My thoughts on sexuality as a straight man and why I am so comfortable around gay men "NSFW"

So I recently had a friend come out to me and the whole process has really given me new perspective and had me doing a lot of thinking lately, so I wanted to share some of my though on sexuality since I think you guys may be able to relate (or maybe not and I will learn something else new this week)So when I was a teen, my penis started to tell me what it liked. now mind you a penis does not talk to you in words, they are way to dumb for that. my penis talks to me with emotion, hardness and wetness (pre-cum). So when my penis started talking to me I was not really surprised by what it was telling me at first, it all seem pretty standard. then as a young adult I started to really find my self and question just about everything I knew. around that time I got to finally experience some adult naked fun time with a girl and I found out that my penis liked a few things that I had no idea why. she would do this, or I would think about that and the dam thing would be fucking purple and make huge puddle. the things were nothing crazy but I would be like "really? that does not even make sense". it was at that point in my life that I sat down and had a long, hard talk with my penis (as I think all young men need to do at some point). I don't know if you have ever tried to have a conversation with a penis, but I found that it is entirely one sided. the dam thing can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop bothering you, until it gets what it's after. Okay, maybe not that bad, but you get the point. so it was at that point I realize that I have absolutely no say in what this thing likes. Some of the stuff I though I would like was just okay, and some things I never even though of would make it stiff as a board. at that point I had two options, I could ether embrace the things that my penis likes and just let go and enjoying its enjoyment of them, or I could pretend like he had never told me it like those things. I decided that since I am stuck with this same penis for the rest of my life and that I could never tell it what to like or not like, I may as well enjoy giving it the stuff its likes and not fight it or think to hard about way it like them. ever since then I could never understand how anyone could be mad at a guy for embrace what his penis told him it liked (as long as it was only with consenting adults). I know there is a lot more to love then what my penis has to say but that is a story for another day.another reason I am so comfortable around gay men is this. I love looking at hot girls. I have been looking at every one I could for most of my life. seeing a good looking girl in tight paints will put me in a better mood on a subconscious level. it just makes me happy and I cant ever tell you why. So if I can bring that kind of happiness to a gay guy just by letting him see me (I am in pretty in shape guy) I don't see how that is a bad thing. hell, I am glade I can bring that kind of enjoyment to someone with out even doing anythingThe other thing is gay men are still men, we like something in theexact same way, it just that I like X and the other likes Y, but we have the same desire to find what we love and feel the same way when we love them and they love us back.so what do you guys think? can you relate to anyone of this or am I way off base posting this here?PS: my penis realized I was talking about it and as I found out as a teen. if you leave someone in a quite room with a penis long enough, someone is going to end up paying with it. there just do dam fun not too!