What's the best dating site for us?

After a year of being single, I'm ready to get back out there. I haven't been on the market in about five years, so I'm pretty out of touch.I'm on a few apps, but it's just the same 20 guys that never talk to each other. I've given up on grindr altogether. Anyway, I'm not looking for hookups. I'd like an actual date or two.What do you use? Match? Ok Cupid? Zoosk? Farmers only?As much as I would love to just meet a guy in the wild, that seems pretty unlikely. I live in a small town. There is no 'gay scene' that I'm aware of, and I have like... Zero gay friends. I still make passes at cute guys on occasion, but they're invariably straight.