2016. május 9., hétfő
Heading off to college soon and kind of confused
So, I'm going to college soon at a medium-sized liberal arts research university (that one well-known school in Providence, if anybody knows anything specific about it), and I don't really know what I should do.I've been looking forward to this fresh start in a long time, so I'm not sure how to approach this without messing it up.I do know that my school is known for being very liberal and there is a stereotype that all the guys are gay, but I don't know how I should present myself when I go.People wouldn't really suspect that I'm gay on first sight (or even maybe at all, since I don't really talk about anything sexual or romantic ever), so I'm worried about whether I should be open with it at first, and just make it "not a big deal" ever, or just never mention it and leave subtle cues for potential people I'm interested in (if so, what kind of things should I do, anyway?).The school also has a hookup culture, and I'm not really into that (though I have heard that there is a considerable dating scene there), so that's something that scares me.I've never even experimented sexually with anybody else before, so I would have no experience either.Despite this, I really want to try being in some relationships during college. I'm just not sure how to start / what to do. What about dating apps like OkCupid? How would I be able to tell (maybe even just get a hint at) whether somebody is gay anyways?
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