Gay, Black, and expressing my Goth Punk. (FINALLY!)

So something that my family had tried to abolish in me and that I was very scared and unaware of how to express is my Goth Punk self. I have always loved the style aesthetic, the music was the beginning, and then just it all! The worst feeling though in this feeling of being feared, questioned and rejected for being Goth, Black and gay. I get things lie how can you be Goth when you’re black? And quite frankly that bothers me because Goth is not an ethnicity/race associated thing. Idk where I was going with this. I guess I just want to reach out and find the other GothGays!