Not photogenic = doomed

Anyone else hate the fact they can't take a good photo for dating sites ? Compound that with the fact that I'm not a bar / club person, therefore dating sites and apps are the main way to meet guys.The irony of it all is that guys who do see me in person always say I look 10x more attractive than my photo. It's just that I actually have to convince guys to see me in person to begin with.At the same time, I'm not paying a photographer 100 bucks to take a professional photo of me that doesn't look like crap.