Gay dating...

I need help finding a boyfriend or serious partner. Someone that's good for me and is wants to be involved in a monogamous long term situation. Where do I find these guys? My area is mostly filled with tacky trashy sluts. I don't even worry about getting married right off, just want to be happy. Used grindr, scruff, match.com and nothing worked.All I want is to have someone to wake up to, call on a bad day, and go to Disney World with.HELP!