Am I gay or just a narcissist?

So here's my story: After years of frustration I finally lost my virginity to an attractive woman 5 months ago. It went alright for the most part (tl;dr she was really hot and I don't regret it but wearing an unlubricated condom and getting drunk kind of backfired). But the best way to describe my sexuality up until that point was this: I watched straight porn and definitely considered myself straight but was more picky about the guys in the scenes than the girls. I specifically wanted the guys to look like me (masculine, white, short light hair, kind of baby faced, muscular but not "ripped" build) or my idealized version of me with a full beard and even more muscle. I probably got more aroused by these kind of naked men than naked women, but I am not into "twinks." At all. So last month, I met up with a guy on Tinder that had that kind of look I like. He was a Marine (which I find really hot for some reason). Throughout the night I was thinking about what we were gonna do later and got a slight hard-on when I did. When the time came, I felt way more turned on than when I did with the woman, and the woman was very attractive. We started making out and feeling each other up, then I started giving him head, which I actually really enjoyed. He had a hot, uncut dick. He sucked me off for a little bit, then let me start banging him. I used Trojan ENZ condoms with KY jelly and it was a struggle getting the position right at first, but when I did get it it was very pleasurable and I loved the sensation more than I did with the vaginal intercourse (although as noted, I was using non-lubricated condoms then). I really enjoyed looking at and feeling him during this.Ever since then, I've been exclusively swiping at guys on Tinder and Bumble and watching gay porn. I don't get turned on by even the best looking women anymore. Here's the thing, though: I am very, very, very picky about the guys I'm physically attracted to. I would say I swipe right on maybe 5-10% of guys compared to about, say, 40-50% of women when I considered myself straight. If you gave me a choice between banging a semi-attractive woman and most men (the 90-95% I swipe left on), I would probably choose the woman. But I would much, much, much rather bang those 5-10% of men with that ideal look that I do swipe right on than even the most beautiful women. I have major crushes on Andy Butler (frontman of Hercules & Love Affair), Stipe Miocic, and Liev Schreiber.Is this normal? I feel kind of shady and narcissistic (though I'm a very insecure, self-critical person) but I can't help it.