Possibly Petty Partner

​ I've been with my partner for close to a decade, and in that time, things have worked well for me but he's not been so lucky. We've both made a lot of sacrifices, him more than me, which has left him with basically no career whatsoever. Currently we're out of our home country coz I'm studying. He's got a shitty job, I've got a kinda nice job, and I went out with my office buds for a drink yesterday and my partner blew a fuse coz he doesn't get to go out anywhere. He's got no friends, never has, while I've been lucky to always have great friends. So now I'm being made to feel guilty any time I socialise without him, which is about once a year, which isn't that often. Is he right? Should I not have a social life either coz he doesn't? Or is he a possibly petty partner?