So how does all this work out when your ugly?

So whenever I see all these stories of the athletes coming out and being accepted by his peers or just things getting better for people in general, the guys are always conveniently gorgeous.So how does it work out for ugly people like me? From my experience, no one give a shit, or cares, or even gives you a second glance. You get ignored, laughed at or get shit talked behind your back. So I'm just wondering when all the joy, acceptance and happiness starts coming into play when ur an ugly gay guy?