2016. január 11., hétfő
Anyone have not-so-good coming out stories?
About a year ago I had posted a thread here asking for help. At that point I had only just accepted my sexuality and my life was turned upside down for a while. In the time since then, I've pulled myself together and have actually managed to come out to my gram, brother, sister, aunt and uncle and entire social network of friends with no flak so far.I've not actually came out to anyone since summer 2015 now, after I came out to my gram (the last person I've told since) I've felt like I've told everyone necessary up to that point. Only now I'm really interested in this guy and I think he's interested in me.I don't want to start or try anything with anybody while I'm still half in the closet. This guy is really great though, and he's giving me really strong hints that's he's interested (we both know we're both gay - it's nothing like a 'he might be straight' scenario) I've read stories of completely open people dating closet cases, and I can only predict it ending badly with drama sprinkled all over if they're any indication of what's to come..So if I actually want to start seeing where things go with this person, I kind of feel like my only good option is to come out to the rest of my family --- namely my parents.Now I hope I'm not the only person here who feels this way, but it comforts me to hear coming out stories where the ending isn't picture perfect. It gives me something to expect and prepare for I guess, and I know I should prepare for the worse when it comes to my parents and my sexuality. That being said, if it's not too hard for you, does anyone mind sharing some kind-of-negative coming out stories just so I can broaden my perspective?Thanks again r/gay, you are a great place to ask advice at.
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