I am an introvert 24 year old gay man. I haven't ever had a relationship and need help about dating gay guys. :(

Hi everybody. I do not usually post anything on reddit, but I saw this subreddit perfect for sharing my experience.I am from Colombia and people are very outgoing here. For some reason, I am rather quiet, tranquil and I prefer to be alone. The therapist told me I am a highlly sensitive person, so generally places where gay guys usually meet, are horrible experiences for me. I do not drink, I do like to dance, but just in family meetings and I really do not like loud music. I hate it! I have tried it before and I feel very, very odd. I do enjoy books, time alone, nature and learning new languages, but most gay guys I know only care about party and other gay guys.I do not think I am ugly and usually gay guys like me, but I am not experienced, I do not know anybody who can help me know how to 'date' or 'approach' guys and the clock is ticking. What could I do to meet gay guys? Are there any gay introverts out there who understand me?