I've been told by a psychoanalyst that homosexuality is a choice

Today I went to a psychoanalyst, It is not the first one I went to, but this one has been recommended to me by a medical center.I explained my problems and how I’m struggle with being gay, how it affects me everydays etc. she asked me questions about my family and specifically if my brothers have made heterosexual choices, I said they didn’t choose but yea they are. latter on she came back with that telling me that I don’t accept my choice, so I said again I didn’t choose, same way i didn’t choose to be brown hair or left handed, she said yes indeed these are not choices but being homosexual is an unconscious choice I asked her couples of times to explain what she meant or maybe if she had a different meaning of the word, I was thinking maybe in psychoanalysis the word choice have a specific meaning, but it seems that it is not the case.it hurts me that it comes from someone who is supposed to help me, and I’ve the feeling that she doesn’t know what she is talking about. what do you guys think about that ? is she crazy ? or is it me ?