Good gay subreddits?

It seems that "Ask Gay Bros" is the only active gay men's subreddit that isn't all about posting porn or selfies. =\ But I don't fit in there at all. They're the elitist type that hate me. They're obsessed with going to the gym, think every good man needs "shave and a haircut" (which counteracts their bear worship though), they don't except anything not "normal guy". I mean I'm not really feminine either but I just feel like I can't keep up with anyone's standards there or anywhere and I need a new, active gay reddit group to frequent. Is this a good one to ask questions and such?