Boston area bi curious

26 years old straight acting and only been with girls, but have strong gay fantasies. I have tried finding someone to meet off cl discreetly but either people are creepy or just unattractive. I dont want an app on my phone to worried someone would see it and im not even sure I'll like being with a man or not. Can anyone give advise or know any cool bars or resteraunts in the area that are good for meeting nice, hot guys?