Is being a thin guy that bad?

Like everyone talks about the stupid skinny fat syndrome, but like having 13-14% BF and being 145 lbs, I just find it annoying. Guys say I am attractive a lot, but I find the people who just obsess over everyone being too "thin" or skinny fat to be annoying and doesn't face matter more. Looks are only one part of the picture, but people never seem to get that.