Introverted / Otaku dating?

How does one find and date a home body?I am far more comfortable staying at home with a good book and movie than a bar.The common theme I've seen in dating advice is date people at the things you.So how do I get gay guys to come over to my place and play mario cart.Here in NYC its go to this bar or that bar; which fails cause I dont drink beer or wine.How did you find your introvert boyfriend?