After realizing you're gay or homoflexible, how do you get out of the stage where you can feel uncomfortable, sad, or weird about it?

I recently accepted I was a naturally at man who was conditoned to like girls, it left me homoflexible instead of gay. I believe it's true but I just feel weird about it. I feel depressed, insecure, and awkard about it. I want to just want to get to the point where there's no discomfort about being homoflexible /naturally gay. I don't know how to speed up the process.