get off on or anything- it certainly doesn't make a person more attractive to me (or less).In all the cases, I haven't been the first person they've had sex with, only their first relationship. I don't know what this means, or if this is a good or a bad thing? It's just a trend I've noticed, and it worries me a bit- I'd like to eventually find someone to settle down with, and am aware that most people don't usually end up with their first partner being their life partner.Advice and/or perspectives much appreciated.
Some advice
I'm a 31 years old. I'm not sure how to classify myself because I've only ever actually been with women, but I've been sexually attracted to other men for many years. And actually most of the time when I masturbate I'm thinking about sucking dick or taking it in the butt and sometimes stick things up my butt to imagine feeling a cock there. But I've got some problems. Pretty much I don't know anyone who is openly gay, and if I did I'm not sure what I would do to actually snag them. Also I have to keep my desire on the DL because I've already got a girlfriend. So what can I do to find "tops" in my area? What can I do to get the attention of some of them that I like? And how can I do it without letting the other people in my life like my girlfriend find out? I'm white and reasonably masculine. But I've got a slightly "petite" build. I'm attracted to men who are so masculine that I appear effeminate by comparison. Willing to try cross-dressing.
stupid school stuff
There's this kid at school who I'm like 99% is gay(he's the only guy on the cheerleading squad). We don't really know each other very well, but I was wondering if it would be weird for me to DM him and ask him if he is gay(he already accepted my follow request on instagram). I probably wouldn't be able to do it in person because we don't have any classes together and people would overhear us talking. I'm pretty sure he's out and school and I just wanted to ask him if people treat him well at school so that maybe I could gauge what it would be like if I came out. I just want to know if this would be a little weird or if its crossing a line or something.
We are tolerant in Bulgaria
That is what you call misrepresentation. In any other city and even in some parts of sofia the gay couples would have been beaten or killed. https://youtu.be/G1_OgK46pjc
Needing advice its about my Ex
So me and my ex split up back in jan this year due to me not feeling any spark so i told him that he was heart broken we were together 2 months and the reason for split was we rushed in too things to quick which course no spark so then after we split he blocked me on every social media site because he was too heart broken so then skip to August this year we started talking again he said he still had feelings for me and i said i don’t have any towards him so i said lets be friends that happened then a month later we had a big argument on snapchat over him ignoring me which upsets me then its only just hit me that i still have feelings for him i cried last night snd a couple weeks back thinking about him but iv have been blocked by him again tried contacting him no response what do i do? The argument was some stupid tbh it didnt need to happen but now i’m blocked and can’t handle it i wanna talk to him again i wanna maybe go on a few dates with him to see if we can work things out :(
Should I get grindr? Straight (?) Male.
Straight, potentially bicurious as an 18 year old that is willing to try being sucked off, would want to be the dominant one and not necessarily return the favour. I'd say I was good looking but I'm not a gym-goer nor a big bear. Would there be any point in signing up to grindr to explore?
Motivation
Hello again people of reddit 😂, hoping the things i post on here don't have a theme of being kinda negative i guess, I've always had trouble with motivation and my body image, and they go hand in hand i guess, lack of motivation makes me eat more and because i eat more i become lazy and less motivated. What im trying to say is id like to lose weight, but im not sure how, I've tried exercise before but i usually stop after 2 weeks, its a trend with everything i do from eating certain foods to doing certain activities, if i cant get past two weeks then i give up, and its annoying, im not huge or anything, but im not happy with my body, i would like to be toned or something I know most people would say gym, but i have 0 confidence and tend to over think when people look at me in places like that, and none of friends would go with me as i don't take it seriously when i have been and just tend to mess around Sorry about the wall of text and sorry if my English doesn't make much sense or looks nasty, its my first language, but im shit at it. ~Thanks
Relationship Advice
Hi, r/gay,I've been going out with a guy for a bit now, and I can already see the flaws. We find it harder to talk to eachother and we don't talk as much as we used to when we were best friends, is this a problem?Is it normal to not talk as much?Any help would be appreciated,~ Me
2017. október 28., szombat
Dating Advice
So I'm on the brink of going on more dates with this guy. I'm 17 and he's 20. He has had relationships before, but I haven't and I've never even had my first kiss.We both really like each other and talk a lot, and have plans on going out and all of that. I know that things will become official, whether I make the first move or not, but I'm just nervous because I've never been in a relationship AND I'm not out to my parents.I would love to hear people's advice of there first relationships and just things I should really know in general. I'm in my head that things would go wrong real quick, but I really like him and he seemingly likes me back.So yeah if you have any advice, let me know! Thanks!
My SO and his whip...
I have lived with my SO for five years and we have resided in several different properties since then. Last night, I came across this leather whip he always moved with him; He never used it before.I tossed it next to him on the couch and I said, "I think it's time you figure out what this is used for."He just smirked at me and put it in his robe pocket. Hours later, I was making the bed and I felt this soft tickling on my back, so I stop and try to turn around; the next thing I knew I felt this sharp pain (it was just enough to make you pay attention) and he said, "I didn't tell you to stop."I finished making the bed and let's just say the rest was extremely enjoyable. Time for take 2👌
Need help being a harlot
Hi /r/gay/, I just got out of a 2.5 year relationship and I kind of want to sleep around a bit now. The only issue is, I don't know how.My ex boyfriend and I were dating for 2.5 years and I think it would be accurate to say that I came into my own during that period; I gained a lot of confidence, became happier with myself and became a better person (I think). He was my second boyfriend and so I am now in a position where I want to sleep around a bit, and have some fun, but I don't really know... what I need to do.I'm on grindr (not tinder yet) and I am happy with how I look and all but like... if a guy comes over, do I take him straight up to my room? Is it ok if my flatmates see him or is everything TOP SECRET. Should I be douching? I'm vers bottom but I read somewhere that douching can be bad for you? What courtesies are there? should I have snacks on hand?TL;DR single for the first time in ages, want to sleep around and don't know how.Literally ANY advice would be helpful!P.S YES I have seen The To Do List and YES I know that my life is currently mirroring the plot line.
Gay sex dares???
Hi all,So when we and my boyfriend are apart, as we spend quite long periods of time apart from each other, we keep our sex drive up by regularly sexting and daring each other to do certain sexual tasks. These usually include something in public that we have to film for the adrenaline, then we send it to each other.For example, masturbate in a public place and film it, take a photo of your penis with someone else in full view without them knowing, post a video of yourself masturbating on tumblr (but hiding your face)Does anyone else have any good ideas as I’m struggling to think of any more?
Help!
I an rather conçu ses a bout my sexuality and dont Know what To do! Every day i Feel more sure i am bi . i live in a house where i dont need To "come out" or i showed up with a boyfriend my parents would nit blink an eye but my friendsma y be less accepting . i an only 14 please help! Any advice? Thx!
So, closeted with a question about preferences?
I'm basically still in the closet, but I had sex with a guy friend multiple times in high school and really enjoyed it. I feel attracted to a number of men. I have this fantasy about letting another man dress me up as a woman--wig, make up, girly panties and clothes. Then just use me sexually, treat me as if I was a girl. How would other gay men react to that? Would it be something they'd go along with? PM me if need be and thanks!
Marriage
Hey guys did you see colton haynes and his fiance got married? That's so cool. Love wins again in the US. I am overjoyed every time I see a couple get married somewhere in the world. It's so cool that there are countries (although pretty small number of countries) where gay people can get married. It's amazing.
Not really sure how to handle...
Recently, I let my parents know I have a boyfriend. Dad was really supportive. Mom is having major issues. She told me that she would not be comfortable visiting and staying at my place when my boyfriend moves in with me. I quipped that if I was a dating a woman she would have no issues. Then I asked why she would feel uncomfortable. She shut down the conversation: "I don't want negative conversations and feelings so let's not talk about this. So now I can't have a productive conversation with her. Part of me is fed up with her, because of other issues I've had in the past. I've prepared myself to disown my family if they got in the way of my relationships. Any advice?
Straight guy needing to ask questions.
Hey /r/gay,So I am a straight man, but I constantly want to be fucked by guys. I do not find the male form sexually attractive in the way I do a woman - but I always find myself thinking about being pounded, giving head and having guys cum on me.Anyone else in a similar boat?
Kathy Griffin: A Hell Of A Story about Harvey Levin and Andy Cohen
https://www.youtube.com/attribution_link?a=rZa7wPzivr0&u=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DU9tD3RZS43I%26feature%3Dshare
Sorta came out while drunk...
So yesterday it was my firends birthday(i have a crush on him) and as usual us and some friends went drinking, and whenever i get drunk i tend to be quite honest witch can be a problem.Lately i have been questioning my sexuality a bit, every day im more and more sure that im bisexual, but even still im not sure lol. But the point is yesterday while drunk i kept saying how i was indeed bisexual to my friends, and im sure most of 'em wrote it of as me saying random shit becouse im drunk. Howerver on monday im probubly gonna get some questions haha. So im not sure if i should say that it was drunken babeling, or say its the truth. Plus i have that bullshit feeling like my friend might somehow be gay, and that me comming out will incurage him to do the same. But thats probubly just wishfull thinking.So i have no clue what to do, most of my friends are not homophobic, ecept for one of them but it has kinda become a meme that he hates everything lol.
Does anyone have any stories they would be willing to share
Hi my name is Chandler.I'm working on a independent drama which the main character is a secretly gay teenager. I want the emotion of the character to feel real and non cheesy so i was wondering if anyone here, Boy or Girl, has any stories or insight from their own lives they would be willing to share as inspiration for the story. Things like: -Non acceptence -Self hate -Fear -LonelinessThe main reason I'm asking this is that i am a strait male and don't want to make what some gay/lesbian people go through seem watered down.
I’m in a bit of a sticky situation
Ok so my brother came out to my parents about a month ago and decided to tell me about 2 weeks ago.Here’s where it gets sticky...So I’m also gay and all my friends know it, I came out to them like a year ago. But my parents only know about my brother and you know, they were supportive of him and whatever, so idk really what to do.Imma probably wait till I’m in a stable relationship (bf atm is probably the funniest person u will ever meet but shy and closeted to everyone), and then tell them in a fabulous way...Idk I just need somewhere to vent :\*im using a throwaway cos I don’t rly want him to find out right now...**sorry for the long ass post :)
Why is it a stereotype that twinks are dumb?
I’m a twink I guess you could say and I was talking to this guy and I somehow mentioned that I am really dumb and he said that I fit the stereotype. Why is this a stereotype anyways?
My Bisexual Friend Wants me to Come Over. What other Sexual Things can we do?
Skip to the last paragraph if you don’t care about context.So i’m turning 18 in January. We’ve actually done stuff before (kids that are like 14 have sex nowadays so who cares right?).I’ve NEVER been with a girl and he made me realise im bisexual as well. He invited me over to play games. He flirted with me and made me feel so confident. He ended up putting on porn and at the time I said it was weird (since I was straight). He said two friends watching porn is normal. We were watching for about 5 minutes and I was super turned on. He noticed the bulge, he was kneeling next to the chair he had let me borrow. He said “You know if you want to jerk off it’s fine, lots of guys jerk off to porn together.” I’ve actually had friends do this with eachother so I said fine. I pulled it out and jerked for merely around 30 seconds and he says to me “What a cck, mind if I touch it.” I said go ahead. He begins rubbing it and pulling my foreskin back. I let out several moans and lean my head back. He adjusts himself so hes kneeling right in front of me. His breath literally hitting against my head, I look down and think “Fck it.” And I ask him to suck me. He doesnt think twice before his lips are sucking me off and I’m gripping his hair hard. I’m looking up at the porn and see the girl sucking the life out of the dude so I begin pushing his head down. It was so intense. About 10 minutes pass of him switching between sucking my dck and sucking my balls until we hear his parent’s car drive up. We stop and before I pull my shorts up he gives my penis a kiss and leaves to clean himself up. I clearly was left with blueballs. A week later he asked what I enjoyed and didn’t. I gave tips like “Use a bit more saliva, don’t suck my balls too hard, more tongue.” He infited me over and I went. Again he put on another porno and it wasn’t long before he started sucking me. This time I didn’t want to leave with a full load. At this point i’m standing up, him kneeling and his back against the wall as I thrust my hips into his mouth. Only 5 minutes pass until I begin cumming inside his mouth. He sucks the rest of my cum out and stands up and licks his lips at me. He leaves to wash up and I pull my shorts up trying to adjust my hard on (I dont go soft right away). Barely 10 minutes pass before his hand is on my thigh. He pulls it out for me again. This time we’re both on same level chairs and watching porn. He begins jerking me and asks if its ok for him to jerk next to me. I agree and as he lowers his shorts I notice he’s wearing panties. I ask and he twlls me he snagged some from the womens aisle. They looked so nice but my main concern was his bulge underneath them. He pulls his panties down and lets his penis come out. Its a bit thicker than mine and straight, mines a bit curved. He begins jerking but I cant help asking if I can touch it. He says of course and I go for it. We’re both jerking eachother and a few minutes go by and he pulls my shirt off. I do the same and BAM another surprise. He swiped a matching bra aswell. Obviously it was a small size since he doesnt have the boobs for it but the touch was really nice. I look down at his cck in my hand and I can’t help it. I bring my head down and begin sucking him. At first it felt like rubber. But I enjoyed hearing his moans. But then his precum started coming out and that combined with my spit made it feel so good. I have never tried putting anything that big in my mouth but after a good 10 minutes he couldnt help but grip my head and shove it down my throat. I gagged and oulled it out as a stream of spit and precum dripped from his penis’ head and my lips. He started moaning “Crap i’m cumming!” And I instantly placed my lips back around it and let his cum fill my mouth. He leaned back and asked him to finish me but he hesitated. I said “Fine, i’ll use your restroom.” I figured he had already sucked me twice maybe he thought this was something I owed him. I was jerking in his restroom and he rushed in. I asked him what was he doing and he leaned in, kissed me and grabbed my butt. I pulled away, looked him in the eye and he knew right away what was gonna happen. He kneeled and opened his mouth as I gripped onto his hair and forced my manhood into his throat. We spent ALMOST 30 MINUTES in the restroom. Finally I came. I pulled out and let it cum all over his face. He stood back up and I kissed his cum covered lips as I massaged his “breast” and gripped his ass. We cleaned up and I left about an hour after.So my birthday is coming up and he said “Come over for your gift.” I asked him what it was and he said “My mouth and a fleshlight that you can take home.” I asked him why a fleshlight and he said “I bought just for your birthday, I wanna suck you and see you play with it.” I want to know if you guys know of anything fun we could do. I really dont want anal right now even though he’s asked for it. His parents are usually out for 2hours cause his dad picks up his mom from work and they go eat fast food afterwards. Something clean as well please. Maybe a new position or any straight porn that will get us in the mood. Maybe a way to surprise him like asking him for water and greeting him back into the room with my penis out? Any thoughts feel free to share straight/gay/bi!
Hey guys I'm not gay
Hey guys I'm not gay, I play football. I accidentally clicked this thread because I thought my mouse was hovered over the hot girls thread. Well, since I'm here I had a question let's say hypothetically I had gay thoughts (lol yea right) and I found my close friend attractive (ew gross) and one day we had sex in the back of my car after football practice (I would puke...the only thing I bang is chicks with big tits you know what I'm saying lol) but we didn't kiss. Would that be gay? We were wasted and while we were banging we kept calling each other fags. It's almost like a parody of when we bang chicks (remember this didn't happen). So that wouldn't make me gay right? Just a jokester?
Should I let my bi friend suck me again.
So long story short, I have a bi friend who invited me over to play games. He played me and I watched porn with him so I got hard and needed to get off. He sucked me off and I liked it but after I came I was disgusted. I backed away without telling him and washed off in the restroom. I don’t like guys or anything but in the heat of the moment I let him suck me. Thinking about it makes me uncomfortable but when I get turned on again I want to do it so bad. He invited me again but this time he said he wanted me to spend the night. I asked why and he mentioned wanting to try it under the sheets, in the shower, and on his kitchen counter with him bent over. He wants anal already and i’m so confused!? What decision should I make!?
2017. október 27., péntek
Parents trouble accepting, resources to help them?
I recently came out to my parents. My mother was extremely accepting and happy for me, but my father is having a bit more of a difficult time with it. He has barely spoken to me since I told them. I think he's taking a long time to process it and has made comments to my mother that he feels like he has turned out to be a bad father or has somehow failed me as a father. I think he is also upset because he is very religious and is conflicted with what his faith says. What resources do you suggest for him to help be more accepting of me and realize that me being gay is something far beyond his control?
Looking for relationship - 19 yo
Hi all. I'm a 19 year old guy just now coming to terms with my sexuality. It's been a lonely process trying to figure myself out and realizing what I want in life. Being in that phase where I want to start dating is hard because I'm not completely out so would like an online relationship to keep things discrete.If you're single, interested and preferably around the same age (19-21) feel free to hmu.
what should i do
I've got a lot of shit on my chest, i have have a crush on a friend that I've haven't seen in awhile and he doesn't know I'm gay. I want to come out to my family but i don't have the courage to, and i go to a school that doesn't have alot of supporting or gay people in it. What should i do?
Some Gay High School BS
This might be a long one, but I really need some help from you guys. OK, so I'm a freshman in high school, and I am gay. Me and my ex-best friend (let's call her Sarah) started off the year really great. We were really close, but then I developed a crush on one of the sophomores. (Let's call him, Keith. And he's straight BTW.)We've known him since we were in 6th grade since we all went to the same middle school, and I was starting to get really attracted to him. Of course, with Sarah being my best friend, I told her who I was crushing on. She told me her crush, and it all seemed normal.I texted him on snapchat if he wanted to be friends, and he said yeah. I told Sarah this, and afterwards she texting him too. Asking to be friends. At this point, she was hitting it off better than me because I'm really awkward around guys. I get kinda triggered, but I get over it the next day.We're in our lunch period and I see that Sarah was texting my other friend. (Let's call her Erika) I am suspicious because everytime I ask what they are talking about they turn off their phones. I'm not stupid so I come to the conclusion that they were talking about me. I leave and a few minutes later I come back, to snoop through Erika's conversation to see if I was the topic of the conversation.Yep. I was correct. Sarah apparently had a crush on Keith, but lied to me to get me to spill it first. She knew that I was triggered last night because she was becoming better friends with him. So you know what she said? She said, "Keith is straight, Alex has no chance." and "I feel bad... but then again I don't."I caught them both in their act, and I confronted them. (Not like fighting them, but I talked to them about it.) I was really mad at this point because Sarah was my best friend and I see that she is lying to me, talking about me behind my back, and liking the same guy I like. (On a different note she always says that she wishes she could change a few things about him, while I think he's perfectly fine. So who sounds less bitchy?)I dropped Sarah, and I started texting Keith so Sarah couldn't get him first. Me and Keith start to hit it off, and we become really close friends. (In 2 days, like wow I have trouble making friends in a year lmao.) My feelings for him start to die down, because I know see him as a friend I can depend on, rather than a lover.So this was like Monday, and the day I'm typing this is Friday. Today at school I was walking to Lunch with my friend Liz, and Sarah tagged along because she's friends with Liz. Keith says hi to me, and I say hi back. (Ya know, normal greetings and stuff.)I didn't think anything of it until I remembered that Sarah liked him too. Since I knew she was fake, I thought that she would've been really jealous. A few hours ago, me and him start texting and around a half-hour ago, she texts him... asking to be friends.I told Keith about the thing that happened with Sarah and Erika, but lied about who the crush was, because I didn't want to tell my straight friend that I had the hots for him. He accepted her real life friend request because he didn't want to be rude, but now I'm scared that he'll get directly caught up in the drama.He doesn't know that I liked him, and if anything goes badly, Sarah will most likely expose me to him. I told him to be friendly, but don't get close with her, just to keep things safe. But, I really don't want to lose my closest friend at the moment, due to a petty girl releasing a feeling I only had for about 2 days.What do I do? (Sorry this was long as heck.)
I just need somewhere to vent
So me and my ex both have strong feelings towards eachother and love eachother. We broke up partly because of the distance and mostly because he is still in love with his ex. We've always just figured that when he is over his ex we can be back together and that's what we both really want.But earlier today I realised like I'm not sure if I could be in a happy relationship with him again. If he never loved his ex I would definitely be happy with him but I'm not sure id be happy knowing in the past he left me for someone else. Like I think if his ex had said he loved him and wanted him back when he left me then they would be together and he wouldn't really care too much for me, he's only gonna come crawling back to me because what he hoped with his ex didn't work out.It's frustrating because I want to be with him more than anything, but I know I can't.
Masturbating
Whenever I masturbate, the only thing that happens is I orgasm and a few drops of a sticky clear liquid comes out. Am I supposed to be cumming?
Meeting new people
Hello everyone, I'm 21M from France and I've been browing this sub for quite a while, I came a long way from last year when I was still closeted, not sure about my sexuality, never been with guys, struggling with a crush for 6-7 months along with a ""mild"" depression, but everything is going really better now, i'm out, i'm proud, my crush knows about me and he's fine, I went over him (kind of) and met several guys that I've dated during the holidays.But now that they're gone, and now that I've came back to my university I really want to meet guys (whom I'd be "allowed" to flirt with), but thing is, I don't really succeed into meeting guys openly gay as I am. I mean we're 300 in my year group and I've talked to some guys and I'm totally comfortable talking or mentionning the fact that i'm gay (i'm not really bringing it up agressively like "HELLO, BTW IM GAY") but I'm afraid to ask them if they are because I don't want them to feel unsettled by my questions and I don't know how to bring that up, or how to make it appealing. Also, when I feel we're getting along well and that I want to ask him if he wants to go for a drink (but not to flirt, just to spend a good time arooung a beer), i'm afraid that he won't accept because he feels that i'm hitting on him or if he don't know about me being gay, that if I bring that up afterward he will withdraw because I might be hitting on him.So I don't know what to say, to think and first and foremost what to do. If you have any advice/opinion about it..
Nice coming-out stories
So I’m planning on coming out to my brother at some point this week, my friends at school shortly after, and my parents when I feel comfortable to do so. Kinda nervous to do it, so has anyone got any nice stories of how people have reacted really positively and accepted it when you came out?I think my brother, friends (mostly) and dad will be okay about it, but I know my mum feels slightly uncomfortable about gay people and I think some of my friends might not react very well. So I need some nice stories to stop me stressing out too much about telling them 😂
My friend is letting me suck him off, should I worry of stds?
He hasn’t had sex in two years and is letting me suck him off but I’m worried of stds. It doesn’t look like he has any and says he’s clean, I’ve been wanting to suck him for three years now.
I GIVE UP. why is "dating" so complicated?
I just came from the mall, I went there for lunch. I just feel like some guys (gays) make it look SO EASY to just see somebody they are attracted to and talk to them. For me, if I see somebody I'm attracted to... I will look them in the eyes (or try to) and smile. And if they like turn their head or look down or just give me a look of "ugh what are YOU looking at"... I consider that a "not interested". I get that ALOT though. And I don't understand what is a gay supposed to do when they get that reaction almost all the time (from guys I'm attracted to ofcourse).I remember when I was 21, I used to go to the gay clubs with a coworker friend and I remember him constantly saying to me "go talk to him" "go say hi". but... it's not THAT easy. WHAT DO YOU TALK ABOUT? WHAT DO YOU SAY AFTER HELLO? WHAT IF YOU SAY HI AND THEY ARE LIKE "eh, hey" and kinda walk off or whatever.now... i don't THINK i'm ugly, but this type of reaction actually makes me think that's the case.so what do i do? online "dating" hasn't been fulfilling for me... because i'm hung and most guys online just want to see my dick or attempt to have sex with me and move on afterwards.it's just so frustrating. and again, other guys just make it look so easy. I'm now 37 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. And to think about it, I don't even think I've EVER acquired a date with someone outside of hookup apps and social media.What's wrong with me? I know you all don't know me, but based on what I've said what the fuck is my problem. Or maybe I don't have a problem? maybe i'm just meant to be alone? do you think that's the case?SIGH! I needed to vent... and none of my gay friends are really good or dependable to talk to about this stuff because they tell me generic shit like "put yourself out there" "just say hi" etc etc which OBVIOUSLY isn't helping.yeah i guess i'm kinda sad. that mall visit was so depressing.
Old cover dick talk
So one of my ex-coworkers and I still text from time to time. When I was working there we talked about going to a Korean spa (which is a fully nude place) we both said yes. He is straight with kids, I’m gay but never told him. Unfortunately the spa thing never happen because of how busy we where with work and him with his family. However every time we talked he always brings it up and when we try to set a day he always says he he busy with his family.The other day we where talking about the spas and being naked there. Which lead to me telling him about stories where I have almost gotten an erection at the spa. We continue the conversation until he even told me his dick size. And then we talked about ejaculating.I would love to go with him, he is a great friend and also very good looking. But I notice that since our last conversation about his dick size and ejaculation he has been a bit different, more distant. Do you guys think I offended him or did something wrong? I don’t want to loose his friendship. Should I bring up the spa again?
Gay, Black, and expressing my Goth Punk. (FINALLY!)
So something that my family had tried to abolish in me and that I was very scared and unaware of how to express is my Goth Punk self. I have always loved the style aesthetic, the music was the beginning, and then just it all! The worst feeling though in this feeling of being feared, questioned and rejected for being Goth, Black and gay. I get things lie how can you be Goth when you’re black? And quite frankly that bothers me because Goth is not an ethnicity/race associated thing. Idk where I was going with this. I guess I just want to reach out and find the other GothGays!
Having trouble with my own sexual distinction...
I've been wondering for the past few years about my sexuality. I'm definitely predominantly into women, both romantically and sexually. With men, it's a bit more complex. You see, I've realized that I have a fetish for having gay sex. Many people wouldn't consider that a fetish, and claim that all that really is, is a normal same-sex attraction scenario, but I like the idea of having gay sex as a taboo experience rather than enjoying it for its own sake. This seems to me like some weird internalized homophobia thingy, however, I was raised in a very open-minded house, and don't have any political or religious views that condemn homosexual behavior, so unless I inherited some gene for bigotry that I've been suppressing, then that theory is also not amazingly backable. So as you can see, this is my supreme conundrum, and I'm looking for any explanations for my situation. Idk, I'm probably just Bi lol.
What do you do?
How do you deal with it when someone attacks you with gay stereotypes? I have recently been dealing with a lot of stereotypical questions from the few friends of mine that continue to be my friends after I came out. Like : "How did you become gay? Are you the man or the woman in the relationship? Have you had any STDs? Do you want to become a woman? When did you learn you were 'reverse' (it is a very common word for gay ) ? " or advice like "gay men and prostitutes are at higher risk of ... " and so on.
Good names for a gay group?
I’m the organiser of a Sydney Australia pride float. It’s just a group of friends with no specific cause.We need a name to identify us as a group. Something that can be used again and again each year no matter what theme we choose. We’re mostly gays, but also some lesbians in our group.
Crush on straight friend
I would like your opinion guys, there is this guy who is like my best friend, however one night we got drunk and I told him that I liked men. So things heat up and I ended up sucking him, next morning it was like nothing happened. I did not mention anything, weeks later same thing happened we go out with friends and he stayed in my house. We did some lines and he told me to suck him but this time we chatted about it. We still text but just like friends and pretend like nothing happened , he lives out of town and tells me to go to visit him. Do you think I could have a chance or do I leave as they are?
2017. október 26., csütörtök
I'm the only person in my life that's not ok with being gay
Everyone has shown that they don't care and are suportive but meI don't know where this self hatred is coming from I should be happy that every one is ok with it but I feel ashamed and embarrassed about it Why?I've been getting better I'm slowly unrepressing feelings I can actually look at someone and say they look good in my head but I still catch myself in denialI dont want to come out I dread the idea of doing it just exposing myself like that telling them what they already know I feel embarrassed about it I wish everyone knew so I wouldn't have to tell people im gayI know im just lieing to myself but how do I stop? I just want to accept myself
Sooo I just came out to my sister
And omg I'm crying tears of joy. It'll be hard for me to translate this into English from Norwegian, but whatevs, here's her response: "First of all I just want to say thank you so much for sharing something so nice with me. It's so important that you're always truthful towards yourself so promise me you'll always be that. This is your life and your possibilities to make yourself happy. You'll always have my support in life. It's so nice you're figured these things out at such a young age. I'm infinitely proud of you brother❤️ If you have any concerns or just want to talk about anything you can call whenever.... (insert personal stuff here)" I came out over text as she lives quite far away and I don't want to take the chance of anyone in the house hearing it. What did ya think??
My coworkers eat at Chick-fil-A a lot, am I justified in my anger?
(For context I work in the fashion industry in NYC)You would think most of my coworkers would be liberal and somewhat aware (many of them consider themselves progressive) but to a large extent most of the people I work with are completely unaware of a lot of important issues. I'm sure if asked outright all of my straight coworkers would say that they support LGBT+ equality, but when pressed further they know very little about what it actually means to be an ally. I think it's more of "pop-culture tells me to be/ think this way so this is how I conform to that mindset" sort of thing.Today six of my coworkers came to our rec room with food from Chick-fil-A. It is widely known in the office that I boycott this establishment due to their support for anti-LGBT+ organizations (a lot of people seem to think that they ceased their support for these types of organizations, but when you do a little digging they donate a startling amount of money to orgs that enforce strict anti-LGBT+ policies). A few months ago I was invited by the same group of coworkers to get lunch their and I simply explained that I was going to pass because of this. I got a lot of raised eyebrow and wide eyed looks, but they still went and ate there. However, today they came into the rec room where I was eating and mockingly apologized for buying their lunches there. Then they proceeded to tease me about how good it was and continued to say things like "oh, but sorry it's just sooooo good. I mean like I support the gay community though. You should lighten up." It was pretty hurtful to be honest. I've struggled my whole life with people harassing/ assaulting me for my gay identity. I was bullied relentlessly in high school and to this day their have been times where I've been with a boyfriend or another gay friend and have been harassed on the street. I won't get into the nitty gritty of it, but I'm sure many of you can relate. I just find it really hard to believe how little regard they have for how their eating food sold by a company that actively seeks to oppress the LGBT+ community is not a joke to me. I believe in everyone's freedom to support the businesses that they choose, but they claim to be sympathetic and supportive of me as a gay person yet they make jokes at my expense while supporting this establishment. It is highly upsetting to me and I find myself growing a great deal of resentment towards them now. I see it as a larger reflection of how homophobia is still so accepted and ingrained in our society in increasingly more subtle ways. Larger still I find it a reflection of the times we are living in. People can claim one thing (that they're an LGBT+ ally), but then go ahead and knowingly counteract this claim all the while still considering themselves righteous.I am so angered by this. I see it in many other aspects of my personal life too and it becomes more and more apparent the more I observe. My question really is: how justified am I in my anger? I take their transgression so personally, but at the end of the day all they see is a fried chicken sandwich and an angry gay coworker at the office who is easily dismissed. How would anyone else feel in my situation? Sometimes I just want to calmly explain to everyone in my life that exercises this type behavior that I can no longer have a personal relationship because they offend me on a very fundamental level. This would leave me with a very small social circle, but given the current political climate (in the US, but globally I guess) that doesn't necessarily seem like such a radical reaction to me. What do you think?
Need Help Getting Checked. Please Help
I am 16 and was always the impression that hospitals were confidential and that parental consent wasn't needed for most things, as long as they aren't surgical. I called my nearest hospital and asked what I needed in order to get checked, and they said your health insurance card and ID. I then said that what if I'm underage and aren't able to get those things, to which he responded that I needed parental consent in order for a doctor to get checked. Someone please help. I'm scared that I may have something and I would honestly be kicked out if it was known that I wasn't straight.
crushing on a straight girl
i know. it's a cliche. i knew i shouldn't have. but i couldn't help it, i couldn't stop following her around, and now i can't get her out of my head. there's a song i love by my favorite artist and every time it plays i think about her. i miss her when she's not around. i love how close we've gotten and how easy it is to be me around her. i could practically beg to be apart of her life now. i think i would do anything for her. and she has left me wanting.help. how do you get out of this?
Do straight friends always feel like their gay friends are coming onto them?
Hey, I feel like most of my life i've been isolated by not having many guy friends but over the past few years I've actually gained so many but I've really had one burning thought in my mindI always feel some awkwardness speaking to them about stuff because I feel like they'll always think that i'm coming onto them and I feel like there's a wall between us as I can't really do the normal thing where guys joking flirt with each other as I think they would get the idea I'm actually lusting over them.Does anyone have any similar experiences or just any reassurance or am I exactly right in thinking that they'll always be a barrier between me and other lads?
Someone to text
I feel like I post on this sub too often. But whatever.. I’m like trying to recreate my entire life and I like opinions so this is a good place to get them.Okay what I am looking for is someone to text. Just a friend. Someone who isn’t going to send me nudes or want to see mine. I want someone who’s going to talk to me every day. Someone who’s not going to judge me for the shit that comes out of my mind. Someone who I can come to in crisis, in boredom, in whatever mood I’m in. I just want someone I can trust and rely on. Hopefully that I can develop a friendship with for the remainder of my life.I’m pretty easy to get along with so I don’t particularly care about age or other junk like that. We’ll know if we’re going to click once we start texting. Pm me your number or ask for mine or whatever and we can get this going!
Dream
I just had the most beautiful dream. I was in a place where my family loved me and accepted me and I was getting married to this very handsome bearded guy. And then I woke up and the reality hit me so bad that I almost cried.
How old were you when you first realized you were sexually attracted to men? (Or women if you're female)
For me I was 4 years old. My mom was dragging me through the men's underwear section in a department store. And when I saw the pictures of the bare-chested men in their underwear I felt an intoxicating warmth flow over me which I would later learn was sexual arousal.
22M Public Jerk - Opinions?
I wank off in public places 3/4 times a week.I'm not an exhibitionist, or a 'flasher', and make every effort not to get caught, but the inherent risk of being in a public place, surrounded by guys who don't know what I'm doing really turns me on.I regularly fantasise about what would happen if I got caught, and whether another guy would join in (obviously) .I also wonder/fantasise if other people do the same thing as me? If you do and wanna chat, holla or PM me.So far this week, i've cummed in: 1) the gym shower cubicle (partially-frosted door) 2) an empty top deck of a bus (facing away from CCTV) 3) a high-street store changing room (curtain mostly closed)Open to opinions and discussion: I figure if no one knows i'm doing it, and i'm not harassing / assaulting / bothering anyone, is it a 'bad' thing to do? Am I alone in this?✌🏼
Any Successful Relationships After Caught Cheating?
Hi there,I am looking for relationship success stories after cheating. I caught my boyfriend cheating on me on Saturday and we have been broken up since. We have been in contact with each other and he is really upset that he hurt me. To put it into perspective, his best friends told me that he has thrown up and has been shaking and they almost took him to the hospital because he was having a panic attack last night.The likelihood of him doing this again is nonexistent, but it will take some time to rebuild trust.I am looking for any gay person out there that either cheated or was cheated on and had a successful relationship afterward.I'm also looking for tips and advice. I have already made up my mind that I will give him a second chance.Thank you all so much.
Is it considered an insult to be labelled as a 'twink' ?
Hi, I'm a straight guy, early 20s. Last night I went to a bar to meet up with a group of friends. One of the people in our group is gay; just met him that night, but he was super hilarious and seemed like a genuinely nice guy, so I don't think he was insulting me.Anyway, yeah, we were talking about the types of gay guys, and he said that I would definitely be a twink. At first I didn't take offense, but then one of my other (straight) friends who was described as a "bear" started roasting me for it and kept calling me a "skinny-little bitch"I'm confused though, because while I'm definitely skinnier than this friend who is apparently a bear, I'm also taller, broader shoulders, and slightly more muscular than this guy (although he's more like short and stocky buff, whereas I'm longer and leaner).I kept my mouth shut at the time, but I was definitely getting annoyed.
Pleasuring my friend
I’m 15 this year and I’m studying in a boy school. Here’s my friend Louis which always talks about porn, girl and horny stuffs with me. In class we always touching each other’s dick and handjob for each other.I like him sitting on my dick in class cause it makes me feel like i’m fucking him and i always erect to that. And there’s one day when we talked about do we dare to suck cock. I was like it’s no big deal. Then later that day we went to toilet fap together. He asked me that if I really dare to suck his cock. I bent down and kiss on his dick, in fact that time i’m kind of scare to kiss his dick . Then, he asked me to put his dick inside my mouth.I started to hold it and put inside my mouth. His dick is big and tasty. I fell in love with his dick the first time i suck it. I deep throat it, lick it’s tips and do anything to his dick with my mouth. After 20 minutes of that he suddenly asked to fuck my ass. I turned my back to him and let him do so. But sadly his dick is too big to fit inside my ass. Cause our class is still on going we put on our pants and got back to class without him cumming.The following days, I found it really tasty and i really wanted to taste it again. So I begged for him day after day. Finally 3 days later, we went to the rooftop and do it again. We took off our pants and started to fap together first. Then his dick was just like a magnet attracted me and i bent down and suck it. It goes on about 20 minutes, he said he can’t cum with my mouth. Then I just put my tongue out licking his dick while he fapping. In about 1 minute he told me he about to cum. without thinking anything, i put his cock inside my mouth and he cummed inside me. That feeling was just great. After I swallowed the cum, I got back up and stated to kiss him. I kissed him for about a minute and I realise I might’ve felt in love with him.But sadly after a week or two, we fought and never got back together. Now I just can imagine the scenario when I was playing with his dick while fapping.
Dad had a heart attack
Hi, I haven't been on reddit for a long long time. My life has been going well and I haven't had much time. But last night something happened and I need to share and ask for opinions. My husband and I were at dinner at my parents' house. My parents have always been very very conservative but they have made much progress over the years. Last night however, we brought them news that we have decided to have a baby and they took it really badly, they were very shaken so we ended the subject decided to give them time to think it through and accept it and went home. A few hours later ( about 1 AM) my mom calls me crying and tells me they are at the hospital and that my dad had had a heartattack. He is going to be okay but I feel guilty that I somehow brought it upon him by stressing him so much :/
Gay Relationship Advice
My boyfriend of 10 months is going to this party I was originally invited to but due to the fact that we had a minor breakup, his bestfriend does not like me. I am not going to the party but I feel uncomfortable that he goes specially when I love halloween so much. I already told him about how uncomfortable I feel about it. I am not being pushy about it since I am giving him space but I wish he would cancel his plans with his bestfriend and her boyfriend so he can go with me to a party. Am I overthinking about this? too much to ask? Help what would you do?
Strawberry... sweet yet sour...
I live in a country which gay is prohibited as most of the Asian countries are... nonetheless I can't deny I am desiring a relationship which might be fruitless in the end...Online dating apps prove to be disastrous because most of the guys determine relationship compatibility with sex rather than chemistry...This is a sad community where i can't be picky about my choice...
I’m gonna fucking die
I’m 18 in college and a closeted bisexual. My friend I met on move in day just became my roommate.He’s said he straight. And that’s ok with me because people love who they love.But I have an issue. I’m in love with him. He’s literally the spitting image of a boyfriend I want. And he does these things in the room that turns me on and teases me. For example he like to sit around without his shirt on. And since he’s a soccer player he’s very fit. Good abs, good muscles (but not too muscular since that’s a turn off for me) and the perfect face, not to mention his most perfect eyes. So him having a shirt off is normal to him, but he doesn’t know that’s it’s fucking killing me.And since he’s a soccer player he practices almost every other day. When I come back to the room and he just got back from soccer, I die. Yes he is sweaty and smells like boys playing soccer but it turns me on. I smell testosterone, sweat and hit wet hair 😩.Anyways I do not know what to do. I masturbate every night to the thought of him and seems to keep me at bay, but I’m worried one day I’m going to be very Horny and do something that could ruin our friendship.Help!!??!!
Question about sex roles in gay relationships
I don't have a lot of gay friends in real life, so I apologize if this sounds naive.I'm male-bodied, but sexually I feel more like a woman. For example, I want to be pleased all over my body, without a specific focus on the penis. I like having long hair and I wish my skin were softer. I like breasts. I strongly prefer to be passive sexually, and become enraptured in full-body orgasms. I moan like a woman.I guess it's sometimes hard to reconcile the way I feel sexually (which I would call "feminine"), with my body, which I would call "masculine" (hairy, muscular, etc.).Even outside of my sex life, I like wearing nail polish and dresses because I think they look great on me. So, I ask you, strangers -- Are my ideas of feminine and masculine totally outdated and inaccurate? Is it normal for a gay man to feel this way? Or is this kinda strange, and should I look more into my gender identity?
My School’s Theatre Department is Being Censored. Help
Recently my school put on a play that involved a lesbian couple on stage. It was very obvious and apparently one of the parents who went to see it complained and now our theatre department is required to get all of our shows checked for appropriate content and, apparently, showing healthy gay relationships isn’t healthy. I want to fight this but I really don’t know where to start. Any help or advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
2017. október 25., szerda
Where can I run away to...
Okay so not really run away. I just need a change. Let me preface this by stating that it will be planned and thought out, I’m not just going to pick up and leave on a whim. I’m in a lease until April so it’ll be until approximately then...Basically, to make a long story short, I just need a change. I’ve lived in the same town for my entire life, almost 25 years and I really just want to move away. My best friend is moving to New York after our lease is up and asked me to go along, but I don’t want to live there. It’ll lose its magic if I live there.I’m gay, and I like small places. So I guess I’m kind of looking for suggestions on where I could go that would be a small town feel, but would be understanding. Somewhere I wouldn’t get shot walking down the street just because I’m gay.I live in central Pennsylvania now, and I’m open to pretty much anywhere in the country. I’ve always wanted to go to like Minnesota, Michigan Area, but never even been there to visit because I couldn’t afford it.Any suggestions? What about places that you are all from?
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