I'm gay. But I don't feel gay.

Hey guys. New poster here. I wanted to put something out there that I've been thinking about for awhile. Maybe this will help me make some sense of my life, I don't know.Anyway I'm a 22 year old English Major in Michigan.I also have cerebral palsy so I use a wheelchair. I've been out since I was 18, and ever since I broke up with my first real boyfriend a couple of years ago, there's a small part of me that doesn't feel like I'm gay. I look at all the gay people in my world (the GSA and LGBT community at school various OkCupid and Grindr people) and I don't relate to them AT ALL! In my experience, people make being gay this all encompassing issue. Being gay is their whole life. And because I don't feel like going out to pride and waving a flag, I feel like gay folks don't have time for me.I don't know...I don't expect there to be any resolution coming from this. I just thought I would put it out there.I'm sorry if anyone finds this offensive, not my intention. :)