Want to Chat with Gay/Bi Guys Who Went to Virginia Tech in the 90s

I attended Virginia Tech in the 90s. I now know I'm bisexual but at the time I was confused and unhappy with myself and did not date.I've since found out I have body dismorphic disorder and have been treated for that and other mental issues. I was a decent looking guy but I wasn't like guys I thought were attractive. I didn't know if I was attracted to them sexually or jealous of them - it was both and was a very painful feeling.I never knew anyone that was openly gay or bi. I can't think of anyone that I even knew of from classes, etc. that might have been. I didn't have any friends that I could talk to about myself. Friends probably thought I was gay because I never dated but there were some girls that were interested in me but I thought so little of myself I missed such obvious signs lol! And a few girls I did try to move beyond friendships or causal acquaintances with really treated me like shit.Anyway, bye bye Tech and a few years post college I decided I needed to see how I really felt about guys before I got too old to date anyone I found attractive. I had been working out at Tech but stopped but still filled out a bit and was more happier with myself. I found out that gay.com was a thing (is it really still?) and hooked up with a few guys and made a few friends - not close but we hung out occasionally. I was really paranoid about STDs so I didn't do much but yes yes I liked guys haha.I moved and that died off as I found it harder to meet people online. I went through a long period of not dating and am now in a serious straight relationship.Anyway after all that I'd really like a chance to talk to some guys who were at school around the same time. How did you meet guys? What was the gay community like? Did you have a crush on the same hot guy as me? Were you one of those guys I was sooo obviously staring at? I loved school and would love to chat about any of it but especially a big part that I missed out on.TL;DR - bi 90s Virginia Tech student wants to chat with bi/gay guys who attended at the same time to see how their college experience went