I realized something about aging and being gay.

everybody is aging. not just me. when im 10 years older, so will every guy on grindr. i was feeling a bit sour because i realized i was gay at about 27. i have basically three years of still being considered young. lots of guys already would consider me older... but everything is relative. take solace in the fact that you dont get older in a hyperbolic time chamber, so to speak. you get older in real life, with everybody else. i feel like i have a new perspective, and it is comforting.